i need to interact with more happy things. its the reason why i joined tumblr and stepped away from twitter.
my TL is just.. negative.
might purge a bunch of posts
They are feeling more empowered so keep a watchful eye on who is around you.
Do you support gay? Or no gay for puki?
Why did you ask it like that??
hate people wanting to shut down conversations about transandrophobia say that trans men and mascs "measurably" experience less violence than trans women and fems
one of the core aspects of transandrophobia is erasure. the rates of violence we face cannot be "measurably" different than anything, because the rates of violence we face are deliberately not measured and erased whenever posssible
Lady Gaga winning Best Pop Duo/Group Performance for “Die With A Smile” at the 67th GRAMMY Awards
helllooo!! decided to make a blog since someone recommended me to do so for my mental health :)
im a pre-t trans man who was blessed by a random rock i found to be able to go on land as human !!
i suffer with really bad anxiety and possibly depression (? going to try to get diagnosed with it)
im acespec, demiromantic, and pansexual!
my gender identity is genderfaun as i go inbetween demiboy and agender
i have found a random cat who i have taken and named Baby :)
i think that is all..
goodbye now!!
it genuinely disgusts me with the amount of hate that tmen/mascs go through in the QUEER COMMUNITY
so many in the same community that claims to be accepting just hate on us
trans men/mascs are so villainized and forgotten within the trans community and for what?
and the thing is,
the way they often hate on us is the *exact* way homophobes and transphobes act
i once saw a tweet saying that trans men aren’t minorities and benefit from the patriarchy COMING FROM ANOTHER TRANS PERSON
its almost as they forget that the same way that cis people dont see them as their gender ALSO DONT SEE AS AS OURS
its almost as they forget that some of us have uteruses and are currently being affected by the political climate that tr🤡mp and red states are doing to remove abortions and things that generally protect us
just because you believe that every fucking trans man thats comfortable saying afab is a theyfab doesnt give you the fucking right to be a dickhead
plus, youre wrong too LMAO
there are certain situations where someone may use their agab acronym to explain something because, SHOCKER, some people dont KNOW a better term to use that outright explains what they mean
ie: ME. when I didnt know what to use/say, i used to mention my agab!!! now that i KNOW what to say (i was raised as a woman), i dont fucking treat others like shit for NOT SAYING THE SAME THING
this isnt the fucking oppression olympics, its being aware of the things that trans people go through and being THERE FOR THEM
NOT devaluing their experiences AND the current things they may go through just fucking because theyre a man
you arent apart of the LGBTQ+ with the rest of us if you invalidate ANY of the letters. INCLUDING TRANS PEOPLE
INCLUDING SUB GENRES OF TRANS PEOPLE (ie: tfem, tmasc, nonbi, agender, genderfluid, etc)
like anyone who does this fucking sucks
genuinely
youre a shitty person if you treat another trans person like shit just because you don’t understand them
because that’s exactly like how transphobes act LMAOO
people who think that transfems are inherently "unsafe" around transmascs and that transmascs are a "threat" to transfems:
are t4t transhet transfems a joke to you?
are t4t bi, pan, poly and omnisexual transfems a joke to you?
are transfems who have transmasc family members a joke to you?
are transfems who have transmasculine children a joke to you?
are transfems who have transmasculine friends a joke to you?
you HAVE to acknowledge we exist. you can't keep pretending we don't.
i don't know how else to break it to you that there are many, many transfems who love transmascs for a lot of different reasons, but if you seriously can't take a second to consider how you're hurting a ton of transfems by shitting on transmascs, i really have no other words for you. care about the transfems who love transmascs. we exist. stop pretending we don't. we are out here and and the transmascs we love don't deserve to feel like shit. it doesn't empower transfems to make them and the transmascs they love feel like shit. stop this.
ever since i came out/realizing i was trans, i started to hate my room decor so im changing it from pastel danish (base white w pops of pastel colors) to gothic and its SO hard when your room walls are white and when youre also poor because college is so stressful so you had to cut your hours 💔
we went to a craft market (it was just tourist stuff, nothing to make actual crafts) and there were cats!!!!
we were told that if we wanted them, we could take them but it takes a lot of time and money to get them to be able to come to the us (gotta vaccinate and test them and it takes MONTHS for them to process)
so we couldnt :(
BUTTTT my mom did say after we clean up the house more she was thinking about getting another cat
SOOOO ANOTHER CAT FOR ME 😫
so i decided to make kimbap and ended up making 7 rolls…. i ate one and a half and got FULL 😭
wish i was on hrt rn because then id be able to eat it all 💔
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