Its Been A While……….

crying ideas

personally I don’t like crying (stresses me the f out) but I do love some kinds of crying.

the harsh screams and cries of someone finding a loved one dead or seeing them die. The raw sound of grief that the character just can’t hold back. 

The tears that come with no sound, the whumpee is in too much pain to hold them back. but at the same time is too numb for any actually sounds so all that comes out is the tears. 

the whumpee holds up the tough guy act for the entire whumpe session until the whumper leaves them alone. that’s when the tears come and they cry.

another good “tough guy” one is when the whumpee finally breaks in front of their team/team/family. which then brings on a very nice group hug.

character A shows up at B’s house in the middle of the night, bruised and soaking wet from the storm outside. B doesn’t even have time to ask what’s wrong before A just starts crying hard. B pulls A inside and they just hug for a while.

two friends on a battle field lean on each other and share a few tears for their fallen comrades.

and my personal fav, Character A finds B alive after being separated during whatever whump/trauma scene. just the tears of happiness that come pouring out as they embrace each other. (I like using this one for scenarios like “big sibling finds younger sibling” or parental figure finds child”)

“show, don’t tell” - other ways to say “i love you”

  good morning/good night texts 

 pulling the other into a random embrace

 “this reminded me of you” 

 complimenting the features you love most about you lover

 going to hold hands in a stressful situation 

 holding their hands in general 

 “tell me about your day.” 

 saving their name as something cute in your phone

 taking pictures of each other on dates, telling the other how beautiful they are 

 “i’m here for you.” 

 doing a chore/task that you know they don’t enjoy doing

 calling just to hear their voice

 running some errands for them when they’re sick 

 bombarding them with blankets, tea, heating pads, and anything else they’d need when injured/under the weather

 knowing the medicines they’d usually take and having no problem going to get them when needed 

 getting lost in their eyes 

 reminding them how lucky you are to have them 

 peppering kisses all over

 or going in for one passionate kiss that just says it all

 cupping their cheek 

 wiping their tears when they cry  

 “you’re my everything.” 

 “let me know what you need, alright?” 

oh to lay on top of someone and hug them like a teddy bear and just sleep like that

I think kids with ADHD and ASD have a special relationship to swingsets as compared to other playground activities, just because of the leg motions. I went to an old park today and just swung for twenty minutes because the pumping you have to do to actually swing is a very, very nice stim.

thinking about her

Ok!! I wouldn't do this (promote myself) usually, but I'll be streaming on YouTube (I already am) for as long as it takes to try and hit my goal for HopeFromHome, a coronavirus fundraiser!

Stream: https://youtu.be/Gf37O9FNbRk

Donate link, if you can: https://tiltify.com/@smolswolpotato/smolswolpotato-hopefromhome/donate

literally my life is pointless. its thursday tomorrow 

Every DnD game that starts out with a serious “Lord of the Rings” type of tone turns into a Monty Python sketch and every DnD game that starts out like a Monty Python sketch turns into Lord of the Rings

Mark and Ethan: Art's easy peasy! We'll give ourselves 15 minutes.

Every Artist Ever:

Marvin using his magic?? Yes??