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A really good FYI

I have a question: how did you pick which size Vixskin you selected? Was it based on @that-tom-allen’s size, or was there something else behind it? Also, can you remind me which harness you use and love?

Actually, it was my husband who picked the first Vixskin Tex, and that was after we had tried a handful of other brands. We used it for maybe 10 years? Then he suggested that we try something else... he said that as long as he was going to be permanently locked and denied then I might as well have something that I might like better. I picked the Ranger because it only seemed to be a little bit bigger all around than the Tex.

I've been asked if he never suggested the Ranger in the past because he didn't want to worry about having to "compete" with a bigger one. 😂 Who knows... maybe if he had bought a bigger size back then, then I would have locked him permanently years ago! 😈

🔐Tom here. The harness is the Stormy Leather Terra Firma, now sold by the Stockroom.com. We have the leather D-ring version; it's about as minimal as you can get, and the D rings allow my to make adjustments on the fly. Or whatever. 😅 They now have a flesh-toned version, which I might consider when this one wears out - however, it's so well made that who knows when that would be?

I did pick the Tex because it was the Vixskin version of the original Vixen Creations model (aptly named the Bent Realistic), which did happen to closely match my own size and shape. I figured that it would allow her to be comfortable with it. And also, well, I'm sure I figured at the time that if things didn't work out with the cage, then I would not have to worry about measuring up to a larger one. 🤷‍♂️

Anytime, anywhere.

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