If It’s Not Too Much Trouble, Could We Request A Headmate Who Is A Porcelain Ball-jointed Doll? Feminine

As awareness of plurality continues to spread online, that also means more and more people will realize they are plural. And unfortunately, there will be a response from certain gatekeepy exclusionist types, who will push back against these newfound systems and insist on invalidating them. They’ll insist they’re just hopping on a trend, or just fooling themselves, or whatever other justification they can make up to maintain the idea that being plural is extremely rare and being plural means suffering for it.

Don’t fall for it. Being plural presents challenges and difficulties without question, but being plural also can bring joys and clarity that weren’t possible otherwise. Being plural can be hard, and it can be beautiful.

No two systems present and function exactly the same ways. No two systems are plural for the exact same reasons. So we can’t expect there to be an absolute common trait present in every system. So any attempt to weed out the “fakers” is pointless and malicious.

If someone believes themself to be plural, they have good reason to. No further “proof” needed. If someone comes to us believing themself to be plural, we will help them along without critique or question. And above all we will be happy for them. Even if someday they realize they aren’t plural, that process of being allowed to question and experiment is so important, and they should be allowed to do so regardless of where they end up.

Plurality is a spectrum that encompasses a vast swathe of experiences and outlooks. It can be difficult to reckon with, which is why community is so vital. And as that community online grows and becomes more and more visible, we should all do our part, systems and singlets, to make sure these newfound systems feel safe, seen, and welcome.

a reminder that the host isn’t the only person in the system who should be respected and made to feel comfortable.

the host is not ‘the important part’, we are all completely conscious and capable of our own thoughts, feelings and our own boundaries. our brain created us because it decided that we are all important and needed.

the host is not the only member of a system you should care about.

The final stage of every OC's creation is having to go through websites like this to name it:

Names: Rosemary/ Jones/ Nadia/ Oak/Wallow/ Meadow

Honorifics: Enchanter, Mage

nicknames: The Witch

pronouns: she/her She/Her shx/hxr 🔮/🔮s/🔮self

gender: Girl+, lunarian(feminine nonbinary gender associated with the moon and the element of water)

orientation: AroAce

other identity: transdead, transghost, transspirit, transSelectiveMute

species: human, witch

age: Refuses to specify

personality: Solitary, creative, introspective and introverted.

quirks: often speaks in riddles

likes: Seeming invisible, doing divination, and staring off into space.

dislikes: Being perceived

role: Replacer, Entrancer, Emotion neutralizer

sign off: 🧿🪞

Hot take! anti endo rhetoric is like the whole transmed rhetoric of the 2010s Internet and it’s probably going to be treated as such few years.

Think about it before the Anthony Padilla video about DID a few years ago I don’t really think anybody cared about endogenic systems. Yes some people didn’t like them but I think most people didn’t really care about systems origins because nobody really knew or cared about systems at all after the video plurality gained quite a lot of traction more people are learning about it. More people were discovering themselves systems and as a result a lot of people develop an anti endogenic mindset because of whatever reason but that really reminds me of the transmedicalism mindset of the 2010s where it was the normal to invalidate shame transgender people who has a different identity and a different experience with transgenderness.

I believe in the next few years there will be more knowledge about plurality and people will no longer feel the need to shame and invalidate endogenic and mixed origin systems systems maybe even willowgenic systems. maybe not anytime soon but maybe in the next few years I genuinely think this is the case and it will happen

“Tudo que eu preciso é do seu pra sempre. Não posso prometer que as coisas não vão ser difíceis, mas eu juro que nunca vou ir embora. Por favor, fique para sempre comigo.”

— Sleeping With Sirens.

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Name: Demonica/ Shadow/ Erica / Frullista

Honorifics: The Dishonourable, The Fiery

pronouns: She/her he/him they/them it/its/itself demon/demonself 🌹/🌹s/🌹self 😈/😈s/😈self 👿/👿s/👿self

gender: Demongender. Void gender, Demigirl, demiboy

orientation: Sapphic, beunosexual, cupiogex, beyondsexual,

Trans IDs: transDevil transharmful transbully

species: demon/imp

age: 130+

personality: chaotic, unpredictable, self-absorbed, tricky, and often loud. They refuse to admit that they care. Or that they’re an empath. They don’t want to be an empath.

role: Cynic, delight(only for herself), Denier,

sign off:😈🌹/👿🌹/👹🌹 depending on mood.

YOUR HATE ISN’T PUNK

There are no punk values in your exclusionism,

There are no punk values in demeaning the lived experiences of others,

There are no punk values in making people earn their right to exist,

There are no punk values in punching down the people who live adjacent lives to you,

There are no punk values in a strict idea of systemhood and enforcing conformity to it,

There are no punk values in upholding an abusive and biased psychiatric system,

Dissect your views, uphold your community, kill that fucking cop in your head.

THERE IS NO CHANGE FOR A BETTER FUTURE IF WE CANNIBALIZE ONE ANOTHER TO UPHOLD ARBITRARY IDEALS OF WHAT A “REAL” SYSTEM IS.

pondering my orb