I will go down with this fight
as a feminine trans man, i will personally fight and die for feminine trans men and masculine trans women to have their genders recognized correctly and not invalidated by people by virtue of their trans status.
feminine trans men are still men. masculine trans women are still women. doesn't matter if they've haven't taken hormones, changed their name or pronouns, socially transitioned, or have. nobody defines us but ourselves.
Question (/gen)
where can I get a bra that I can use as a binder? Or like, good bras I can use as a binder?
I want something I can hide from my family. so maybe something from like Walmart or Target or something. Preferably not from Amazon or an online site. And If it is from online, then it can’t say ‘binder’ or ‘compression bra’ or anything like that.
Thankies
literally we need to get rid of the stigma of questioning once and for all.
call yourself gay. call yourself ace. call yourself a lesbian today and a nonbinary bi trans man tomorrow. its fine. literally no community has ever been harmed by someone thinking that label might apply to them and then discarding it later. anyone who says otherwise is drinking the exclusionary kool-aid and isn’t worth the time it would take to argue with them.
I need advice!
I am out to people at school and very much in the drama community as trans and with a new name. I am in our fall show and a lot of my family is coming to the performance. I am not out to my family, but I also want my name to be correct on the program. I don't know which I hate more.
Plz send help
El being ace actually makes a lot of sense. If the show was more queer and focused more on that, I could see El realizing she is aroace and was taught that romance was expected and was just trying to fit in
st fandom collecting queer couples be like:
(yeah el is ace because i said so hehe)
You are valid <3
Hey it’s ace week and you’re local ace has something to say! I’ve been out as ace for 3 years now and it’s still a big part of my identity that I’m proud of so here’s a lil something for those who need it!
Gay trans men are literally the sexiest mother fuckers alive. Like? Holy shit.
[ Link to survey ]
The ninth annual international gender census, collecting information about the language we use to refer to ourselves and each other, is now open until 13th August 2022.
After the survey is closed I’ll process the results and publish a spreadsheet of the data and a report summarising the main findings. Then anyone can use them for academic or business purposes, self-advocacy, tracking the popularity of language over time, and just feeling like we’re part of a huge and diverse community.
If you think you might have friends and followers who’d be interested, please do reblog this blog post, retweet this tweet, boost this Mastodon post, check out this post on Reddit, share this Facebook post, and share the survey URL by email or at AFK social groups or on other social networks. Every share is extremely helpful - it’s what helped us get 44,000 responses last year.
Survey URL: https://survey.gendercensus.com
The survey is open to anyone anywhere who speaks English and feels that the gender binary doesn’t fully describe their experience of themselves and their gender(s) or lack thereof.
Thank you so much!
[ Link to survey ]
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