I feel very much the same way. I have a sad feeling that my friends will never know because the thought of non-sexual love will never cross their minds.
I want to be out but I don’t want to have to come out over and over again I don’t want people to question my sexuality when I tell them I’m ace I want the world to already know what asexuality is/what it entails and just have it be a chill, accepted thing I don’t want to be thought of as a freak or made fun of for not wanting sex
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My dog died and fuck anyone that says I'm incapable of love because I've been miserable for two weeks.
My friend is getting married, and I’m a bridesmaid. Now I face my newest pressing fear. The Bachelorette Party. I am dreading this thing. I am not sex repulsed, more of a sex neutral, but still not a fan. And this party is going to be awful. Mostly because of the Thing. Penises. Lots and lots of penises. There will be cakes, straws, confetti, banners, games, fake ones, and (of all horrors) real ones.
I feel like I only have two options. Play along, pretend I’m interested and having fun, or decline the penis themed objects and food and be a buzz kill (story of my life). The last thing I want to happen is to be strong armed into explaining my orientation. I know these women; add booze to any occasion and they will nag at me until I give in and ‘enjoy it’ or explain myself.
The bride knows I am asexual, but the rest of the bridal party doesn’t know. I don’t have a particularly good relationship with a few of the bridesmaids and in simple terms: I NEVER want to talk about it with them.
So I asked my cousin not to out me as asexual, she has already...to her boyfriend without my consent when I was right there, to my family which she has come very to close on several occasions. So instead of acknowledging my request as a normal human being might, she throws it back at me and blames my current depressed mood for being touchy. Bitch you are not helping.
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how to win: try to guess if i’m a lesbian or not...
how to play: too bad i don’t discuss my sexuality at work, i’m your manager and it’s inappropriate but solid effort with your attempt at discreet questions
I… I’ve got something in my eye…
You are correct. Aromantism is a orientation based on an individual's experience or non-experience of romantic attraction and is not based in sexual attraction.
Asexuality is a valid sexuality. Aromantism is a valid orientation.
Casual reminder that “aromantic” is not a valid sexuality.
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