Hello, Here To Remind People That This Discourse Is Hurting Nonbinary People As Well, Especially Nonbinary

I'm gonna crash tf out Walter when I catch you Walter

My doctor didn't tell me I could go through withdrawal if I forget to take my meds for ONE DAY dawg ohhhhjjhjjjhhhh I'm actually dying my heart is pounding I'm gonna pukr

ignore the low quality

Nvm I uhhhhh overreacted. I'm not offing myself I'll just think ab it really hard !!!!!!

I'm genuinely gonna crash tf out bc can someone tell me WHYYYYY old ppl are so fucking shitty??? Like I just had a conversation w my mom about my teacher just being greedy for power by telling me to take my headphones off when they were AROUND MY NECK AND OFF. AND MY MOM SAID THAT IM WRONG FOR BEING UPSET ABOUT IT. "Yeah well guess what when I was employed my bosses told me I had to follow a dress code, style my hair in certain ways, blah blah blah" LIKE THATS NOT THE FUCKING GOAL IN LIFE. IF MY BOSS EVER TELLS ME THAT I CANT WEAR MY HAIR A CERTAIN WAY THEN IM FUCKING QUITTING AND BLOWING THE PLACE UP. I JUST WANT TO WEAR MY AUTISTIC ASS HEADPHONES AROUND MY NECK BC I FEEL SCARED WITHOUT THEM AND THEN GET TOLD THAT I JUST NEED TO FUCKING CONFORM TO EVERY LITTLE RULE. no. I refuse adamantly to do that bullshit I will die before I let some fucking ceo boss whore tell me what to do with myself. I'm so fucking tired of being told that I'll never succeed if I keep being myself.

Me all day every day 25/8 HGHHHHH

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I’m not gonna lie, the whole “what if a big, hairy trans man started using the women’s bathroom? what are TERFs gonna do then?” thing kinda pisses me off being used as some checkmate, because it insinuates that passing trans men would have any kind of power in that situation. If a passing trans man is forced to use the women’s bathroom, you know what will happen? Security will be called on him, he’ll be thrown out, and he’ll be forced to out himself as trans in order to avoid punishment, which will put an even bigger target on his back. He’s still going to be harassed. He’s still going to be forced into an uncomfortable and potentially dangerous situation, and he probably won’t avoid punishment anyway because the current laws in place are never going to favour any trans person’s defence over a cis person’s.

It also completely ignores trans men who aren’t “big and hairy” and don’t pass enough to be mistaken for a cis man. Non-passing trans men (or even men who look or sound effeminate enough to be suspected) who are forced to use the women’s bathrooms are still at a huge risk of harassment or even violence, especially young trans boys who are forced into their assigned bathrooms at school. Nex Benedict was literally murdered in a girl’s bathroom. Girls and women aren’t these inherently non-violent, peaceful and submissive beings (for one thing, that’s misogynistic). Trans men and boys get beaten up by them too, because most of us pre-T aren’t considered a threat, and we fucking die.

That’s not even to mention the trouble we already have in men’s bathrooms, because if we don’t pass, cis men will interrogate us on whether or not we’re “real men” and then sexually assault us if they discover we’re trans. Corrective rapes that trans men face is not something to be ignored, and I have trans male friends that it’s happened to who are lucky to be alive right now.

Bathroom laws will affect us just as much. The violence that trans women face is something that trans men can also relate to, and both need to be talked about without people categorising all trans men as “big, hairy, strong men able to beat up anyone who tries to threaten them” when that’s not the case like 90% of the time. Acting like passing trans men are just there to make TERFs look stupid, when TERFs are the ones who are violent towards us no matter how much we pass, is just diminishing our experiences.

I'm getting pulled into the forcemasc rabbit hole....

@genderflu1dwh0r

This is NOT Eltingville related but I'll post it under this tag anyways because I know the TEC fandom is used to creeps and there are a lot of us who can block, report, and spread the word!

Idk how to word this because I've never had to post anything like this, but Tumblr user dawnfawn777 is a predator who follows teenage girls with ED's for most likely sexual purposes and reposts material that is clearly meant to sexualize relationships between young girls and grown men, they should be blocked and reported for suspected sexualization/harm of minors

Edit: I was given actual screenshots of evidence of predator behaviour texts, shown below the cut, nothing too explicit but still creepy af so read at your own discretion