DT Early Alternative Miku  By Blacklotus1234

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Things you should not say to people (especially neurodivergent people & people with trauma):

"It's weird that you carry a stuffed animal with you"

"just clear your head"

"you're not a kid"

"you're too old for toys"

"stop humming"

"stop bouncing your leg"

"just go over there"

"it's not that hard"

"grow up"

"you're talking too much"

"you don't seem [enter mental illness/disorder]"

"your room is disgusting"

"don't you ever do anything?"

"did you even try?"

"you look crazy"

"are you sure you want to wear that out?

"why are you always crying?"

"that's just life"

"get over it"

"you should understand this easily"

"I think you're faking it"

"i don't think you need meds"

"you used to be so happy"

"you've always had a good life"

"what part of ____ do you not understand???"

*yelling*

"it's not that many people, stop covering your ears"

"this is the real world"

"it's not hard to make friends"

"are you slow or something?"

"what's so hard about ordering food?"

"you're still not done with that?"

"it didn't seem like you had adhd until your diagnosis"

"i really don't think [insert mental illness/disorder is real"

"i don't care how you feel about it"

"why can't you follow simple instructions?"

"you always pull your phone out in public and don't talk to anyone"

"if you cared, you would've heard me"

"no, you're just not listening."

"it's just a hug!"

"could you just act normal"

"stop being so quiet"

"stop being so loud"

"why can't we touch you? we're your family."

RB and add your own! Remember that your mental illness does not make you any less of a person and no one should treat you as less of a person because of it. ✨

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I disappeared here for more than a year…

BUT I'm back and I made my first CIT pack!

Here are some item highlights that's on my pack: Lantern Posts, Drawers, Mushroom Charts (and frames), (Single) Flowerbeds, and Flower Barrels!

It's not that many but I've tried my best to bring in new looking CITs on the table + 9 wood variants are available on some items (yes, mangrove included) so win win for mangrove lovers out there~ I hope you all enjoy using my pack! 🌿💖

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Ways to describe Hair Colors

Platinum blonde - Very light blonde

Bottle blonde - Bleached blonde hair

Strawberry blonde - Pale/Light blonde hair with a hint of red/ginger

Red - Ginger/Orange Hair

Honey blonde - Blonde hair with a hint of brown

Golden blonde - Brown hair with a hint of blonde

Tawny brown - Blondish brown. 

Ash brown - Light to mid brown hair

Brunette - Dark Brown

Chestnut brown - Mid-red brown tone

Chocolate brown - Very dark brown, but still clearly brown

Soft black - Very dark brown, looks black outside of the sun

Raven black - Deep black hair

Jet black - Very intense black

Charcoal - Gray hair with black undertones

Smokey - Gray with blue undertones

Silver - Very glossy gray hair

I love autism dog

I love to gulp an ice cream before it melts. I love sitting by the balcony and stargazing. I love watching a full moon. I love looking at the sky adorned by faint moonlight. I love cakes. I love fighting for the last piece of cheesecake. I love watching the sky turn into pretty colors. I love watching rain drops falling on leaves. I love reading mystery novels. I love listening to pop and writing down poetry. There are so many little things that makes life worth holding on to. Try finding happiness in these little things when life doesn't seem to treat you right. It'll pass. Hold on :)