✨soft Asks✨

I've been thinking more about how soft dom's use questions as a way for their sub's to feel that soft control? And to encourage communication? Especially if they already know the answer, and give you that look 👀👀

Are you sure about that, sweetheart?

Can you show me?

Is that too hard for you, darling?

Do you need help?

Are you excited?

Could you do one more for me, baby?

Are you going to sit nice?

Are you going to behave today?

Do you need to hold my hand?

And then, followed up with "well done, thank you, so good." because being praised for using your words is ❤️🤭🥰❤️

Brat tamer? No, shy sub handler. Patience to lure a shy sub and comfort them, snacks to treat for being obedient and just to pamper them, stroking their head and praising for being so good for me, soft blanket, gentle cuddles and careful holding their hand, while taking them roughly

the mature tumblrs i follow deserve to know that i love them and they make me feel some type of way so here’s my submissive side blog.

minors do not interact, if your age isn’t in your bio or pinned post i will block you. don’t be weird also but feel free to dm me to chat (don’t send unsolicited pics though that is weird!)

i wanna be a good girl for someone so bad. all sorts of play can be fun but i crave reassurance and praise. i wanna be able to be soft and sweet and small and have someone take care of me and love on me.

Need to be put in subspace and roughly played with and gentle praise in my ears. God I can't take it anymore I need to submit somehow

atta girl don’t stop you’re gonna cum to my voice again aren’t you? god it turns me on so bad knowing you’re a pathetic wet mess addicted to listening to me jerk off for you

Once again, thick thighs and pretty eyes are my favourite. 🤍

Need to be put in subspace and roughly played with and gentle praise in my ears. God I can't take it anymore I need to submit somehow

Shout out to anxious subs who need clear directions. Anxious subs who need a lot of checking-in and reassurance. Anxious subs who need help communicating their needs and desires. Anxious subs who want their dom to take control and order them around and take the burden of choice away from them. Anxious subs who just want their dom to turn their brain to mush so they don't have to think anymore.

You're worth the extra effort and the extra communication, and I hope you find exactly the accommodation you need to have a happy and fulfilling kink experience <3