troy from community is so aggressively bisexual why are we one in the same
honestly, it wasnt as bad as i thought it would be, but it was still pretty awful. the insertion was painful but i wasnt nauseous, didnt pass out, i was kinda thirsty and tired afterwards tho.
my nurse was also a trans guy too!! his name was pete and he was so nice and made me a million times more comfortable.
around an hour or so after the insertion was when i started getting really really bad cramps. typically, my period cramps are like a 5 or 6 but these were like an 8 in my opinion. the only thing thats helped so far has been tylenol (cant take ibuprofen for medical reasons) and heating pads--cant stress that enough: heating pads were the only things that helped. a couple hours after the insertion the pain was too much for me so i took so melatonin and slept it off.
biggest piece of advice, drink water and eat something beforehand, bring some water and a stuffed animal with you for support, and have the doctor talk you through the procedure. afterwards make sure you have a heating pad, some tylenol or advil, and if you can, sleep it off. call some friends to take your mind off the pain as well.
keep things casual and light-hearted, when i came out to my mom we were just sitting on my living room floor and i asked if she knew what the T of LGBT was, and went from there. if they have questions, answer them if you feel comfortable. i came out to one of my brothers beforehand (via meme) just to test the waters a little bit because my family is religious. luckily, i’ve been out for a year and it’s been great, but my dad took around 6 months to come around. if someone is not accepting, don’t hesitate to do the best thing for YOUR mental health. if that means not talking to someone for a while or cutting them off from your life, do what you need to do. be sure that you have people that have your back outside of your family, i don’t know what i would’ve done without my friends.
Best of luck!!
I think I'm going to come out to my family ahhhh
I could some advice?? Help??
trans ppl are so mfn cool bc we are all such different people from each other but we have common ground on our identities
all my best relationships have been t4t but at the same time i have MAD beef with the other 2 trans guys from my highschool
we are all unique complex people and some of us dont get along very well but there is a mutual understanding of who we are
going stealth means choosing between your safety and your community--a decision i never want to make. i fear the time to make that decision is drawing closer and closer. facial hair and muscle growth, a deep voice and adam's apple, blending in and keeping quiet. stifling excitement when i see someone like me. unable to speak up. hiding a pivotal part of who i am. fear. fear is on all sides of being trans. the side that holds most love is with my brothers and sisters, protesting and speaking out.
look at him and tell me you arent absolutely enchanted
would u be down to be friends? i can offer animal pictures :]
YES i would love to be your friend oh my god wait i can provide animal pictures too omg this is so cool
River Jude Phoenix
men’s thighs (crowd of hundreds of thousands applauding)
god hes so hot and so miserable
QUEER SEX IS HOLY / FAGGOTS FUCK BETTER