With my Stag giving me the green light to enjoy myself, we arranged a social just drinks, so there was no expectations. We met in a bar, with a large booth and i wore a nice dress, heels and vivid red lipstick. Things were going okay, then hubby went toilet and then i made a move and kissed our meet and he kissed me back, we kissed for a few minutes but then stopped as was unsure of how my husband would be. When he got back he could see the evidence on the meets face and said something about my lipstick. Since then, i've kissed other men infront of my husband in public as part of the first steps of foreplay, not only does it tease my husband but it feels natural and it makes our mfm more erotic.
This is so true, it appears this lifestyle is mainly instigated by the male but for us it came from us equally, as we both wanted to explore.
This is still quite fitting for me, as we keep this side of our lives well hidden and our closest friends would never suspect, as i will explain. We went too Gran Canaria with another 3 couples, one of the guys was bragging before we got there about going on the nudist saying he was going to 'rock out with his cock out' then the same guy had got a pack of porn playing cards one night and because I didn't comment on them as we were all playing, he thought i was prude uptight and basically as vanilla as there could be. That holiday, me and hubby were the only couple to go on the nudist beach, we even played tennis nude, so i hide my kinky streak pretty well and think this post is fitting.
After i had said 'i wanted to explore more', hubby admitted he would like to have see me do a striptease in front of him and another man. When we both agreed it wouldn't just stop there, he then said 'he wanted to see a mans hands all over my bare ass cheeks, seeing me turn him on and making him hard, with the man wanting more of you'. This was a huge turn on for me, if not a little daunting but it gave me the indication where this was heading and i liked the thought of it.
We'd been chatting to a few guys online for a while and had discussed taking it to the next level with a social with one of them, so we arranged a normal social I didn't get to dressed up on this occasion but enjoyed the attention nevertheless.
Me and my husband talked about our meet and agreed to go to a city for a second social with this indervidual where I could get a little dressed up and dip my toe a little. I got dressed up in private choosing to surprise my husband, I went for a long burgundy skirt that had a split at the front diagonally from my knee to about 4 inches below my hip which displayed plenty of thigh. On top i wore a black strappy vest but chose not to wear a bra, i complemented this with a pair of delicate high stilettos. Then i wore matt plum lipstick and my hair was down and wavy. I had the approval of my husband when he seen me, then he put my anklet on (we got one for our role-playing) and we were ready to leave.
We met Matt in a normal bar and he leant in, placing a hand on my hip and kissed my cheek, this set me tingling, he then commented on how nice I looked which was flattering. I liked his broad shoulders, muscular arms and legs. We got a bothe and I sat the same side as my husband but on the outer edge, this allowed me to sit semi crossed legged showing plenty of thigh, it also allowed me to do a little heel dangling, which caught their eyes. Matt quite enjoyed me rubbing my heeled foot up his leg and placed my hand on my hubby's thigh, I was really enjoying myself. We moved on to a shot bar and only stayed for one, as there was little room or private space, don't get me wrong it's amazing having two men's 100% attention and doing what was described above but I also enjoy the thrill of doing stuff without being seen to a degree so this bar whilst busy was just too small for me to feel comfortable in so we moved on.
We found a Slug and lettuce bar. This was perfect, it had music a dance floor splitting the bar into four, there was so much going I would be fine and the drink had started to take its effect, there was a high table with 6 backed bar stools and we located ourselves on those. I sat next to Matt with my husband opposite this time, Matt went off to fetch our drinks and my husband encouraged me to flirt with him, however I wished, which was a nice blessing. When Matt returned he came and sat at the side of me again and my husband excused himself to go toilet. I couldn't wait any longer and just started kissing him on the lips there in the bar but I soon stopped as I was worried my husband would see us and didn't want it to appear we were doing it behind his back. My husband returned and said 'I see someone has been enjoying themselves, Matt you have lipstick around your mouth" and Matt responded with "oh yes i was". What caught me off guard was what my husband said next "well no need to stop on my count". This put me at ease and I rubbed my foot up my husband's leg under the table by this point I was turned on, I had become so wet from this. Then Matt placed his hand on my bare thigh I didn't resist but I am sure my husband had noticed because he had to rearrange himself. Matt slowly pushed his hand up my thigh with his two of his fingers resting on the mesh of my thong this was such a turn being in front of my husband and espically out in public, so I spread my legs ever so slightly more. Matt then started to stroke me over the mesh, I then opened my legs a little further and then Matt slid his finger beneath my thong and felt my bare lips and how moist i was. I so so much wanted them both to take me. Matt removed his hand and we had a few more kisses this time in front of my husband, I went to the ladies and freshend up and then sat next to my husband and had a lovely kiss with him we finished our drinks and went our separate ways on this encounter.
Whilst on holiday, i let hubby know i found someone attractive at the bar, my hubby went and told the guy, the guy was a little puzzled at first but built up the courage to come over to me whilst i was still on my own. It was such confidence boost, that he found me arractive enough to come over and i knew it was driving my husband crazy whilst he had a drink at the bar leaving me to explain the situation to this guy and flirt with him. Feel free to ask questions...
UK-based Stag & Vixen couple, late 30's. Any post marked 'vcap' is a repost of something that me the vixen has liked and suggested to her Stag and 'Scap' for his likes. In each post is a comment why it appeals to us, this will hopefully explain our dynamic. We also occasionally take our own pics and they are marked 'us'. We will be on KiK soon and will add our usernames. Feel free to ask us things.
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