Watching History 3: Make Our Days Count, And I’m Only On Episode 6 But I’ve Cried And Laughed More

Batman (1989) dir. Tim Burton

Heaven Official's Blessing book 4 cover art 🦋

My adventures at the V&A today

This should be more known.

Hey so uh,

As a trans guy who’s been working out for a few years now and has learned a lot about their body and building muscle and whatnot in the process, here’s something I don’t see mentioned, like ever. 

Abs don’t really look Like That™ when they’re relaxed.

Here’s a few examples from a Reddit thread asking for pictures of people both flexing and not flexing their abs

I rarely see male body positivity posts in general but I’ve never seen this mentioned, and honestly? Call me stupid for it if you want, but I genuinely thought that super defined look was something that was achievable in a relaxed state, simply because I’ve never seen anything to the contrary. 

As someone with body dysmorphia as well as dysphoria, you can imagine the damaging effects that might have had on my mental health trying by to achieve the impossible. I can only imagine how many other masculine folk out there could be struggling with the exact same thing.

Anyway like, this is mostly to point out for masculine folks that might be pushing themselves too hard, that you’re probably doing better than you realise. 

Hello. I’ve created a discord server for MXTX novels discussions as I miss talking about them. Feel free to join here if you’re over 17. https://discord.gg/v7d6GFb5

exhuma is a bisexual movie for the bisexuals by the way. if you even care

I cannot count how many books, movies and tv shows I have seen these couples.

Credits to the artist.

Joining in on that ship dynamics meme hehe

the thing with Sand is that yes, he can't refuse someone face to face but he would ignore your calls and texts. literally, Ray has to go and find him in every episode cuz he won't answer his phone