Rules And Expectations. Have Them And Enforce Them Or It Is On The Alpha.

been doing this for a while now. It is working out well.

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Walks in the woods take on a new meaning in an FLR.

#FLR #spanking #nature

When the collar comes out things are about to get...interesting. We do not have time for a proper collar with all the comings and goings on. A belly chain is easier for us, well, that and the cage around Her cock.

I’m too embarrassed to post my username, but I really want to ask/talk about this. I’ve been reading your blog for a while & feel a safeness here so here it goes. I don’t get wet like most girls. I don’t make a giant mess when I cum, I hardly make any mess at all. I see girls with wet panties and girls creaming on monster dildos & I wonder if it’s abnormal to be in my position. I can’t send my Dom the pictures he wants because it just doesn’t happen for me & I wish it would.

I’m so glad you feel safe here. So here it goes.

You are perfectly normal!!! Go ahead, breathe that sigh of relief. It’s normal to produce puddles of wetness all the time, only certain time of the month, or never really at all. 

Tumblr, or any porn for that matter is a terrible measure of ‘normal’, and it sets horrible expectations. Did you know the average cock size is 5.5 inches, and not the 8-9 seen in porn? (Oh and mostly uncircumcised) That only 1 our of 3 women are able to cum from penetrative sex? We see these things so often it can feel as if that’s how it is for everyone, but that’s not true.

It is perfectly normal to use lubricants for sex. Increasing your fluids may help a bit, but it’s also okay if it doesn’t. And keep in mind that hormonal changes as a woman ages makes things a bit less moist as well. All normal.

This is like the idea that everyone can deepthroat, or should be able to. It’s unrealistic, and I hope that if your Dom has this expectation that you’ll be able to explain to him that this isn’t reality based. Not every woman can cum on command, or deepthroat, or wet their panties at the mere sight of their Dom and it doesn’t make them any less submissive, or sexy.  Try not to let such a natural variance diminish your self worth!

#FLRTruths

I’ve gotten some real questions asked of me.

This femdom thing seems like a lot to some, apparently, so here’s some things that:

You don’t have to do-

Have sex every day

Spend a lot of time

Get complicated or involved

You do have to do-

NOT Ignore him

Spend a little time torturing him a few days a week - why not cum yourself?

Have fun and introduce him to your fantasies, even if there’s no real-world possibility

Be safe and respect his limits (and maybe a safeword)

Involve others

Things you could do-

Display his chastity key prominent and inaccessible (around your neck? In a clear box? Padlocked to a fixture?)

Peg him, tease him, deny him, edge him, and otherwise use his desperation to exact your will

Spank him, save up minor infractions all week and withdraw them from the bank as a certain number of strokes per item

Make him do chores and impossible tasks to earn reward

Make him show you all the porn that makes him horny. ALL. It is a valuable tool to use against him and get EVERYTHING you want (but take your time)

Best part is that none of these things takes a lot of time or effort. The most important rule (outside of safety and mutual respect) is HAVE FUN WITH YOUR TOY and the gift he has given to you❤️

Describing, in detail, all the reasons why the spanking has just begun.