18. Where I spew my thoughts out for strangers to see. Vent blog/rant blog/gush blog
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Give me money…or a shotgun with one bullet…
Btw if you're a person who is in school or at work, you are not a NEET. NEET literally stands for "not (in) education, employment, (or) training" which means kids on here who call themselves "NEETS" who still go to school? No tf you're not. Me being a NEET isn't a funny lil word trend, it's my actual life due to mental and physical disabilities, health issues, and complete lack of a support system that will ever help me return to both education and work.
You don't WANT to be a NEET, it happens TO YOU
wake up, rot in bed all day, fall asleep, repeat. such a miserable way to live, but i can’t do much else. i’m entirely useless.
Bye this is so fucking funny
𝙸 𝚠𝚒𝚜𝚑 𝚒 𝚑𝚊𝚍 𝚏𝚛𝚎𝚒𝚗𝚍𝚜 𝚠𝚑𝚘 𝚞𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚛𝚜𝚝𝚘𝚘𝚍 𝚖𝚎
gay ppl will talk to someone twice and then have a crush on them
Shout out to me for finally figuring out all the parts of my identity
there's really nothing as amazing as having a real cuddle with your friends tbh. laying on a bed, limbs completely tangled together, leaning your whole self into someone else. and knowing with a certainty that none of them see it as anything other than platonic. that it's really a group of friends being closer with each other than they are with anyone else. that it's okay if I'm holding his hand and it's okay if I lean my forehead against hers and it's okay if card my hands through his hair and it's okay if I lay on her arm and it's okay if i just hold them. because we're a bunch of friends enjoying our time and physical closeness together. we all know that there's no way in hell any of us "like like" each other, but we all know we love each other, and it's amazing.
why are romantic relationships / affection prioritized over other types of relationships / affection i hate it here
just had an experience
Userboxes for all arospec orientations I could find.
Arospec - aromantic or are closely related to aromanticism when placed on a spectrum ranging from aromantic to alloromantic.
Aegoromantic - those who enjoy the concept of romance but do not have a desire to participate in romantic activities.
Apothiromantic - does not feel any romantic attraction and is repulsed or disgusted by it.
Aroflux - fluctuating between experiencing and not experiencing romantic attraction, or that attraction is being experienced to alternating or changing degrees.
Aromantic - do not experience romantic attraction, or experience little-to-no romantic attraction.
Autoromantic - elicit romantic attraction from themselves, by themselves.
Bellusromantic - having an interest in conventionally romantic things without desiring a relationship.
Cupioromantic - do not experience attraction but do desire a romantic relationship.
Demiromantic - do not experience romantic attraction until they have formed a deep emotional connection with someone.
Desinoromantic - do not experience "full-on" romantic attraction, but do experience "liking" someone instead of loving them romantically; the attraction then goes no further.
Frayromantic - only feel romantic attraction to people that they do not have a strong emotional bond with.
Grayromantic - low amounts of romantic attraction, rarely feel romantic attraction, only feel romantic attraction under specific circumstances, or are not sure if they experience romantic attraction.
Lithoromantic - feels romantic attraction but does not want that attraction reciprocated or loses attraction when it is reciprocated.
Nebularomantic - unable to or has a hard time distinguishing romantic attraction from platonic attraction due to being neurodivergent.
Quoiromantic - not being romantically categorizable, being unable to tell the difference between differing kinds of attraction, being unsure about experiencing romantic attraction or not, and/or not feeling the concept of "romantic attraction" to be relevant to oneself.
Recipromantic - only experience romantic attraction after knowing that the other person is romantically attracted to them—that is, when it is reciprocated.
do people genuinely feel a …. need? for romantic attraction? It isn’t something they feel that they can opt in or out of?
I don't wanna hide it in the tags
You are valid (:
it’s like i’m seeing her naked
'ao3 needs a like and dislike button'
what you need, my algorithm-rotten minded friend, is a grip
Fun Story to Share.
I got my (now 18-year-old) daughter into Ao3 back in 2021. I taught her she should always comment - even if the fic looks old or abandoned or whatever. She did.
Well - she got this email this morning:
The fic was written in 2014 and essentially abandoned.
Bethy read and reviewed in 2021 (and was actually the only person who had commented at all).
Today in 2025 - the final chapter was posted by the author and this was her reply to Bethy’s comment.
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Never question whether a fic is too old to comment on.
at this point i'd just comment kudos on each chapter so author know how much i like the story
"you've already left kudos here. :)" ok and I'll leave some more. You got a problem? Because in my opinion, this work is so good and the author totally deserves it
does anyone wanna hold hands until we feel a little braver
one of the best features that the godforsaken app called Wattpad has given us is the ability to leave comments on a specific quote.
ao3 when?
i wish ao3 allowed people to give kudos per each chapter. These 100k word NOVELS need more love than 200 tiny digital hearts ☹️
I for one think the symbiotic relationship between Tumblr and AO3 is beautiful
u ever just past by a random tumblr acc and ur like “woaw! this person is mentally ill as fuck!” and u almost feel better abt urself until u see ur reflection or smth and realize how bad u are too