Plural Culture Is Being A Relatively Small System Then Going On School Break And Experiencing Massive

Please. I want to be a creature.

BIG BIG TW!!!!!

Important information for RQs

[PT: Important information for RQs.]

**TRIGGER WARNING for talk about nsfw activies with (young children.**

For this post, I will be referring to chrono children simply as children for the sake of simplicity. This does not (always) apply to transage children.

There is a server that I've seen being advertised a couple of times as a radqueer, pro-c server.

This server is called rad.haven, and is run by a user known as hibiscux (also on tumblr, they have the same pfp as their discord pfp).

Here is a series of screenshots of hibiscux and other members of the server, arguing with a member (who, IMO, has common sense. I blocked out their user as I don't believe they deserve to be brought into anything related to this).

As you can see from these screenshots, hibiscux and the other members of this server believe several things

That young children (as young as six, and possibly younger) can consent, and

That sexual acts with children do not harm the child, or

2a. That children understand the risks and possible harms that can be caused by sexual acts with adults, and can consent to those.

None of these things are true. MANY sources can tell you that sexual acts performed with children are harmful and cause mental and physical pain. This server saying that these things are ok, and that VIDEOING and POSTING these acts online is also ok, is absolutely fucking disgusting. This makes me feel sick to my stomach. This is horrendous.

If you are in this server, or support hibiscux in any way, don't ever fucking interact with me (unless it's to tell me to block you).

This is important. If you are in agreement with what I am saying here, please reblog this post to let others in the community know about this person, either so they block them or block me.

Sometimes you have to be yourself on purpose. What I mean by this is that sometimes we lose touch with ourselves and start coasting and just going through the motions. Which is fine for a while because we get tired and/or depressed and that's fine. Happens to everyone. But eventually it starts to feel bad and you get a specific kind of brainweird that's hard to describe but means that you've lost sight of who you are, what your values are, and what you love.

Leaning really hard into something that makes you go "this is the most me thing ever" helps that specific type of brainweird quite a bit! But maybe you don't know what the most you thing ever is. You are not alone! I get depressed and forget every interest I have. 100% understand that.

When this happens, it helps to remind yourself what you like and enjoy. So what do you do? Well for me, it helps to think about 1. Things I used to enjoy and 2. Things my friends Know Me For.

Like I've been feeling not myself lately and I haven't really knit or created much this month at all. But I'm the Makes Things Guy. I like making things and many of my friends not only know me as someone who makes things but a lot of my friendships specifically come from communities of People Who Make Things.

So I forced myself to pick up an old project, and that helped a bit. But what really helped was coming up with a project that combined my interests (leather jackets, art, and teapots) for me to look forward to and get really into planning for! The most ME I've felt in weeks has been the last hour I've spent planning on painting a famous fine China design on the back of my leather trenchcoat. Because not ONLY am I the Makes Things Guy, I am also The Teapot Guy. I finally feel like myself again.

I wish I had more concrete advice in regards to how you remember your own interests when you get disconnected from them, but a solid place to start is things you used to like and things your friends know you like. If you struggle consider asking a friend what things they know you like. Sometimes friends can see us better than we can see ourselves and it helps to use them as a mirror to see yourself through.

Sometimes being a system is "yes this one person has been fronting alone for the past five hours"

And sometimes it's "there's like 13 people near front and god knows which one of them is actually in control of the body right now"

YOUR HATE ISN’T PUNK

There are no punk values in your exclusionism,

There are no punk values in demeaning the lived experiences of others,

There are no punk values in making people earn their right to exist,

There are no punk values in punching down the people who live adjacent lives to you,

There are no punk values in a strict idea of systemhood and enforcing conformity to it,

There are no punk values in upholding an abusive and biased psychiatric system,

Dissect your views, uphold your community, kill that fucking cop in your head.

THERE IS NO CHANGE FOR A BETTER FUTURE IF WE CANNIBALIZE ONE ANOTHER TO UPHOLD ARBITRARY IDEALS OF WHAT A “REAL” SYSTEM IS.

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Hey! Do you use terms for your system besides "headmate", "alter", or "facet"? This post is for you!

Shoutout to:

Systems that use the term "system member" or "sysmate"!

Those who choose "part", "piece", or "aspect"!

The ones out there who use "pluralian", "pluralment", and "pluret" are so cool!

"Ceter" is unique and lovely!

"Walk-ins" and "spirits" deserve just as much space as anyone else!

Even the ones who see their members as "personalities" are welcome here!

And anyone else who uses a non-typical system term!

We love all of you so, so much! We wish you& the best of days, no matter what you choose to call yourselves!

🖤💜💙💚💛

yknow what every1 always talks about omegas being the ones to cook but hear me out, alphas in the kitchen

-> they plan meticulously to make sure all the meals are providing all essential nutrients

-> they feel pride knowing their pack is well nourished because of them

-> planning months in advance for holiday meals ("we'll need two turkeys, fourteen potatoes, three salads and a baked alaska." "that seems like a lot" "i'm worried it won't be enough")

-> big strong alpha muscles kneading bread/pita/naan/tortilla dough. you agree.

-> omega's hungry because of the early stages of heat? alpha's already baked three batches of cookies and a pizza

-> territorial grill-off's. arguing over the proper technique for kebabs.

-> cub/packmate has a big test, sports meet or an interview that day? alpha's up at dawn making a continental breakfast loaded with protein

-> the pack eats together. always.

just.... alphas in the kitchen y'all

(brought to you by an alpha who loves cooking for people)

your support for people’s trans identities should not bank on whether they are “ able ” to transition or not。

if someone does not have the resources to transition ,

if someone does not have the energy to transition ,

if someone does not want to take the risks of transitioning ,

if someone is scared of transitioning ,

if it is an identity that is “““ biologically ””” or , in some other form , unable to be transitioned to { im looking at you , anti transrace ++ anti transabled ++ anti transage folkel , who commonly use this argument }

they should be supported in their identity regardless。

likewise , if someone wants to transition and it does not nonconsensually harm people ,

they should not be judged。

transabled people developing symptoms , transracial people changing their appearance , etcetera , are not harming people by transitioning。

it is not for you to decide if the way someone transitions is harmful or not , it is not for you to decide if the way someone wants to transition is possible or not。