Hi, I Was Wondering If There Was A Way To Better View My DR As A Reality And Not A "dream"? And How To

Not shifting rant, but I just want to ask how people keep up with schedules and everything 🥲. I just missed my drivers license appointment today, I couldn’t take it because I didn’t have a paper, and I want to cry waterfalls. And I was late too!? The shame and embarrassment makes me want to eat glass

“But if you forget to reblog Madame Zeroni, you and your family will be cursed for always and eternity.”

the moment a writer starts hating on amber or using her as a “villain” in a mark x reader fanfic i drop the shit so fast. i’m so not interested in the villianizing this already poor disposable black girlfriend stereotype when there’s proof she fully supports eve and mark — so why wouldn’t she approve of reader and mark??

literally some of the fandom writes her off as the worst gf ever because of s1 as if she didn’t change & also made it known in their breakup that she knows she’s acting for “too much” from him and being selfish.

my girl deserves better 😞

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ahhhhhh, the colours on my first set of galaxy dividers is one of my faves. thought it’d look great with this pattern as well. lemme know what you think ! 🤍

colours : 001 / 002 / 003

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really tired of seeing the idea that women & girls are less likely to be diagnosed with autism because it "presents differently" so widely accepted even in progressive spaces

it is also widely accepted that women get raises less often because they don't ask as much as men. this is objectively not true.

it is also widely accepted that women are more talkative than men. this is objectively not true.

it is also widely accepted that women are taken less seriously when speaking because their speech patterns are associated with a "lack of confidence". this is objectively not true. [1][2][3]

every time we talk about gender discrimination, people look for an explanation that starts with women's behavior.

and every fucking time, actual research shows that across the board, women actually don't behave that differently from men.

women aren't diagnosed less often with autism due to "presenting differently". it's gendered medical neglect, and weaponized diagnoses disproportionately applied to women (e.g. BPD, HPD, bipolar, etc.)

yes. all of this will be done in my dr

˖˙SIDE QUEST IDEAS FOR FANTASY DRS

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break a curse

put together dreams for people

guide a soul to the afterlife

create a potion

collect moonwater

deliver letters to creatures from different realms

collect materials needed for potions

untangle spiderwebs spun in the wrong places

help the toothfairy out by taking her job for a day

paint patterns on butterfly wings

design new plants/animals

sprinke dream dust on childrens pillows

dry the wings of bugs that got caught in rain

help out bugs that got stuck in bodies of water

plant flowers

I’m pretty new to this site (lurker) and I’m pretty ‘experienced’ in shifting even though I haven’t shifted before so I’ll do a small intro

About me:

✧ Lillian Morningstar or Lilith

✧ I’m currently 20 (old 🥲)

✧ Nigerian-American (🇳🇬 RAHHHHHH)

✧ I began my shifting journey around March 2020

✧ I’m a Sagittarius (the best sign)

That’s pretty much all about me that I think is important so I’ll list some of my DRs

Better CR (main)

Waiting room (main)

Fantasy royalty (main)

MCU (Stark edition)

Modern Duchess

Housewife

ETERNALS (I have 2 and I love them 😍)

‘The villainess reverses the hourglass’

‘Who made me a princess one day’

Vampire

Batman

Other than that, I’m currently in college and a psychology major. I love video essays, fashion history, architectural design/history, history in general. I love to draw and I play violin. I also really love aesthetics, DnD and historical dramas like Bridgerton, The Guilded Age or The Great

✧Note: Dividers are not made by me but by cafekitsune✧

Hiiii! I love your work :p But like why is the reader specified to be black? Doesn’t that defeat the whole purpose of reader and y/n?????

Let explain my beautiful summer child

The reason why I made the black reader specifically black is that there should be more representation in fanfiction, especially X reader fanfiction or Y/N fanfiction. In many stories that I read, the reader is often portrayed as white or female, even when the author states that the reader doesn't have a race or doesn't have a specified gender. They automatically use she/her pronouns or describe the reader as having "pale white skin," even when the author has stated that the reader doesn't have a race or it's supposed to be "you" X reader. What if you don't have pale white skin? What if you're a black girl? For example, in another fic where they say, "he ran his fingers through her straight black hair," a black girl typically doesn't have straight black hair.

There are also many issues with the portrayal of blushing; black people don't blush, and if they are blushing, they're probably choking to death. It's not like I'm just making the reader specifically black; the black reader can be seen as Caribbean, Blasian, Nigerian, or your everyday New Yorker. The reader could be anybody—that's the whole point, right? Why do some authors describe the reader as female when the person reading it is male? Why do they get to talk about the reader's legs as if they're white when the reader could be of any other race? There are specific tags for specific readers. I include male and female reader tags, as well as non-binary reader tags, because there are people who read my work from different genders. That's why I use they/them pronouns in my writing. If I'm going to use she/her pronouns, then I make sure to indicate that in the reader's description at the bottom.

It's also really hard to find some black reader fanfiction that you can relate to or find characters you like who could be paired with a black reader. Black boys should be allowed to be represented in these works, and even if you're of a different race, you can still write about these readers—just don't be insensitive. I wanted to do this for the black community but also for myself. Maybe this will happen for you. It doesn't defeat the purpose; it just makes more people feel seen. You can be someone of another race and still enjoy my work—it's all about perspective. Plus, I'm getting real tired of reading fics where the creator writes, "the sun radiated off her pale skin," obviously referring to a dark-skinned girl, yet they still put X reader in the tag. Maybe I just walked myself into this.

Hope this helps!

a man self immolated in front of the israeli embassy in washington dc yesterday. not just any man. an active member of the us air force. he live streamed his death, and said that he refused to be complicit in a genocide any longer. he said that compared to what palestinians were facing every day, setting himself alight was nothing.

let me reiterate. an active duty air force member burned himself alive because he was so disgusted by what the us government was openly supporting. he live-streamed his own suicide, so the whole world could bear witness as a man in his military uniform set himself on fire to protest his government’s complicity in the horrors that we have all been forced to watch happen in real time. he became a new horror. footage of the immolation blurs him out the moment the fire catches, but you can hear him. it is over in seconds, really, but you can hear him screaming. he shouts “free palestine” until his body physically cannot make any sounds other than guttural screams of agony. and then he falls silent. a police officer arrives and points a gun at his still burning body, shouting at him to get down on the ground. and it is over.

his name was Aaron Bushnell. he was twenty five years old. and he isn’t here anymore because the political ruling class has decided that genocide is perfectly fine as long as it preserves imperialism. in the coming days, people will try to discredit him. to say that he was mentally unstable. they will try to bury his actions to save face and defend israel’s propaganda. do not let them. aaron knew what he was doing. he knew what he was doing when he put on his military uniform, set up his twitch stream, and made his final walk up to the embassy. he knew what would happen to him when he flicked that lighter. do not let them forget. aaron’s blood is on the hands of the political ruling class.

Has anyone ever tried channeling? I watched a video on how to channel someone from your DR on TikTok awhile ago, and I may have unintentionally(?) channeled Eros from my Alruna DR

As I was watching the video, I did all the steps in my head. I affirmed I was safe, that I would channel who I intended to, then thought of him, I don’t remember what else I did, but suddenly I heard this almost teasing, but deep and raspy ‘Hi~’ in my head. I tried to push my thoughts of him away because I felt like I wasn’t really ready to properly channel a person, but he kept persisting I think

The moment I registered the ‘hi’ I got chills and I felt like I knew it was him? Maybe I’ve just gone crazy

This whole ‘encounter’ was really in-character of him tbh. He’s supposed to be possessive and kind of clingy, plus he’s also supposed to be the kind of person to tease someone he likes

I wanted to try it again but I couldn’t find the same video, and I feel like I can’t find any information on how to actually channel someone so I’ve just given up

Okay I just looked it up again and found the exact video I watched before (I think) I’m scared.. idk if I should try it again or not

I feel like I should but channeling is genuinely such a creepy concept to me dbdndjskdndndn