Xenogender - Blog Posts

Partially me :3

I’m Parafeminine (mostly woman)

And the other part of my gender is

(It’s dumb, I know but we don’t judge)

👹👁️E N D E R M A N G E N D E R 💜✨

Xenogender Vaporeon pls :3 <3

tropical fish

🦋[Hey loves <3 How are you all doing? I apologize for not posting for a few days, i get busy frequently :( But, just know i still love n care for all of you, so here i am back with another positivity post <3]🦋

🦋[This one is quite specific, but this one is for the people who identify w/ xenogenders/neurogenders, cause, i do as well, and ppl who used these are always so shitted on, sooo]🦋

🦋[All proshippers and selfshippers who identify with xenogenders are VALID!]🦋

🦋[All proshippers and selfshippers who identify with neurogenders are VALID!]🦋

🦋[All proshippers and selfshippers who use neo/xenopronouns are valid and very cool, and yes, your pronouns should absolutely be respected no matter how 'dumb' someone may think it is. It isnt dumb, btw <3]🦋

🦋[Dont let neurotypicals tell you how you can and cant identify as (i see it is mostly neurotypicals who do that) and that is honestly ableist how they shit on people who use these without even understanding how much it helps ND's. You all are precious and very much valued, especially here, you are valid and loved and cared for no matter how you identify. ♡]🦋

🦋[Id really appreciate it if anyone who uses these comments or sends in an ask telling me what xeno/neurogenders or pronouns they use, only if youre comfortable <3 Id like to make this a more comfortable safe space where people can express themselves freely so <3]🦋

Max/ The Emerald Spider!

A punk, green, trans and plus size spidersona!

Context:

"Any more bright ideas?"

"I wasn't bitten by a radioactive lightbulb bro!"

I love being a little freak.

I love using neopronouns and xenogenders.

I love being slightly greasy at all times and smelling vaguely of MSG.

I love having a bunch of peircings.

I love being an alterhuman.

I love using complex labels that most people don't like.

I love accommodating myself regardless of what people say.

I love being able to sniff out autism like a bomb dog.

I love knowing a little bit about everything but fully understanding maybe one thing.

I love looking like I am Not a Human Person.

I love that my speech is delayed from the movement of my lips.

I love being a creature.

I love being a thing.

Being trans nonbinary is so annoying because my brain is like "We have dysphoria, let's transition so we can pass!"

Pass as what?

It's so stupid hard to "pass" as androgynous to the general public. It's this obnoxiously thin line that feels completely out of reach to get to, at least not without giving up other forms of gender expression that feel euphoric to me. I wouldn't even mind not being fully androgynous, if nothing else I just want to make people stop and think for a second before they inevitably go ahead and misgender me anyways.

It sucks that the best I can hope for in terms of transition is confusion. I see trans binary folks talking about the euphoria they get from passing and being accepted in society as their true gender, having the ability to go stealth. And I desperately want that too. I wish people weren't so hellbent on sorting others into binaries at all costs, and I wish there was hrt that could make me androgynous without giving me other traits that I dont want (ex. facial hair, bottom growth, heavily masculine voice). I literally just want to be seen as who I actually am and it's crushing knowing Im probably never going to get to have that.

I think one of the greatest feelings an individual can experience is believing for years that you're fundamentally different from everyone else in the world in some way and that you're the only person alive who experiences something in a particular way, and then one day all of a sudden you stumble onto another person like you and all you can think is "Im not the only one?"

maybe there's something im not understanding here, and honestly at the end of the day i don't really care one way or the other this is a pretty exclusively online topic, but the whole "neo/xeno AGAB" thing is like... vaguely transphobic right?

and i am absolutely 100% NOT the person to try to tell others how they should identify or what labels they should be using, im literally a transmasc nonbinary mspec/queer lesbian transspecies werewolf who uses xeno pronouns for fucks sake, it doesn't really get anymore "queer as in wtf is going on" than that.

but from what i've seen and read about it, it kind of seems to be simultaneously reinventing and discrediting the definition of transgender. To directly quote the "AGAB Non-Conformity" infographic made by @/nonconformityhub,

"Those who reject their AGAB, are unassigned, or were forced to fit a binary sex at birth may wish to self-assign a different AGAB. It's based around the idea that we shouldn't be forced to stick with a falsely assigned gender."

like, am i not understanding something or is that literally just the definition of being transgender or gnc?? i think the thing that rubs me the wrong way about it is that it almost kinda implies that as a transgender individual you should or need to disclose the gender you were assigned at birth to others, which (unless it's for legal or health related reasons) you literally just don't. If you are a trans man, congratulations, you are a man. You don't have to be an "AFAB man", you're just a man. As far as anyone else needs to be concerned, you are male and have always been such. The whole point of being trans is to reject the gender you were assigned at birth because it's flat out not what you are.

Idk again I don't really care that much I don't think it's gonna single handedly set back trans liberation or anything of that sort, I just feel like we SHOULD be focusing on dismantling the system of assigning genders at birth to begin with and reasserting that sex ≠ gender, rather than simply modifying the system to appeal to certain individuals and disregarding preexisting communities trying to accomplish that goal, and would maybe just encourage everyone to look at this kind of stuff with some healthy skepticism

Using my it/its pronouns irl is basically just a marriage proposal tbh

As someone who's transmasc nonbinary, getting bottom surgery just isn't really something that appeals to me. Not sure why, I certainly have other forms of gender dysphoria, but Ive simply never felt discontent with what I was born with down there and currently have no plans to modify things.

However.

If it was possible for me to have a sheath I would POUNCE on that opportunity so fast omfg.

This coyote is going to the Seattle Pride Parade for the first time this weekend and I'm so crazy excited >w< ☆.°✧🏳️‍⚧️

Catch me around wearing some of my pins that I made :3

Theta Delta sticker batch ive been working on! Planning to add more flags and possibly sell them in the future maybe?? Feel free to request flags also! ^^

(Flags listed L to R: blank, transgender, pride, bisexual, pansexual, polyamorous, lesbian, gay, nonbinary, rabies, transspecies, xenogender, abrosexual)

[Your gender is related to dogs somehow? That’s so cool!]

me: so being autistic effects every part of me...

allistic: ok

me: it even changes my perception of gender...

allistic: that makes sense

me: i identify as autigender because my experience of gender is intertwined with my autistic experience

allistic: AuTisM IsN’T A GENDer?!!!!

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autigender doesn’t necessarily mean autism is a gender, it is simply a term autistics can use to describe the way their gender and autism interact (hope that helps explain it!)

despairgender - remastered

hello i'm back and stealing shit that i hate and making it my own. i remade these because the og despairgender is a kinnie gender and i'm a system with fictives not a kinnie, and i'm probably not the only one who would prefer a regular xenogender flag for it

here's a list of the meanings

red - other emotions that come with despair. rage, sadness, defensiveness, irritation, etc.

white - the sliver of hope that comes with being in despair, hoping things will change / improve

black - the pure emotion of despair consuming you when you think of your gender

monokuma - monokuma, if your despair is related to the series. if not, there's a plain flag.

cropped 1:1 with transparent backgrounds for easy discord emote upload, specifically for pk or whatever emote needs you have

dni if you're a shitty freak that's all

Character sheet of my OC the Moon Goddess

Hell yeah mcsm genders ‼️‼️

Lukasgender: A gender relating to Lukas from Minecraft Story Mode!

Mayagender: A gender relating to Maya from Minecraft Story Mode

GillMgender: A gender relating to Gill from Minecraft Story Mode. The M just stands for Minecraft since Gillgender is already a thing hah

Aidengender: A gender relating to Aiden from Minecraft Story mode

The colors on the flags in order from bottom to middle/top to middle is: Their haircolor, eyecolor, clothes color, and color of their leather jackets!

Ocegender: A gender relating to the entire Ocelots Gang from MCSM. The stripes are each members eye color with a small streak of their hair color inside the stripes.

Skyblockgender: A gender related to skyblock! Could also be related to Sky City from MCSM!

Incase you couldn't tell, my current hyperfixation is MCSM.

Feel free to use, with credit :3

My Pinterest is glitchy as fuck and won’t let me comment/reply most of the time and also I can’t see my keyboard when I’m typing and it drives me batshit crazy

So instead of informing the person I wanted to inform on Pinterest why pipeline punch monster energy is actually a valid gender, I’m gonna tell you.

Xenogenders were created for I believe autistic or general neurodivergent people.

Not everybody experiences the concept of gender in the same way, and sometimes we just can’t find the right terms to explain exactly how we feel, so we get as close as possible.

A bridge example is the singular xenogender label that I personally am considering. It’s a song gender of Savage Daughter. I think my gender fluctuates, I don’t think I’m a girl a lot of the time, but when I listen to that song I feel a deep sort of femininity that is specifically like a wild woman in folklore. I could stand to be a girl if I was a wild woman in folklore, but not in the modern interpretation of femininity. The way in which I am feminine is raw and open, and if it was anything but a xenogender based on a song it would be much more widely accepted.

And people who use xenogender labels don’t hurt anyone. The only way I can think of would be queerphobes or people new to the concept of queerness getting overwhelmed by things they can’t understand yet, but that’s why we take things one step at a time. Just because not everybody can do multiplication doesn’t mean algebra doesn’t exist.

I understand the feeling. It doesn’t make sense, it seems like a mockery. But it’s not a mockery, it’s genuinely how these people feel and it’s the best way for them to communicate themselves.

TLDR: let people use xenogenders. They are doing their best. It’s not your problem. Try to be kind, as a general life principle.

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