I've never seen something more ridiculously said in my entire life.
Saying cis as if it's an insult. The dehumanization claims, which affect both transwomen and natal women alike.
"People do things to transwomen that, when you tell people about it, they won't believe you."
Ludicrous. That happens to natal women too, stop shoving us to the backburner.
"Transwomen are the women of women."
Just shut up and educate yourself, for goodness sake. It's not as if men are forced to "handle a transwoman's life." They can stop at any time. Women, however, cannot stop being women even if they wanted to.
I knew about top "nullification" surgery where even the nipples are erased from your body, but today I learned about bottom "nullification" surgery. When you think you've seen all the ways in which patriarchy exerts its power, you find another one. Of course it was someone who's female and identifying as non-binary who did it. I saw the pictures. She's in her early 20s, had the option to get the nerves out (so not being able to feel anything down there) but at the last moment was convinced by her mom to keep them. Still, that surgery consists of sewing everything shut except a small hole to urinate. This is the "modern" FGM, the "everything is a choice" option and they (surgeons and people who support this) will try to draw you as the villain for pointing out the issues before ever questioning the ethic of such surgeries. If you're asexual then your sexual organs won't force you to have sex, you can live without using your vagina for sex or delivering babies for that matter. Your body is not a customisable machine from which you leave out the parts that you don't like at some point in your life. The hegemony of capitalism (which dehumanises humans and try to make robots out of us) coupled with patriarchy is what made this horror possible.
You can have a been a young girl raped by a man and getting deeply traumatised for it to the point you want nothing to do with your body anymore, and greedy surgeons will take advantage of this distress and clear ptsd. I am full of rage. I won't ever stop fighting for women's liberation and having this as my priority when the situation for girls and women regardless of how they identify and everywhere around the world is this terrible.
one thing i dont understand is "staying together for the kids"
like i dont know ANY person who'd be happy in this scenario, including the kids
and i dont know whats this society's obsession with painting kids whose parents divorced as miserable delinquents (?), this has to be some kind of psyop
i have NEVER witnessed scenarios commonly played out in media, for example - child blaming one or both parents; child hating the mother for relationship issues; child going down the path of crime and drugs because their parents DIVORCED!!111
im serious, this is some actual propaganda
Im a lesbian. Im female, Im homosexual. Im attracted to other females. I dont like d!ck/male bodies. if I liked both sexes, that would make me bisexual.
if you took offence by any of that, congratulations, youre homophobic.
sexuality isnt about "gender identity", its about sex, genitals, its in the word. its purely biological and not connected to internal feelings or pronouns. its not transphobic or bigoted to be a homosexual. its not a preference, because it cannot be changed. we spent decades trying to establish that.
a transwoman saying you need to try her "girl d!ck" is no different from the guy at the party saying he could turn you bi if you only gave him a chance.
its homophobia, its erasure, its conversion therapy repackaged.
(also, its okay to be bisexual of course :))
here are two videos on the topic ⇊
THIS
So when an incel says women are the root of all evil, they're automatically correct, but when women speak facts about how men are ACTUALLY the root of all evil, causing the evil to happen to themselves, we're seen as sensitive pussys. Lovely how the word pussy is also used as an insult. Fuck you.
hate how women being gnc is just her being normal and natural and human like not shaving hair, no makeup etc. but when a man is “gnc” he actually chooses to conform to another societal standard (wearing makeup, painting nails, etc)
95% of women in prostitution want to leave, but can't because they don't have things such as financial means, healthcare, housing, treatment for addiction, or job training.
this is not a 'choice', and it is not 'empowering'.
there is no consent when a woman is fearing for her life.
men when something isn’t about them