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was saturday and workingggg

Difference between advising and shaming :

sometimes it takes years before you fully understand the reality of a situation you were in, for you to look back and see it for what it truly was

I’ve been watching jojo’s bizarre adventure recently

“Be the woman you want your daughter to be.”

The mother is the first teacher to her daughter.

— imaanoverdesires

We think we have so much time, but By Allāh, we don’t.

❝Every soul will taste death.❞

[Quran, Ali-Imran (ch. 3) ; 185]

— This person is someone… Someone who’s important to someone important to me. 

Neferpitou ✩ Episode 116

My gpa was a 2.9 but I think I'll be able to raise it to a 3.2 after this semester ㅠㅠ I got a d in one class last semester and again this semester, I feel stupid sometimes, I debated on droping the both classes but tried to power through. But watching your videos makes me calm down and keep going. I don't have friends and since hs I've been in a slump but your videos really make my day!

hey luv! ik it feels absolutely terrible to get a bad grade but im so so so proud of you for getting thru it and surviving it! in the end, grades are not necessarily a determinant of your “intelligence” or a truly accurate measurement of your learning but rather how well and/or fast you can get something done within a constrained time period. remember that you are far more capable than you think you and continue trying your best and continue that progress along! wishing u all the best 💕💕

QUESTION :

They said ’everything is haram’ is it true?

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ANSWER :

Allah ﷻ made ZINA HARAM and made MARRIAGE HALAL.

If Allah ﷻ made ALCOHOL HARAM, He ﷻ made HUNDREDS of OTHER DRINKS HALAL.

If Allah ﷻ made MUSIC HARAM, He ﷻ GAVE you QURAN (that you can listen too (murattal) which is more beautiful and beneficial).

If Allah ﷻ made PORK HARAM, He ﷻ GAVE you HUNDREDS of OTHER FOOD, FRUITS, VEGETABLES, MEAT, etc HALAL.

If Allah ﷻ made SILK and GOLD HARAM for MEN, He ﷻ GAVE them MANY OTHER HALAL THINGS to dress and beautify themselves — such as cotton and polyester and many many others.

If Allah ﷻ FORBID WOMEN to EXPOSE their BEAUTIES for other THAN their MAHRAMS, He ﷻ ORDERED them to BEAUTIFY themselves for their HUSBANDS which CREATES MORE LOVE AND AFFECTION in their RELATION/MARRIAGE resulting in MANY OTHER GOODNESSES.

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NEVER EVER can you say ’everything is haram’ ; only A FEW things are HARAM only for OUR BENEFITS and the BLESSINGS are TOO MANY to count.

The HIKMAH of Allah ﷻ is GREAT — many things which we think are not bad, results in making people fall into haram which we all want to avoid as Muslims.

Sesaknya dada adalah karena jarang mengingat-Nya.

when professors read ur essays and are like “what did you mean by this *underlines completely unintelligible sentence*” im like smh idk arent you the one with a phd? figure it out -_-

8 Powerful Steps to Positive Thinking

1. Always focus on what you want rather than what you don’t want: The mistake that most of us make when having a problem is to talk about it over and over again instead of focusing on the end result, instead of focusing on what we want to achieve.

2. Know that every problem comes with a lesson: There is always a lesson in everything that happens to us, and we should constantly look for what that lesson is and master it.

3. Don’t believe everything you think: Our problems aren’t as big as the mind is trying to convince us, and if you choose to believe every negative though that goes through your mind, you will always get in trouble. Observe your mind, observe your thoughts, but don’t identify yourself with them. Go beyond them.

4. Choose to express your gratitude for everything that happens to you, whether good or bad, and also for every person you interact with: The more you choose to express your gratitude, the more reasons you will have to express your gratitude for, and when you’re too busy focusing on the many things that you are grateful for, there will be no more room left for stress and worry.

5. Know that there is a reason for everything: Everything that happens to you, happens for a reason and every person that enters your life enters for a reason, and it’s your responsibility to act upon this knowing and not to label them as being good or bad, negative or positive, etc.

6. Let go of your need for perfection: When you try to do everything perfect, you will meet with stress and frustration – as it’s impossible to be perfect in everything you do.

7. Let go of your resistance: Accept things as they are without you trying to change them, without trying to fight against them. Go with the flow, and know that life wasn’t meant to be a struggle all the time.

8. Learn to be present in everything you do: When you become present and really engaged in the now, your whole life will become so much easier.

Source: http://www.purposefairy.com/3902/8-powerful-steps-to-positive-thinking/ (Abridged)

Sedih kalau mikir ini. Kita udah 'dikasih' pandemi sama Allah supaya bisa lebih banyak berdiam di rumah dan beribadah lebih lama. Tapi kok tilawahnya segitu-segitu aja. Dosa apa yang sudah kita lakukan sehingga menghalangi kita dari ketaatan.

Ya Allah, berikanlah kami kekuatan tekad untuk memaksimalkan waktu dan ibadah kami di bulan-Mu nan suci ini, Ya Rabb.

“The one who has patience is the one who trained himself to handle difficulties.”

— Abû ‘Uthmân

When Allah wants two hearts to meet, he will move both of them not just one.

Siapa saja bisa mengaku cinta. Namun perbuatanlah yang pada akhirnya membuktikan.

Taufik Aulia

BETAPA ISTIMEWANYA TAHUN 2020

Dari ujian pandemi kita belajar kesabaran. Dari nikmat Ramadan kita dapat keberkahan.

Saya gak setuju dengan orang-orang yang 'memaki' tahun 2020. Karena 2020 adalah bagian dari dimensi waktu yang Allah telah bersumpah atas nama waktu di ayat pertama Surah Al-'Ashr.

Instead of 'memaki waktu' lebih baik menggali hikmah di balik semuanya sembari meminta pertolongan

dari Allah.

Karena sebagai hamba kita punya tugas untuk menjaga prasangka dan sikap kepada Pencipta.

© Taufik Aulia | 2020

“The less you respond to rude, critical argumentative people, the more peaceful your life will become.”

— Mandy Hale (via amargedom)

Kita adalah dua gerbong kereta yang datang dari arah berbeda dan berhenti di stasiun yang sama, lalu saling meninggalkan sampai waktu yang tak tentu.

Taufik Aulia

Ketika keadilan koyak lantaran keserakahan sekelompok manusia, harapan itu hanya ada pada Tuhan dan daya juang masyarakatnya.

— Taufik Aulia

Abu Bakr al-Arabi said:

❝There is no true methodology except the methodology of the Companions - May Allah ﷻ be pleased with them all.❞

[Al-Qabas Fee Sharh al-Muwatta, (1/217) | Translated By Abbas Abu Yahya Miraath al-Anbiyya]

“People do selfish things when they’re drowning in hopelessness.”

— Juansen Dizon, What I Told Her When She Told Me Suicide Is A Selfish Act

“It’s good adab (manners) to not to ask someone so many questions, especially about personal matter. Also, it’s good adab (manners) to not look at people’s possessions when you visit their homes.”

— Hamza Yusuf

“Just want somebody that appreciates me.”

— (via love-diaries)

My texting skills killed so many conversations.

A person who reminds you to fear Allāh ﷻ is your true companion worth more than anything and everything this world can possibly offer.

— NiqabOverdose

❝I hate Salafi…❞

[MUST READ]

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❝…because they call to obeying the husband: The prophet ﷺ said, “If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone other than Allāh, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands” ❞ [Ibn Maajah no. 1853]

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❝He ﷺ also said, “you should listen and obey them even if the ruler strikes your back and takes your wealth, even still listen and obey.” ❞ [Shahih Muslim no. 1847]

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❝…because they call against innovation? The prophet ﷺ said, “Every innovation is going astray, and every going astray will be in the Fire.” ❞ [Narrated by Muslim no. 867 ; an-Nasaa’i no. 1578]

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❝…because they are ‘harsh’ with innovators? Al-Hasan al-Basree (d. 110H) said, “Do not sit with the people of innovation and desires, nor argue with them, nor listen to them.” ❞ [Reported by ad-Daarimee in his Sunan (1/121)]

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❝Imaam Maalik (d. 179H) also said, “How evil are the people of innovation, we do no give them salaam.” ❞ [Reported by al-Baghawee in Sharh us-Sunnah (1/234)]

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❝…because they refuse understanding islaam from other then the Salaf? The prophet ﷺ said, “My ummah will split into 73 sects, all of whom will be in Hell except 1 group.”

They said, “Who are they?”

He ﷺ said, “Those upon that which I and my companions are upon.” ❞ [Tirmidhi no. 2641]

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Is it salafis you hate? Or is it the religion of Allāh ﷻ when not made easy for you by your western ’scholars’ that you hate?

Is it salafis you hate? Or is it the sunnah of the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ that you hate?

Is it Salafis you hate? Or is it the Salaf themself that you hate?

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If your problem is with what the salafis call to the Haqq (truth) and not their personals errors in manners or/and other than that, then know that you have not insulted the salafis, but you have insulted the religion of your Lord and the Sunnah of your Prophet ﷺ.

You have hated something that Allāh ﷻ instructed upon you.

Marry a man who fears Allāh so he will treat you right because of his fear of Allāh.