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Large exterior shot of a white, two-story transitional house with a red roof and a tile roof.
sorry if youve already talked abt this, i couldnt find much -- as a multigender/genderfluid person, what do i do regarding hormone therapy? my dream appearance changes literally by the hour, some moments i deeply deeply yearn for the effects of hrt & some moments i get scared of it because i dont want anything to change. im sure some of it is just general fear of change but it also is Definitely gender-related a lot of the time .. im really just not sure what to do :[ tips/experiences?
I think the question to keep in mind is what would be the easiest "default" body to have? If there are certain traits that you would want to change on a regular basis, what would make that trait easiest to adjust?
In case that's not making sense, the aspect of my body that I have this question about is my chest. My chest dysphoria/euphoria fluctuates a lot, so sometimes I want boobs and sometimes I really want a flat chest. I'm trying to figure out whether it would be easiest to have a flat chest and use breast forms sometimes, or have boobs and bind sometimes.
Just... ask yourself what would minimize dysphoria and what would make it easiest to maximize euphoria. It's okay if you don't know the answer yet- gender stuff takes time, and there's nothing wrong with being unsure.
As for the general fear of change, I have no idea how to help you there because I'm very much also struggling with that, but I wish you the best of luck.
Pieced together with scraps
Of holy books, bound with the glue
Of a mad and desperate hope
Hang them on your shoulders,
Shine with the terrifying joy of being known.
Indulge in the sacrament of transformation,
Commune with the highest powers,
Feel your sacred self soar
Out of your bones; float in the whispers
Of thin air and cold mists.
And touch the terrible, destroying
Light of the great and fiery sun,
Falling up into the clear and silent realms
Above; the light piercing through your
Gilded flesh, radiating silvery threads.
Shed your hallowed frame and return anew
Crash and scorch the forests,
Turn the desert sands to glass,
Strike the earth with the force of
Lightning, scream your name like thunder.
Rise, smoldering, skin in embers and blessed
Black char, step from your crumbling grave
Bring new life to desolate plains,
Cleanse the salt from the fields,
Extend your arms, and breathe finally.
Breathe new air,
Breathe in new lungs,
Breathe fire and flame
Breathe nothing and everything
Breathe, at last, you.
I haven't been on Tumblr too long, but I had to share some incredible news. My wife has just returned home from a month long recovery in Thailand, where she had her SRS. My wife now has a PUSSY!
The moment in between what you once were, and who you are now becoming, is where the dance of life really takes place.
Barbara De Angelis
Settling will never make the fear and pain go away.
Enjoy our "Rediscover You", post.
What do you do to rediscover yourself?
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Comment je vois BLM vs la transition écologique :
Source : article du 13/05
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Hey, for any fellow trans women out there, I have a question. I've developed a mass that seems to be growing beneath the skin of one of my breasts and it seems to be relatively attached to my nipple beneath the skin, is this something common? Is this something to be worried about?
I'll probably talk with my doctor about it regardless of responses, but I'd like some additional outside info, please and thank you
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my friend said he ordered me a binder (because i can’t get one myself) and it’s supposed to come next week !!!!!!! i love him so much. screw that i love all of my friends so much !!!
i think if jessie and james teamrocket transitioned theyd just switch their names and call it a day. or this already happened. this is my one true belief
It's insane how (some) cis men think it's completely normal and okay to have a wife that loves them unconditionally and serves them at every whim and caters her whole life to her, meanwhile I feel bad and selfish for wanting one that will sometimes fuck me and actually give a shit about my personal life and give a bit of physical affection sometimes.
Maybe female socialization is real and it's making me incredibly dysphoric. Just one of those things transition can't resolve.
I'm going to SCREAM why are trans people so mean towards other trans people? I could genuinely pour my heart out about how the trans healthcare system quite literally traumatized me and I'll get a bunch of people like "errrrrr that didn't happen me, you're probably just making it worse in your head, just answer honest to the doctors and everything will go to plan" WHAT
I'll get lynched, but trans women most definitely have privilege over trans men when it comes to receiving trans-related medical care, and yes that has to do with amab privilege, which is also very real, even if you transition and you're "no longer a man" for lack of better words. There's an inherent privilege to being amab. Obviously being a trans woman doesn't come without downsides, but you also retain some amab privilege, especially in healthcare treatment.
As someone who fought tooth and nail for my transition, I sometimes need American trans people to respectfully shut up. Like what do you mean you came out one day then started hrt 6 months later? Get out of my sight
Ughh maybe it is.. plus I have a large chest as a man.. so I imagine I would have nice breasts
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