Thoughts On Dolphins? I’m Terrified Of Them. I Would Rather Be In The Ocean With A Shark

stop treating you DR self like a different person

they are you

you are them

you are the same person

sometimes it's literally infuriating waking up here, like ho is you serious

Shifting to get a college education in nuclear engineering is calling my name more than anything

a neurodivergent breakdown of the 3D and 4D for manifesting + shifting

key: 3D — the physical world, what you experience in your current reality, intrusive thoughts, emotions ; 4D — imagination, visualization / affirmation for manifestations and desired realities, intentional thoughts, beliefs

table of contents — brief explanation of 3D and 4D – living in the 4D – on belief (and believing even when you don't believe) – decentring the 3D – participating in the 3D

for the longest time, I couldn't grasp how to participate in the 3D without feeling as though I was invalidating or preventing my manifestations. I'm not gonna lie, this was most likely my autism skewing my view.

I naturally have a very black-and-white, rigid way of thinking. many neurodivergent people do, and if you're one of us, or maybe you need a little confirmation that what you're doing is right, stick around for an easy (or easier?) to grasp explanation.

brief explanation of the 3D and 4D

the 3D and the 4D are intimately tied together, with the 3D being a dependent variable and the 4D being an independent one

dependent variable — a variable (denoted by y) whose value is determined by that of another independent variable — a variable (denoted by x) whose value is being changed on its own, not by the influence of another variable

in other words, the 4D is the cause, and the 3D is the effect. if you follow the law of assumption and neville goddard, you've likely heard the quote "consciousness is the only reality." as in, the things we pay attention to, shape our reality. neville goddard says that our reality — the people we interact with, the things we experience, the opportunities given to us — are directly tied to and mirror our subconscious.

living in the 4D

just like a knot can be tied, our reality can be both made and unmade. the 3D is pliable and moldable. in order to do so, we must live in the 4D, as in, live in imagination.

living in imagination isn't simply daydreaming about what you wish to manifest, it's about actively embodying the perception of already having your desire.

if I were to want to manifest being an incredible singer, I would act as though I were, even if in reality my singing could break eardrums. I would sing my favourite songs without worrying about whether or not I was good, because I already know that I am great.

since the 4D directly causes change to the 3D, it is what we do and believe in imagination that will be reflected in reality. what we believe is what we get. if I were to be insecure and believe that I were a terrible singer, the 3D would show me that I was a terrible singer.

living in the 4D means we cannot focus on getting our desire in the 3D, as that would be pedestaling the 3D and grounding yourself in it. just like you cannot centre men in your life as a woman for the sake of your emotional health and self-esteem, you cannot centre the 3D for the sake of your manifestations.

on belief + believing even when you don't believe

this was a really difficult concept for me to grasp. how can I believe in something when I know it's not true? how can I fake a belief?

it's actually terribly easy to. the first step to believing when you don't believe is persistence.

have you ever had an ironic inside joke with your friends, or just did something ironically? I guarantee you, over time it became a natural part of your life, your vocabulary, your mannerisms. that's because your subconscious doesn't know when you're kidding. your subconscious is probably more autistic than you are, in that it will take what you say or do at face value and apply it to your personality. (really makes you think about how often self-deprecating jokes aligns with poor mental health, huh?)

that's why persistence is key. even if at first you don't believe, continue to enforce the idea that you do until it actually manifests within your mind.

decentring the 3D

I came up with this idea after hearing about the feminist concept of decentring men.

what is decentring men?

the concept of decentring men is to turn away from patriarchal and male-centric perspectives and beliefs, instead turning inward and focusing on your own wants, wishes, desires, and needs. instead of looking for validation through men or other social means, you simply validate yourself. where you may have valued the social norm or others, you instead place yourself at the centre of your own life.

how can we decentre the 3D?

just like the patriarchy has taught us to seek validation from external factors like men, the world has taught us to find validation in what is right in front of us — the 3D.

like decentring men, we must learn how to find satisfaction and validation in the 4D instead of seeking instant gratification from the 3D. there are many ways to do this, including;

understanding that you are in fact in your DR / already have your manifestations

it's agreed that time is not linear, it is simply that our brain processes it as such. even if you do not personally believe in shifting or the multiverse, it has been widely agreed that time moves in all directions, not just forward. by that reasoning, you already have your desire, and you're already in your desired reality, because events exist even when our brains have not yet processed them.

take the 3D as though it were someone doubting you

have you ever expressed a dream, desire, aspiration to someone, only to be told you could never do it or it's not possible? think of the 3D as being the same way. what do you do then?

prove them wrong. brush it off your shoulders. read my post about how to do this here.

Schrödinger's Cat — understanding that you are in your DR until you allow yourself to view otherwise

Schrödinger's cat is a thought experiment that boils down to the fact that we cannot guarantee an outcome if we do not experience it, i.e. a quantum superposition, which is the principal that something can exist or be represented by multiple values (or outcomes).

the cat is both alive and dead on a quantum level, until we observe an outcome. a path has not yet been carved until we align ourselves to one. you may benefit from my post on the butterfly effect and how it validates shifting and infinite realities, which you can read here.

close your eyes. you are both in your desired reality and your original reality until you prove to yourself otherwise, as in, opening your eyes. at the same time, thanks to infinite realities, you are both in your desired reality, your original reality, and infinite more until you choose to become aware of one singular reality.

when you choose to shift, you are in your desired reality until you allow yourself to come back to your original reality, by quitting. lean into that knowledge — allow yourself to truly feel that when you visualize, affirm, or try to shift to your DR, you are genuinely there. find validation and satisfaction in that. allow yourself to say I shifted whenever you do those things.

as to how you can let yourself say you've shifted when in terms of the 3D, you haven't — that's what the next section is all about.

participating in the 3D

how can we live in the 4D, find satisfaction in the 4D, all without abandoning the 3D? how can we participate in the 3D without forsaking our manifestations?

have you ever been in a situation where you know something, but the other person doesn't know that you know it? let's say you want to hear this person's unfiltered perspective, without justifications or explanations, to see what they add or leave out. you may act shocked to find out information you already knew, angry on their behalf when you know it is them who is actually in the wrong, or confused when you actually aren't.

do exactly that with the 3D, treat it like you would a lying friend or boyfriend when you want to collect all information. you can still be honest about the events in the 3D and your experience with them while also not letting them influence your internal world and 4D.

you don't and shouldn't post success stories publicly if you haven't done them in the 3D, but you can absolutely allow yourself such within your own mind. keep 3D events in the 3D, and keep 4D events in the 4D.

in the 3D, I'm an awful singer and will admit so, but within the 4D and my own mind, I am brilliant and beautiful.

living in the 4D doesn't mean to lie, it just means to compartmentalize your actions in the 3D and the 4D into separate boxes. this includes allowing yourself to feel emotions like frustration, sadness, doubt. let yourself feel them, let them pass, and then realign with your manifestations.

treat the 3D as though it were friend group one, where you act one way, and treat the 4D as if it were friend group two, where you act a different way.

treat your 4D self as though it were the 3D's child, and your 3D self as though it were the 4D's parent. you wouldn't want your child to see you sad, angry, or scared. you wouldn't want your child to see you feeling like things were out of control or not guaranteed. you would instead excuse yourself to a private moment, feel everything you need to in your own presence, and then return to your child more assured. make your child feel as though its dreams are guaranteed and already there. preserve your child's joy, belief, and innocence. do all of that for the 4D.

that's all for now! I hope this helps you all as much as it has helped me

yoshi!!

Shifting candle 🕯️♾️

*༉‧₊˚✧ Dressing your candle with intention…

*** Pleass be fire safe.

*** This is not needed to shift realities, simply a tool guide for you to use if you’re interested.

Other candle posts ➳ here.

I personally use this myself and thought I’d share how I go about it.

I occasionally light mine while making scripts, before/while meditating, before shifting, or to rejuvenate myself.

1/3. 🕯️

Use a purple, blue or white candle. Any size will do but if you like the idea of always having one ready to light, then thick piller candles are great and will last a long time.

They can be unscented or not. You could pick a scent that reminds you of your DR for the 5 senses aspect if that’s something that helps you.

** purple is associated with astral projection, spirituality, healing, meditation

** blue is associated with communication, sleep, wisdom, patience

** white is associated with purity, balance, truth, guidance, hope, spirituality and can replace other colours

2/3. 🫚

Anoint your candle in any type of oil, this is to stick the herbs and spices onto it but beware this makes it more flamable.

Or alternatively melt the top of your candle to stick it on.

If you're candle is in a glass you don't really need to worry about this step.

(And an affordable way of getting herbs is through tea bags!)

*** Herbs & properties are at bottom of post ***

3/3. 🔥 ~ The Process:

Gather what you’re using and cleanse them by incense smoke, sound, etc.

As you’re dressing your candle, repeat over an affirmation that everything you’re utilising is being used for your desired effect. Examples:

“Orange peel to make me successful every attempt.”

“Rosemary to aid my memory and protect myself as I shift, sleep and dream.”

“Thyme to give me the courage to shift.”

“Parsley to rejuvenate my motivation.”

“Hibiscus to attract my desired reality to me.”

“Bay leaf to manifest myself successfully shifting.”

“Mugwort to aid in my astral travel and induce lucid dreams each night.”

🗡️📄 ** You can also carve sigils or runes into the wax to add to your intention. Or write your intention on some paper and burn it or keep it under the candle.

Done! :)

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Herbs & Properties

Here’s a few things that can be associated with shifting:

⭐️ next to favourites.

𝒪range Peel ⭐️

^ luck, success, happiness, energy, love

𝒞innamon ⭐️

^ protection, prosperity, love, psychic abilities, passion

ℛosemary ⭐️

^ cleanse, protect, love, lust, sleep, youth, memory

𝑇hyme

^ courage, prosperity, purify, healing, love, psychic abilities

𝒪regano

^ joy, good fortune, heal, love

𝒫arsely ⭐️

^ lust, prosperity, purify, protect, vitality

𝒞love ⭐️

^ love, lust, money, protect, purify, psychic enhancement

𝒞hamomile

^ sleep, peace, healing, love, purify

𝓛avender ⭐️

^ longevity, purify, love, peace, sleep, protect, happiness

ℛose

^ love, beauty, clairvoyance, heal, protect

𝓛emon Verbena

^ dreams, purify, love, clarity, dispell negativity

ℋibiscus

^ attractiom, love, lust, beauty, courage, divination

𝒥asmine ⭐️

^ psychic, love, dreams, prosperity, happiness, sleep

𝒫ennyroyal

^ peace, protect, strengthen

𝒞alendula

^ joy, love, wealth, vitality, quality sleep

ℬay Leaf ⭐️

^ manifestation, wishes, purify, heal, protect, fortune

𝒮tar Anise ⭐️

^ clairvoyannce, luck, purify, abundance, protect, psychic dreams

𝒫oppy Seed

^ sleep, psychic, fertility, love

ℱennel Seed ⭐️

^ courage, purify, protect, prosperity, luck

𝒥uniper Berries

^ love, health, protect, cleanse, wisdom, clarity, visions

𝒞ornflower

^ clairvoyance, divination, love, fertility, psychic

𝒫assionflower

^ sleep, peace, sleep, healing

ℱrankincense

^ purify, protect, courage

ℳyrrh

^ heal, purify, protect, spiritual awareness

𝒴arrow

^ psychic, divination, protect

𝒟amanian

^ love, lust, divination, paychic visions

𝒱alerian Root

^ heal, sleep, purify, protect

𝓐ngelica Root

^ peace, heal, clairvoyance, longevity

ℳugwort ⭐️

^ dreams, lucidity, astral travel, protect

ℬlue Lotus ⭐️

^ lucid dreams, sleep, anxiety relief, psychic abilities

𝓔yebright

^ clarity, visions, psychic abilities, protect

𝓝utmeg ⭐️

^ clairvoyance, psychic abilities, prosperity, money, luck

ℳarshmallow Root

^ nurture, love, protect, sexuality, self-understanding, spirituality

𝒮t. Johns Wort

^ love, dreams, cleanse, divination, protect

ℋagstone

^ intuition, clarity, insight, protect, astral travel, change, visions, truth, healing

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Green crystals for shifting

Blue crystals for shifting

Purple crystals for shifting

Red, Pink, Yellow crystals for shifting

Black and white crystals for shifting. Pt 1

Black and white crystals for shifting. Pt 2

One of the best feelings is listening to some music and imagining scenarios like right there is what gives me half of my motivation to shift 😭

Being an uncreative shifter is so annoying, I feel like such a bum using everyone else’s ideas as my own

Our dr s/o’s:

She NEVER misses 🗣️🗣️🗣️

How do you get over the fear of never shifting

how to get over the fear of never shifting?

right, so you’re afraid you’ll never shift. you’re staring down the barrel of an eternal non-event, the metaphysical equivalent of a dinner party where the host never shows and you’re left nursing a warm gin and wondering why you ever put on shoes. the fear, then, is not just about shifting. it’s about stagnation, about the existential itch that nothing will ever happen to you, that you are, in the grand scheme of things, a closed-loop system with no exit ramp. it’s about the dread of being one of those people who say they want to do things and then never do them, like men who buy poetry books and never turn past the preface.

let’s establish something !!! this isn’t a you problem. this is an everyone problem. but listen. listen. that doesn’t mean nothing is happening. the want itself is movement. the yearning is proof of life.

but fear can be embarrassing. the fear is what stops you from talking about it in public. the fear is what makes you try to force it, and forcing it never works. this is a truth universally acknowledged, like how the people who tell you to “just relax” are always the ones who never have to try at anything.

so, how do you get over it? you don’t. not in the way you’re thinking.

you don’t kill it, or banish it. what you do is you turn the volume down. you remind yourself that shifting is not a limited resource, it is not an exclusive club. you reframe it, because fear, at its core, is a trick of perspective. if you treat shifting like a test you’re doomed to fail, then congratulations, you have built yourself a failure machine. if you treat it like a game, like a book you can open and step into at will, then suddenly it becomes something else entirely, something less cruel, less elusive. something possible.

and listen, i could do the whole inspirational speech thing, the "trust the process," "it happens when you least expect it," "insert comforting platitude here. you can do it, you're always doing it, bla bla bla." but that’s not what you need. what you need is this: shifting is a skill. sort of. it’s not a mystery, not some divine lottery where the lucky few get golden tickets to willy wonka's chocolate factory and the rest of us are left behind in the cold. it’s a skill, which means it can be developed, honed, mastered. and if you can accept that, then suddenly, the fear loses its fangs. it becomes background noise, static on the radio. it becomes something you can live with, something you can drown out with the sheer audacity of your wanting.

so, the next time the fear comes knocking, let it in. let it sit at your table. but do not let it drive. do not let it make the rules. because the fear, when you really break it down, is just this: a refusal to believe in your own capacity for transformation. and if there’s one thing i know about you, it’s that you’ve never been one to stay the same.

A fame DR is calling my name as I sleep