Carmy Having To Ask If Claire Is His Girlfriend After Literally Buying Syd A Personalized Thom Browne

More Sydcarmy because they have me in a chokehold

our beautiful life when it’s filled with shrieks by Christopher Citro // The love cook by Ron Padgett // Kitchen song-Tessa Violet // Sweet Nothing-Taylor Swift // lesdemonium tumblr // Everything leads to you by Nina Lacuor // Right in time-Lucinda Williams

The Bear as Onion Headlines | Season 1, Episode 3: Brigade

The brainrot continues. Don't worry, I already have episode 4 planned out.

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The Bear (2022)

I know it’s a bit late, but happy International Women’s Day to all the Women of Supernatural!! You all deserved so much better.

Happy International Women’s Day to all the lovely ladies of Supernatural

Y’all deserved better

Can’t wait to see more of him in season 3

This is 100% an interaction they’ve had before

These duos have the same exact energy to me and I can’t nor will I ever be able to explain why

I hope you know proud I am you were created with the courage to unlearn all of their hatred- Hope ur ok by Olivia Rodrigo

All pic credits got to @neverscreens

Supernatural is so unrealistic because you’re telling me Mary didn’t absolutely rock John’s shit in Lebanon after “i never was”/ “I had to be more than just a brother” and every other thing she found out about

I think what they mean is, when you find someone you love, it feels like hope-Hot Preist, Flea Bag

Actually The Bear is a really good case study on trauma being deemed as abhorrent when it’s not presented in a pretty or digestible way within media including how characters who struggle with it are seen as unlovable. Particularly within Carmen’s character and the audience’s response to his behavior in season 3. Let me start this off by saying I’m not trying excuse any of Carmy’s actions throughout s3, I’m just acknowledging that trauma and it’s effects on the traumatized individual as well the effects on people in their life are complex and unpredictable, furthermore, people who haven’t experienced trauma tend to be more judgmental than compassionate towards them. Carmy is no different; him exhibiting this behavior and a certain part of The Bear fanbase choosing to ignore his past or just plain forgetting it and acting he’s like the worst person to have ever existed for having trauma and experiencing many of it’s ugly side effects. I firmly believe that a big part of this reaction is because many people lack nuance in media and an understanding that nothing is ever truly black and white. There are many shades of grey within humanity and The Bear is one of the few pieces of media that does a wonderful job of showing that. It’s glaringly obvious that Carmy has a multitude of issues that need to be addressed before he can run a successful restaurant and maintain healthy relationships. But None of that makes him an irredeemable or horrible person. It makes him a flawed human being that needs help who is also deserving of love and support. Trauma is far from beautiful and I’m tired of people acting like it needs to be portrayed in media in a sanitized way that erases all the hardships that come with it because they feel uncomfortable when they’re shown the gritty, raw, vulnerable truth of what trauma really is; of what it really does to a person. Carmy is no exception, he is struggling with his mental health in a way that is not pretty and wrapped up in a bow and people can’t handle it because we’re being shown the reality of it. He is angry, lashing out, spiraling, handling his emotions the only way he knows how by throwing himself into his work. I won’t deny that he has treated the people in his life poorly and he will need to earn their forgiveness in his own time. Yet none of that makes him any less worthy of love and patience. He needs professional help but he will only reach out when he’s ready too and even then it won’t go away over night. It can take months, and possibly years to truly heal from every thing he’s been through and after all of that he will still have bad days and he will still be just as worthy of love on those days as he is on the good ones. Struggling with trauma will never make anybody underserving of being treated with kindness or compassion and it will never make anyone any less worthy of being loved.