Non Binary - Blog Posts

if you're going to firmly believe that there's only 2 genders (don't but like), be like my uncle who doesn't understand trans identities at all but told me (a nonbinary person who just came out to him) that if anyone made me uncomfortable because of my identity he would be more than willing to step in and give them a SERIOUS talking to

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Hello! Some People may see this as "chronically online" take bur I disagree.

So, I'm non binary and I am also someone who's very passionate about musical theatre and singing, I've had almost 8 years of theatre experience and I've been thinking. A lot of people typically will say "girls" when they mean higher voices, and honestly it can cause a lot of dysphoria for me. So i think its important we start using the terms lower voices and higher voices more when describing a song or a role, especially considering even for cis people not everyone's voice fits into the typically male or female vocal range.

If anyone agrees please reblog!!

Personality wise for them I'm going for mute calm but can be silly when the times calls for it and can easily crush a human skull with there bare hands

Not trans masc (androgynous non binary) but I am a muppet 😁

i fucked up the last poll fuck shit

i forgor the "transmasc but not muppet" option. im silly.

rb for reach pls ty

hey so I heard we were styling affirmations after accidental allies?

'gender' is made up pronouns are made up

I'm not 'cis' I'm not a 'birthing person' I'm not a 'penis haver'

I'm not confused

I'm not a 'real man' I'll never be a woman

I am Weird

Some days I will look into the mirror and see a stranger. Or looking back at me might be someone I've been searching desperately on another day, yet now grieve to see. It is not that I'm a stranger to myself, my soul I know, but these expressions, they don't belong on a face I'd read as mine. This form betrays me. These feet can't carry, and this voice can't say.. it frustrates me. And I search. I run these fingertips across it, sometimes enjoying bits of it, sometimes wondering if there's somehow I might mold it to better fit. But the truth is there's nothing much wrong with the body. I might admire it even, were I not trapped in it. But it doesn't feel like it should belong to me, doesn't feel right on me.

A vibe, crop top shirts, raccoon in a jacket.

explain your gender in 10 words or less without using boring words like “male”, “female”, “nonbinary”, “masculine”, “feminine” or “androgynous”.

go!

Don't know what about you people but I'm a Charles Rowland he/they swag truther.

I don't usually do this but if you read webtoons please go read Tripp. It's on Webtoon website (unfortunately it's not updated on tapas) and it's criminally underrated!

It deserves way more love and affection.

The main character is enby! That's something rare to see.

It's about space it's fun and it's queer. The characters are really lovable the moment you get to know them, I really recommend.

So I wanted to join in on the pride event using my lovely duo here. (It’s hard to make an outfit non binary and not look like a clown) but yeah

Day 1: Discovery

Quinn discovered they were bi the night of their junior prom when they were helping Selma get ready (this was also when they started developing their crush on the girl). They discovered they were non binary while in college when they found out what it was, but always felt uncomfortable their whole life being their old gender.

Selma discovered she was pan in high school after a couple years of experimenting dating while at a pride parade with Quinn.

As for myself, I based Quinn’s orientation more on myself (bi/non binary) just not the discovery of it though. I used to go to a very religious private school so I didn't really discover myself till like a year after I left there. I feel I would’ve found myself sooner if I had never reallly gone there but then again they were all convinced i was gay for years after I got a buzz cut at eleven and by my tomboyish nature.

I discovered I was bi a few months after I left after talking about my fictional crushes to my mom’s lesbian coworker (who used to be my friend but we had a rough fall out) She eventually asked me if I was bi after I mentioned my crushes on many of the gems from Steven universe and eventually had to explain what it was to me. I didn’t really come out until a year later till I was more certain it was true.

I only really discovered I was non binary a year ago when I found out what it was. I actually spent basically almost my whole life hating being shoved into the category of being female and always found it more comfortable when people didn’t know or thought I was a boy. I know I started off thinking I was genderfluid for a few months until I found being called a they was more comfortable and it’s nice since even though most people around me are still learning to call me “they” and luckily they all support me and my choices (except my stepdad but when aren’t stepdads jerks tho). But that’s really it. :P

Pride event created by: @lm3poltergeist

I have bangs at the length where they look cute when they're out but I can easily tie them back in a ponytail for my agender days

I wanted to draw a lil' portrait of myself imagining how i would look like on hrt and after top surgery, finally being able to rock crop tops i want. It gave me so much gender euphoria, i can't even >< I can't wait to get further into transitioning medically, im trying to transition socially for now and .... its a struggle sometimes, but it's oh so worth it. In the end it became my new awatar, hope you like it :>

Also - i'm cooking some more arts in the back, i just have to somehow finish them and not start another milion new projects :"") Wish me luck with my chaotic mind...

NEW GENDER JUST DROPPED!

Bonus lil' sketch of the boys going to the pride event! :>

i've realized that a lot of the things people who abide by the social expectations say are from their own perspectives and they cannot be accurately applied to my trans experience.

'don't transition, you're just insecure/mentally ill/traumatized(/whatever other reasons they have)' are all the failed attempts of a cis person empathizing in a way that ranges from inconvenient at best to transphobic at worst, depending on where they take their assumptions, and these perspectives don't take dysphoria (or euphoria, on the contrary) into consideration as a reason someone might want to transition, because cis people don't know the extent of our dysphoria, as well as the other experiences that we experience alongside it.

this attempt shouldn't be taken too seriously; it happens with many other people as well. 'you're just lazy' (against disabled people) 'you'll meet the right one someday' (against aspecs) 'just go outside, you'll feel better' (against mentally ill people and those facing worser issues besides mere depression) 'just go ahead and try it' (against neurodivergent people as well as those with physical disabilities), 'you'll be grateful when you get older' (against people who faced parental abuse), do these perspectives sound familiar? they all come from the people giving you advice in a way that worked for them, as a person abiding by the social expectations; many people aren't sure what empathy really means, and ao they empathize by giving eachother advice. those answers genuinely work for others like them; they won't for us. in worser scenarios, we're judged or hated because of their failed empathization. and because we're kept near the sidelines, and they manage to help eachother, anyone who doesn't empathize in the way they do is thrown out. people with low empathy and those expressing it in different ways also suffer from this. but even those who abide by the social standards aren't entirely accurate with their empathy, if they have it.

and i just wanted to share this, for anyone who's suffering from internalized transphobia (and perhaps other self views about other parts of your identity), in case it might help you distance yourself from it and worry less about whether they're right. they're not, because they're judging you from their viewpoint as a cis person. try not to take it to heart; you're fine the way you are, i promise.

Submitted May 27, 2023

Happy pride! I had a second to sketch out a bit updated portrait of me with my flags :> I have a bit longer hair now and different cut, surprisingly i feel even manlier like that xD

I've made a little sketch of myself, added "biblically accurate angel" vibe for fun. It's quite bold and so unapologetic, so funny to look at my art from my egg days totally being like "this is totally a character, not me" and now... NOW BEHOLD AN ANGEL BOIII

Here's the art i'm mentioning:

Tbh i love them both, both express me in different ways (and i love both styles).

Just now i'm so happy to truly be myself and getting more loud and more proud about it.

I need to buy/ make an angel halo...

HAPPY PRIDE!! im going to my first pride event this year im so excited!!

Trans Awareness Week art

Ok so before the art I'd just like to say...

I kinda recently discovered that Im 🏳️‍⚧️ trans 🏳️‍⚧️

Thought that might've been kinda relevant and a bit of a life update

Anyways here's the art:

Vivian from Paper Mario the Thousand Year door and the first trans video game character Birdo from Super Mario Bros 2/USA

Napstablook, Ruins Dummy, Mettaton, and Made Mew Mew (aka the trans ghost cousins) from Undertale because I love all of them

And lastly

Me and my partner @thegothicfairy222 who's Ambonec

yes I know the trans flag heart is colored wrong and the blue used for the trans colors is too dark and I am already imploding myself over it

Anyways we're gay

Ok bye

Ok but what about them?

Fish

Finally found my sketchbook

So I made these goobers for gay month

All people are Non-binary

If you aren't made of 1s and 0s you aren't binary

Sorry to say my friend

This isn't Undertale related but I though this was funny

Pls tell me it is