Probably Should've Posted This Sooner But I'm In Love With The Userbox @chronicallylav3nd3r Made For

we did it, guys! lgbt is no more! /heavy sarcasm

Yikes

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My queers, we really need to put the "no men" thing away. Men are not inherently bad. There are queer men. There are questioning men. There's men that are just plain cool. Denying these men a space at our table is not helping - except the TERFs. I just came off the back of reading a transphobe gleeful rant about the need to have pride without men - They of course mean me. This kind of stuff is damaging to me and I really need us all to take a step back and maybe kill this "men dni, men not allowed" stuff. What you mean is "no men who are going to do mean stuff to me." And frankly those men won't give a shit about that kind of boundary.

But I promise you there's a fleet of good honest men who will see that and be sad they're not allowed in your version of queer spaces.

PATRIARCHY is what you hate. Dni Patriarchs.

(tw : brief mention of faking mental health issues)

I think it's valid.

There are many people who can't access an official diagnosis of their mental disabilities for various reasons such as, poverty, being part of another marginalised group (women/poc etc), being a minor with unsupportive or unwilling parents and the list goes on. Some people simply don't want to and I get why. An official diagnosis can limit you in many ways such as travel, healthcare, education etc. An official diagnosis can also make you more prone to ableism from the government, schools and workplaces.

Either way, self diagnosis is extremely important whether you choose to pursue an official diagnosis or not.

(Side note : I don't think it matters in the grand scheme of things if someone fakes a mental disorder for attention. Of course, it is disrespectful and you shouldn't do it but people with mental disorders barely get support anyway so what would they exactly be taking away from us? Stim toys? The only thing I can think of is therapists but there aren't many that specialise in disability so 🤷 I think the only time it could be considered a bad thing is if they're spread harmful misinformation like if you're gonna fake something, at least make it believable. To be honest, I feel bad for those who fake a disorder / disability because they might be so attention starved that they would do that.)

Worse than Elon.

CEO of a less popular website. Treats trans women so poorly that he's direct messaging them and is threatening violent actions and calling law enforcement when all a friend of mine wants is... To have her transition timeline online in a spot she felt she could be seen and connect to people. Utter rancid dogshit of a human being. Petty. Pathetic. Spineless. All this when there has been fire under his ass for this behavior before. Erasing years of pictures and art and a whole person from her online life is sickening.

Excited for Halloween tomorrow 🎃🎃🎃🎃🎃🎃

TOMORROW IS HALLOWEEN!!!

ur first and last recent emojis are ur gender now. mine is 🅱👨‍❤‍💋‍👨

i didn't even know that this was possible... it seems like everything is possible :)

I stand with trans people, especially trans women <3

Not just because I'm trans myself but because I believe everyone deserves respect, dignity and their rights.

We are strong and we will overcome any challenge you or anyone else throws at us. We have proved our strength and courage time and again. This will be no different.

We support you @predstrone and every trans woman and fem who has been subject to harassment on this site. 🏳️‍⚧️❤️

Playing old games you played as a young kid >>>>

I'm currently playing Dumb Ways To Die and Geometry Dash Lite on my phone, the nostalgia is real 🤩👾

So wholesome, i definitely needed to share it 🫂💕