This Is Exactly How I Feel

the next 4 years will be dark for americans. to all of those who are in a dark place right now, please remember that if you give up, if you let go, and if you stop being who you truly are, you'll only be giving conservatives what they want. please remember to take a break and do something you enjoy to take your mind off of things, surround yourself with people who love and protect you; and if you don't have anyone like that, always love and protect yourself.

you don't need to always be up-to-date on the political state of the country and how things are going, especially not if it effects you mentally. you're allowed to disconnect, you're allowed to put your head in the sand and block it out, because you need to stay strong.

or, maybe staying up to date helps you stay strong. maybe it motivates and encourages you to push through and hope for a better future. you are more capable than you think.

remember: don't snitch, take things easy when you need to, use your resources, and put yourself first. if you ever need to talk, mine and many others' messages are open.

tip: break up. thats so incredibly dehumanizing

The fact people are giving her advice that isn’t “don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with or into” is why women will never be free

i hope you feel the worst pain ever inflicted upon anybody for making this paid early access its really good good work

Hi everyone! I've been wanting to recreate this hair, inspired by NI-KI from Enhypen (especially since I saw them live in October). I wasn't sure whether to include the strands on the left side, so I've made 2 versions. I hope you enjoy it a lot, I'd love to see it in your game :)

-2 versions

-Maxis match

-Base Game compatible

-Male, teen to elder

-Hat compatible

-All LODs

-Disabled for random

-Restricted for opposite frame

-EA swatches

-Custom thumbnail

-Patreon (Early access until 02/01)

-Please don’t reupload to other sites

-Please don't edit this hair, you can recolor but tell me first

-Enjoy!💜

it feels like everyone i speak to has some internalized misogyny

once you start noticing how casually misogyny is incorporated into society theres literally NO going back. look at our insults! theres so many words to degrade womyn just existing the same as men.

bitch, slut, whore, cunt are just used to insult us for being confident/sexually active.

even passive terms like crazy cat lady and calling confident young girls 'bossy' ARE contributing to this!

the first step to unlearning internalized misogyny is learning to stop using terms like these.

while equality in the feminist sense consists of a safe existence in society, for men it is always in the violence.

"oh, you're a feminist? then join the army and kill people with us."

"oh, you're a feminist? then I can hit you. we're equal, right?!!"

"oh, you're a feminist? and do you know that women actually kill too? It's not just men who are bad, you women are just as bad as us!"

instead of eradicating cruelty from our society, instead of advocating for the existence of everyone without the feeling of a threat to her or his life and well-being, they decide to remain with their right to inflict pain. because to give that right up means to give up male. privileges. which, of course, should never happen.

The reason why racism is portrayed to be a much bigger problem than misogyny is because men are affected by racism.

Society doesn’t take any problems seriously until a man is directly being affected by them too.

what are your thoughts on drag? personally i find it to be misogynistic but i know many would disagree

My misandrist, radical feminist awakening has me seeing every dimension of life as inherently misogynistic..I'm completely consumed by it.

"porn is natural! we shouldnt ban it!" but one of the most popular porn concepts, the FIRST one i was exposed to on a 'kid friendly' internet site as a young child was 'step-sis stuck in washing machine'. porn about rape and incest isnt natural and needs to be deleted off the internet