I'm Seriously SO Mad At The NCTzens That Invaded PERSONAL SPACE On NCT's OWN Tour Bus

Something I wanted to say…Leaders

I have to say this after just realizing it with some of my favourite groups…personally I am NOT a fan of any kinds of hierarchy because I think we can only survive if we finally accept equality as a common thing for everyone. Now in kpop, there is this thing with leaders I lately felt like talking about because of that… what makes leaders the best and what doesn’t.

Being a leader means to guide the group, NOT to dominate it.

I’m not saying this because I want to shade or blame any other group, it’s just that some give different vibes here than others. NCT for example has almost 20 members by now, but somehow, they still manage an equality.

And that is what a leader has to do - bringing balance in the individuality of members to make them a team. And this is why being a leader is so hard.

You have to take care of every single member, every individual problem and need, every opinion. And then, you need to bring these together in ONE and balance them out to create the right vibe of the group because let’s be honest here, that makes 60% (at least) of a group.

I know not many people see this but it is also one big reason why some groups become big and others don’t, no matter what talent they have. It is the energy the group creates, and it is the leader’s job to guide them there.

People don’t see what thesee groups go through, we only see the outcome. A leader has to take care of all of it despite their own needs, need to solve every issue without being biased not only for the group but the company, and besides that, protect them from the wrong influences or possible scandals. They have to keep the face of the group and make it as easy as they can, no matter what.

And through all of that, fight their own insecurities. We don’t see the burden. And of course, some of them might get scared or overstressed because that’s hell of a position to be in.

You need to make it fit for everyone. And that includes the group, the fans who can be just as cruel, the management, media, and sometimes even families to please. Only one mistake you do can destroy it all for the members.

Now imagine being in that position without any of these giving you the respect to keep you stable. Let it be immature fans, bandmates in a difficult position, contracts you signed burning your freedom away or media on your heels. This is not a job for everyone, especially not for those who try to deal with it by ‘ruling’ over their group and keep control. This causes imbalance, and noticed or not, you will be able to feel when the dynamics in a group change.

Leaders are there to balance it all out, and some need to remember what it’s like to hold more strings that anyone can see - and that they are still only human.

True leaders chose the group over anything else. Fame, issues, insecurities. And that’s why the group accepts them as a leader.

I just wanted to say that because I find some of them are doing a great job.

긴긴 하루가 지날 때 /  After a long day is over 너의 옆에 있어줄게/  I’ll be next to you

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My bias: [breathes]

Me:

Piglet honey

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why can’t sm town make nct dream a fixed unit and just make like another unit for all the like 04 liners and call it uuuh nct daycare

Kind of annoyed

I’m a BTS fan and have been since their debute so don’t fucking come at me with bullshit, you’ll be blocked and ignored.

I’m annoyed that they’re being considered for military exemption and if its only them that pisses me the fuck off. Just because they’re on the Billboard doesn’t mean they should get special treatment when every other boy group who works just as hard has to do their mandatory military service because they’re not “popular” enough. Thats bullshit and thats wrong, and it makes me so fucking mad that it has a good possibility of happening. I hope it doesn’t pass because there’s no equality there.

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This made me laugh so hard & idk why😂

Bottom!Soo Fic Rec

Soooo, since everyone is asking for bottom!soo fics, I, your lovely Admin R, decided to make a huge rec list with some recents fics + some of my favs !! Let’s go 

BDSM/dom-Sub (Powerbottom!soo is included) :

Kaisoo Fanfics :

Love In Control 

Put Your Faith In My Stomach 

Hold Me Down

Ink&Blood

I’m A Screamer (Make Me Mute) (There are tons of kinks in this)

Rookie Boy (some quick switching)

Make Me Submissive 

Treat Me Like I’m Bad

Gagged And Shagged

Wild Thoughts

Be Good!

A Little Affection

Fluorescent

MeetADom.Com

Chansoo Fanfics

He Who Will Sustain You

Black Milk

Chaleur Corporelle (Breathplay)

Controller

Amorphous

Baeksoo Fanfics :

No Self-Control

I’ll Let You Whip Me If I Misbehave

Krisoo Fanfics : 

Tearing Me Apart 

A Prince And His Guard

Xiusoo Fanfics :

Connection 

Ot3+: 

Attention, Please. (Chankaisoo)

F U C K Me Tender

Slut-Shaming/Humiliation : 

Kaisoo Fanfics

Measure Up (+ Size Difference)

Glory Days

(Right Here Between Your Hips) This Is Where I Want To Live

Heads Or Tails

Primitive Desires

Accidentally On Purpose

Ot3+

Wined, Dined, 69′d (Baekhyun/Kyungsoo/Chanyeol)

Pearls All Fly(Chensoo/Baeksoo)

Size Difference/Size Queen!Kyungsoo :

Kaisoo Fanfics : 

Grace Period

I Belong To You

Size Queen

Strip Me Up (And Tear Me Down)

When The Moon Is Up (I Don’t Have To Share You)

Chansoo Fanfics : 

Love Is A High (We Feelin’ Alive) 

Brush The Sky

Let Me Liberate You

Body Moves (Me & You)

Big To Small

Untitled

Xiusoo Fanfics : 

Size Matters

Daddy Kink : 

Kaisoo Fanfics

Galactic Daddy

Collaring Daddy

JEALOUS

Sugar Plum Prince

Ardent Sense

My Miracle; My Blessing

Hands On You

Hold Me Down

Chanso Fanfics

Kyungsoo’s Frustrations

Try Something New

Lucky For You (That’s What I Like) (Slight daddy kink but honestly just read it it’s amazing)

Kyungmyeon Fanfics

My Daddy 

Baeksoo Fanfics

Call Me Daddy

Krisoo Fanfics

Soft Love

W.I.P: Kris/D.O. Daddy Kink 

Crossdressing/Lingerie :

Chansoo Fanfics :

Wait A Minute

Baeksoo Fanfics

A Lacy Surprise

Writer’s Block and Bussiness Meetings 

Kaisoo Fanfics :

Doll Me Up

Do Not Tempt Me 

Not For Free

Honey And Milk (+ Daddy Kink)

Red-Hot

Halloween is a Magical Holiday

Yes Master. (+ Daddy Kink)

Make Him Whistle Like A Missile Bomb

Other, random bottom!soo fics that didn’t fit in any of these categories :

Forgive Me, Father (Kaisoo)

Sexual Harassment (Chansoo) fisting

Eat You Up (Kyungmyeon)

(It Comes) Naturally  (Chensoo/Kyungmyeon)

Exposed (Chensoo)

Loser (Chensoo)

And Then This Happened (Taosoo)

Deaf (Taosoo) (Fluff)

Re-flowering Kyungsoo (Kaisoo)

Kiss It Better

Do You Know Them to Be Worthy? (Chansoo)

Powder Blue (Baeksoo)

Stressed out (Chansoo/Sesoo) girl!soo

Goal! (Hansoo)

Unicorn Pee (and Gummy Bear Bandits)  (Kaisoo)

A Half Truth (Sesoo/Kaisoo)

Laysoo Fanfics : Here 

Cock-warming : here + Busy Bess

A/B/O! au with omega!soo : Here & Here

Sugar Baby!Soo : Here 

I hope this is enough! If it isn’t, the bottom!soo fic fest is starts posting in a few months so just wait a bit 

Might be updated soon

owo

when he lifts his chin & shows his neck like that 🔥