I was just thinking and the difference between big me and little me are very different
Big me is grungy, rocker, hippie, hobo with a some of my little side. I'm talkative, laid back, messy but put together, and more dominant
Little me is similar but softer, pigtails, skirts, croptops. I'm quiet, whiney, clingy, cuddly, and submissive like no other
At the end of the day, I always feel little. I get off work or school and pop a paci in my mouth and take off my pants and put on a big shirt or jacky. I guess it's more just the fact that I'm in a public place where I have to be big so I try my hardest to push my little side away as to not embarrass myself or feel vulnerable. It makes me confused and feel like I'm constantly lying to people about who I am, but it's also something I need to figure out. It'll take time and patience ig
Hey babies and caregivers!! Let's do a check-in. Today, did we...
Brush our Teeth?🪥🫧
Brushing our teeth is important for littles and caregivers alike, and sometimes we forget that it's an important and necessary task to do to keep us healthy!
If you haven't today, or even recently, that's okay! Sometimes, we can't even remember the last time we brush our teeth, but what we can do is change what we do next time.
Brush, especially if you have recently had or frequently ingest:
🫧 Milk
🫧 Candy
🫧 Coffee
🫧 Alcohol
🫧 Vape/smoke/use 🍃 or other oral substances
Please also remember to brush, especially if you:
🫧 Are sick/getting sick
Or
🫧 Have 🤮 recently
because brushing your teeth helps get the icky germs out of your mouth that want to hurt you! Your mouth isn't their home, so give em the boot! 🥾
And caregivers, I'm looking to you specifically as well. I know how much it can be to look after littles or even just ourselves, and we often forget that brushing our teeth is important to do. It definitely sucks and there's usually so many better things to do (like catch up on some sleep after working so hard 😴💙) but you are equally important and valuable as anyone else and you deserve to have comfort and good health and that starts by remembering to take care of your mouth 🥰🪥
Let's all take good care of ourselves together because it's HARD, but at the end of the day, we only have one body in this life, and we deserve to feel nice by treating it well 💕
Chihiro Ogino (Spirited Away) agere outfit!!!!!
child safe interaction only!
•Generally baby them
•Lots of petnames (baby, little one, prince/ss, etc)
•Don't let them do things for themselves (cook for them, tie their shoes, get them their drinks, etc.)
•Do things like hold their hand while you're walking, help them down and up stairs, carry them if you can, etc.
•Tell them how teeny they are. (ex. "You're such a cute little baby", "aw, is someone feeling small", "my little one", etc)
•Encourage their little space. It goes a long way
•Get them their little things. A stuffie, paci, bottle, etc. Anything that helps them feel small.
•Pick out their outfits for them or help them pick out their outfits
•Give them rules or enforce your rules
lesser spoken about agere things !
- tantrums/meltdowns
- being bratty because of a sensory issue
- crying
- negative triggers putting you in a headspace
a friendly reminder that not all regression is happy sunshine and rainbows ! i wish they were.
regressors are basically children, and just like children, regressors can cry and have a tantrum if things don't go their way. we're not all bratty because it's fun (and it is fun to be bratty sometimes 🤭), sometimes we're bratty because something is really bothering us. please don't just mark it off as brattiness and punish us, look into it ! something could be hurting your little.
•Make sure they have their comfort items. i.e Ask them to go get their paci and send a picture with it (if they're comfortable)
•Suggest foods they can easily make for themselves
•Facetime or call if you're able while they're doing tasks that might be difficult to them and help them complete it
•Read them bedtime stories!
•Make sure they eat and drink well. You can have them send pictures of their meals or whatever works for you
•Ask them for cute selfies!
•Make sure they get to bed at a reasonable time
I wan one to wear for my cg 🥺😸