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Chastity Control...

Many posters on the internet seem to have absolutely no idea about the theory of male chastity and masturbation control, and how wonderfully it can enhance erotic pleasure for both husband and wife.

So many of the comments seem to be based on pain and punishment, or on the idea that masturbation is bad (it isn’t). All of that misses the point…

First of all, if a man is kept in chastity for long periods without any hope of release, chastity will only train him to mentally block out his feelings of desire. And in any event, his body will release semen as needed by way of wet dreams. Where is the fun in that for me as a woman?

I have found that the best way for a woman to use chastity control over her man is to keep him guessing when he will be out next. That way, he will always expect that he could be unlocked at any time, or that he may be kept locked for many days…

But he must never know!

I am always very careful not to let him detect any sort of pattern in my strategy. I might let him out a second time the same day, or I might unlock him only after several days.

When I am in the mood for sex, I can let him out knowing that he will be in the grip of uncontrolled desire for me, just like it was before we were married. When I am not in the mood for sex, I will let him out when I decide he needs to relieve himself, so that he cannot learn to build resistance to my feminine power…

I just never let on when that will be. While he is locked, I use subtle teasing techniques to build his desire to a fever pitch, already knowing when I will let him out, but leaving him helplessly clueless about it. This is also about keeping my man as attentive and devoted to me as he was when he first proposed on his knees to me.

As I observe his reactions, that only helps to build my own desires as well, but I am in control. Then, when I am ready for some real passion, I unlock him and the sex is as good as the wedding night for both of us. Every time.

My husband fully understands how the best sex results from being denied for a short period while I create his desire, just like a great meal is best enjoyed on an empty stomach, rather than after snacking on cookies and sweets all afternoon and ruining the appetite.

The only problem is that this can only be accomplished by my control of his chastity, because he cannot resist the urge to masturbate at the first sign of arousal instead of waiting while it builds. After experiencing sex My way, he has learned to willingly submit, knowing that the big payoff will come later…

Incidentally, I might add that I have absolutely no problem with what chastity does to his attitude toward me.

He has become very obedient and devoted to me. There is no more important key to a successful and lasting marriage. As for punishment, on the rare occasions that my husband needs to be punished, I never use chastity for that purpose. Instead, I simply wait until it is time to unlock him, and insist that he submit to a spanking before I unlock, which he readily does. That way, even his punishment brings us closer, rather than further apart. That is much better than not speaking to him or freezing him for a couple of days…

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10 Simple Ways to Show Respect to Men

1. DON’T SPEAK UNLESS SPOKEN TO. Let Them initiate all conversations. 2. LOOK YOUR BEST. Men have eyes. Most Men have eyes that see. Therefore, you should always strive to be as visually appealing as possible. Work out every day. Don’t eat junk food. Do your hair. Buy expensive makeup and spend time applying it. Wear sexually-stimulating clothes that flatter your body type. Wear high heels. Be totally hairless from your eyelashes down. Have nice nails. Whiten your teeth. Smile pleasantly. 3. LET THEM LOOK. If you catch a Man checking you out, let Him look. Is He watching as you walk away? Walk slower and sway your hips more. Is He staring at your cleavage? Bend over so He can see more. Make eye contact and smile so that He knows it’s okay. 4. DON’T TALK BACK. No one likes a bitch. It doesn’t matter if He’s wrong. It doesn’t matter if He’s bugging you. It doesn’t matter if He’s being a jerk. Dont. Talk. Back. your mother was right: “If you have nothing nice to say, don’t say anything at all.” 5. TREAT THEM LIKE KINGS. Hold the door for Him. Buy Him dinner. Take Him out. Buy Him presents just because. 6. LAUGH AT HIS JOKES. It doesn’t matter if you don’t think it’s funny or not. Not laughing is rude. Laugh. Make Him feel good. 7. BE SEXUALLY AVAILABLE. Men need you to fuck. Men are out in the real world doing important things and get really stressed out and burnt out in the process. He wants to release His pent up frustrations on some tight little holes and perky tits. Enthusiastically let Him. It’s rude to say no. 8. CLEAN. Every Man deserves a spotless home, office and car. Make this happen for Him. 9. COOK. To His tastes, not your own. 10. SHOW HIM YOUR APPRECIATION. Never forget to take time to show your Man/the Men around you how much you love, respect and appreciate Him.

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Ten Rules for a Successful Mistress

Control the orgasm, and you control the male.

To make any fantasy work, you must build suspense in your submissive.

Stimulation plus frustration equals service and submission.

Every submissive will try to test the limits of your Rule.  Never let him get away with anything.  He needs you to be both firm and consistent.

Physical pain alone cannot satisfy a submissive (a masochist, yes).

The more aroused your submissive is, the more pain he can take.

The more effective your psychological Dominance, the less pain you will need to inflict to control and satisfy your submissive.

All punishment is a balance between intensity and duration.  More intense pain should last less time.  If you want to prolong the punishment, the less intense the stimulation.

Submission increases with time.  As long as you maintain firm control, the longer a session lasts, the more thoroughly submissive your male will become.

Your control and pleasure are inextricably intertwined with the submission and pleasure.