Guyssss I got Caleb's new myth already I'm so happy 😭 I had to spend like ten dollars but I'd consider that pretty lucky considering how my luck usually is in LADS. Auhhh <3
Proshippers! Have you drank water today? If not, please do! I've seen the way antis are, I even argue they've somehow gotten worse in recent times, shame. Don't let their dehumanizing behavior make you believe you are any less worthy of being taken care of. Please stay hydrated and eat nutritious meals, gotta give your body and brain enough nutrition to keep those creative juices flowing! <3
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Some of my f/os are on my straw.page!
Hello sweets! My name is whatever you'd like it to be. Demigirl {they/them, fem presenting}, ficto-rom/sexual. Over 18! I'm a proshipper, darkshipper, and selfshipper. my blog is here to support these same folk of any race; any gender; any sexuality; etc. I'm an inclusionist of any mental disorders; chronic illnesses; disabilities; etc.
On my blog, I will post proship, selfship, etc, positivity. You may feel free to send me any requests that you're wanting as long as it still has a relationship to these things!
Reminder: proship/darkshipping does not and SHOULD NOT correlate to your views in real life.
DNI: DNIs don't do much but I'll say I will block if you're pro-contact, radical anything (to the point of being violent/aggressive/harassing), exclusionary towards race; gender; sexuality; etc. also if you consider yourself an 'irl loli/shota'. Probably more that I can't think of but basically I will just silently block you if I know I wouldn't get along with you!
DMs are always open ♡
Darkship blog (MDNI) -> @bl4ck0utg1rl
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When I feel better, I was thinking about starting some more self-ship centered posts like imagines and maybe reblog games if anyone is interested. All for proselfshippers of course! And still post general proship positivity and encouragement while I'm at it. I also draw and have improved a lot over the years so, BUT if this doesn't interest you guys on this blog I'll make a separate blog instead :) !
For the pro-ship self-shippers who equally enjoy darkships and self-shipping, imagine your f/o making content of your favorite darkships with you as a way to show their support! Whether or not they're the artistically creative type, imagine your f/o still putting in the effort to try. Fics, art, blurbs, edits, roleplay, etc, they'd love to indulge in your interests with you, as a way to get closer with you and as a way to show that they're more than content with the fact that you find entertainment and/or comfort in these fictional scenarios. They think you are SO creative and feel so lucky to be with someone who has such an interesting and creative mind! Oh and yes, this also pertains to if those dark scenarios include them directly!
hi! replying to your last post (the one about trauma-related selfshipping), although my selfships aren't like that (I'm lucky enough for not having experienced anything like that irl), I've certainly seen at least a few people in the community who've also experienced family-related trauma do the same thing as you do, which is a great coping mechanism btw (if it works for you, of course)!! hope you have a nice day/night! and your f/os love you regardless of your dynamic, of course! :D
Thank you so much lovely, i really needed to hear that <3 Youre very sweet, i hope you have a great day/night too, and your f/os love you regardless as well! ♡ I hope youre doing well and taking care of yourself! <3
Hello may I gush to you? I'm going to do it anyway. This is something I wanna talk about and a confusing situation that I feel really bad about so-
So uh. My main ship, in any fandom, is sebaciel (Sebastian/Ciel from Kuroshitsuji/Black Butler). This is already A Thing because Ciel is like fourteen and Sebastian's a hundreds-of-years old demon, but I love them sm so. They're my favorites and I would do anything for it to be canon tbh. Now the problem with this is: I kin Sebastian.
I self-ship with Ciel because sebaciel was official in my canon, but I feel really bad about because Ciel's a child and ugh. Purity culture and christian upbringing + how most people would view me is not a good combo :/. But I love him a lot and god I would do anything for him. I feel bad about it though and I hate that I do because I know I have no reason to especially considering I'm closer than even the age Sebastian gives under human disguise.
Anyway I'm gonna gush about Ciel because I love my young master so. Like he's just, so small and precious, pretty little boy, I just want to scoop him up and take care of him. I would do literally anything for him I swear, I love him so much. He's so cute and pretty and genuinely smart and clever, he loves mystery(idk if that's actually the right word, there's a better one but I'm dumb-) books and would keep notes to try and figure out who the culprit was on his own. He loved rabbits and soft things and sweet things, especially chocolate, and I would give a lot to just watch his face light up when he eats it. He used to have nightmares, and I remember how long it took for him to let me comfort him after them. I love him so much.
Awww hey hey! Im so so sorry you feel so bad about selfshipping with Ciel, i do completely understand though! I too had a christian upbringing, though personally im now athiest, i still have the aftermath of the religious trauma my family gave to me, and it seeps into my proship views every once in a while, so do know you arent alone on that <3 You are completely valid for selfshipping with Ciel and are completely valid for shipping Sebaciel! Im absolutely sure you are perfect for Ciel though, your view on this does not affect who you are in real life love, dont let it affect you so deeply <3 But, still, what youve said so far, gushing about Ciel, is so cute!! I ship you two v much, please take care of yourself though darling, im sorry i dont have much else to say about this rn, and im sorry im replying to it so long after youve sent it, but feel free to come back and gush or talk more anytime <333
Natsuki is profic and so are the others probably ❤️
Absolutely! Canon! No one can convince us otherwise <3
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🦋[Hey there you beautiful/handsome/pretty human being, have you eaten? Have you drank some water? Well youd better do that okay, i want you to stay healthy <3 And how are you doing? Do you need to vent or talk? Feel free to vent to me luv, im all ears <3
Just a reminder youre valid, youre amazing, and deserve all the love you can get. And if youre having a hard time, i hear you, you matter, youre loved and cared for, and i truely hope youll get better. Once again, im here for you, take a break, give yourself a breather, and be gentle with yourself, you deserve to be happy]🦋
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Hi sorry I'm coming across some posts of people being confused if proship means 'problematic ship' and people misusing the term proship FOR problematic ship who call themselves a proshipper, I think I've even used proship as a broad term on my blog to INCLUDE people who are darkship, who are still proship, since I think many of my followers are darkshippers, but I've been trying to make sure I say 'proship darkshippers' instead to avoid confusion, but. Proship is 'for shipping', pro = for. It's anti-harassment with fictional ships, the idea that every fictional ship deserves to exist without the enjoyers of said ship being harassed for it no matter the nature of the ship and no matter if that ship isn't your cup of tea. Blocking instead of harassing if it's a ship you dislike and not looking at the content made of that ship but keeping in mind that just because you dislike it doesn't mean it shouldn't exist in fiction, things like that. Profiction is the same concept except replace ships/shipping with fiction in general, once again pro = for. Darkshipping/darkfiction (or some people use the phrase 'dead dove do not eat', dead dove being the indicator that the media has dark content in it) is the term used for when a ship or a piece of fictional content has dark ideas incorporated into it. Like incest, non-consensual sex, adult x minor/loli/shota, etc.
Now here's the fickle part. A person can in fact be a darkshipper and enjoy dark fictional content and still not be a proshipper. A proshipper does not NEED to be a darkshipper, they are just anti-harassment. A darkshipper can, let's say, like incest ships, but if they dislike minor x adult ships, and they decide to harass someone who does enjoy those ships and believe that minor x adult ships shouldn't exist because they think it's 'too far' or 'too gross', they are not proship. Alternatively, someone could be very uncomfortable by any sort of darkship, they only like ships that have healthy dynamics and never incorporate dark ideas into their ships, but they don't harass people who do indulge in darkships and don't believe in the censorship of said ships just because they don't like it (they block and curate their online experience to fit their boundaries instead of going out of their way to harass people who break said boundaries). That person is a proshipper. So to reiterate, proship does not mean problematic ship, darkship is the term you're looking for. Now, knowing how words tend to change overtime in communities, perhaps I'm wrong or I've stated some incorrect information, and if I have please correct me 😭 but if not, I hope this all makes sense and helps at least someone out whose been confused.
I've been hitting up like every request blog I can find that's proship about him I swear but like 😭.Maruki from Persons 5 The Royal has me by the heart, man!! It's not my fault he's a complete puppy dog of an antagonist!! Needs to be wrapped in a blanket I fucking swear.
MARUKI!!! He absolutely does need to be wrapped in a blanket, i agree! This is so cute tho, i ship you two v much :))) Feel free to gush abt him whenever!!