This Is Quite Helpful 🫶🏻

It’s exactly how it is, do not overcomplicate it

How Interacting with People Should Make You Feel:

• Valued

• Understood

• Energized

• Accepted

• Encouraged

• Respected

• At peace

• Motivated

How Interacting with People Should Not Make You Feel:

• Judged

• Drained

• Insecure

• Ignored

• Unappreciated

• On edge

• Misunderstood

• Pressured

I love my tumblr fam!.❤️ it’s like whatever I’m going through someone other is too and finds it’s easy to put it in words.🥺🫶🏻

Tumblr is such my safe space.

Bored in public? Tumblr.

High? Tumblr.

Going thru some shit? Tumblr.

A person who values themself has standards and remains exclusive

They don’t need attention from the masses because they know their worth

They understand that being accessible to everyone lowers their value

They are selective with who they date because they know it’s a reflection of them

They aren’t seeking superficial validation online because they don’t need it and most likely get it in real life

They make career choices that align with their passions and beliefs and don’t comprise their morals for a dollar

They understand that quality friendships are more important than a large circle of acquaintances

They love themselves and take care of their body, they don’t partake in hobbies that are unhealthy

They invest in their personal growth and education because they understand that expanding their knowledge and skills increases their value

They are mindful of how they spend their time and choose environments that nurture their growth rather than drain their energy

They don’t settle for mediocre and always strive for excellence in whatever they do

They avoid toxic relationships and environments

They are intentional with their energy and choose to share it with people that align with their values

They practice self discipline

They like being alone and understand that being alone is a time for reflection and recharging

They have very strong boundaries and demand respect in all interactions because they respect themselves first

At some point you realize, you don't need certain things in your life anymore. They have served their purpose. New things are calling you, things that match who you have become. You acknowledge that things have changed, as much as you have, circumstances have turned & you are at a place where you haven't been before. Embrace it. There was never something to fight about, there was just always this invitation to flow with it, as it naturally transforms.

Cuts deep

"Beautiful Losers", Leonard Cohen

being close to me is a privilege, you can’t replicate my aura

Better days are yet to come 🤗🌸

♤ chasing my dream has never been this easy, & I love it. ♡♡♡