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Red Flags

I read a lot of posts/asks here on Tumblr that make me want to scream, “Get out! Run away!”. Over and over again I see submissives ignoring the warning signs of an abusive, or ‘fuckboy’, Dominant. So I thought assembling a list of what to watch out for might help even one submissive stand up for herself, and to me that’s definitely worth the effort. I hope other submissives will comment and add to this list warning signs that I missed in hopes that they reach someone out there that might find courage in seeing it in black and white.

You should be reevaluate your Dominant (or prospective Dominant) if they…

-Disappear for a day or more without any contact or explanation

-Withdraw attention as punishment

-Ask whether you like anal before asking about your hobbies

-Tell you that ‘as the Dominant’ they don’t owe you an explanation when they’re ‘too busy’

-Habitually limit your contact with others

-Have nothing nice to say about any of their former significant others

-Tell you that you misunderstood the situation instead of apologizing, or comforting you, when you are upset

-Never say please

-Tell you boundaries are meant to be pushed

-Complain if you use your safeword, or if say you don’t want to try something

-Get mad when you ask about the reasoning behind a decision

She’s like Medusa the way i look into her eyes and turn rock hard

*checks mood ring* it says here that we should fuck actually

Or takes work calls

tied under his desk whilst he thrusts into your mouth as he studies/plays games <3