You’re right. Horikoshi does a disservice by framing abuse through the abuser’s perspective. What’s even more irksome is that he glorifies Endeavor’s minimal efforts to atone while downplaying the victims’ own efforts to heal. I mean, no one in-universe is making a big deal out of Rei potentially getting better enough to be discharged after 10 years in the hospital?
he glorifies Endeavor’s minimal efforts to atone
yeh, this this thiiiis. the past chapter was all about how big of a realization it was for the dude to just. fucking leave his family alone. i know it probably is a huge realization for a self-centered ex-abuser, but so many readers have all been saying it was necessary as like a basic first step; so why make it a Big Deal by writing it from his perspective, rather than from the perspective of anyone else so they can have a “wow so it’s finally clicking for him, huh?? huh????” moment. that’s all it takes to flip the narrative from being about how Tragic the dude’s decision is, to making it about how he’s taking his first baby steps!! to being a decent person.
on ur point about the victims, that’s another big issue i have!!! like…where did all the trauma go sdfkljsfkljg. where are the lasting consequences of growing up with an abusive or neglectful parent? why is everyone just okay, and the biggest hurdle to overcome is their willingness or unwillingness to forgive? i hate that the story is going ‘well all he has to do is make up for things sufficiently and then they can maybe be a happy family!!’ like, where is the ptsd and the complexes you develop from being unloved by a parent?? why can’t we see the lasting effects that domestic violence had on rei, rather than just being told?? why not show us the work the victims put in to get to a mentally stable place?? i mean, the answer is obvious, but i hate it lmfao.
GEE BAKUGO, I WONDER WHY?
no but bkg calling izuku out on his unhealthy mentality without explaining that he's like that partially bc he spent his formative years being bullied by bkg is so funny to me???
like he admits he knows izuku "better than any of 1-a" which is true!... but that's also probably bc class 1-a is definitely still in the dark about all of the trauma u inflicted on him pre-ofa 😟 likeeeeee "never thinks about his own good" yeah, i think being called useless/worthless for the majority of your life will do that to you!
idk i don't dislike bakugos character at all, he's had a lot of positive character development, my gripe is just that horikoshi still hasn't connected the dots with the other characters as far as izuku's backstory goes lol!!! bc without them knowing the reasons why izuku is so hard on himself, i feel like bkg's words portray him as like... just some crazy person who does crazy things bc he's crazy 🤪
anyways all might said it best, the words izuku needs to hear rn are "it's okay to rest" and "you're already doing your best"! and i'd like to add that hearing someone, specifically bakugo, say "you aren't worthless, i was wrong" would probably do him a whole lot of good! i really really would hate to see a deku v kacchan 3 where deku gets beat to a pulp and is just magically fixed by the power of shonen rivalry lol 😭