Getting There. Beta Blocker Time

No eye contact for slaves

Direct eye contact without permission is an act of disobedience and will be punished.

Yes, my Goddess

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#FLR

I make this boring office different

As your significant other explores, there are no bounds to what She will get up to.

Again I would like to thank everyone for their wonderful comments and it amazes me that you enjoy this old lady's kinky thoughts. I truly love thinking up new ideas and trying them out. If it inspires others and helps them to make their own female-led relationships more exciting, even better.

Many of you expressed your wish for me to post our rules and now that I have, I feel the need to explain a few things.

Most dommes don't like having too many rules as they like to keep it simple but I'm a little different and have an extensive set of rules. Why do I create so many rules?

Femdom is my hobby, my passion and I like to think and fantasize about it often. By reading and spending so much time thinking about the subject, I have learned what my preferences are about a lot of things.

A wife-led marriage means that I get what I want, so my preferences are of the highest importance. Turning them into rules ensures that I consistantly get what I want from our relationship.

By learning his rules, he is memorizing my preferences. Consider it an encyclopedic knowledge of my wants, needs, and desires.

When we decided that our female led relationship should be 24/7 and permanent, certain rules were instituted to ensure my absolute control. All of these rules have been thoroughly discussed and agreed to before implementation, taking into consideration both of our wants, needs, and fetishes. By signing off on each one, he promised me to obey them at all times. By signing off on them myself, I have promised to strictly enforce them and punish consistantly if they are broken.

Over time, some things have been added, while others have been dropped, based on our needs and learning what is practical. It is a dynamic list, subject to change without notice, and completely on my whim. Some rules and rituals may be put away for a while, and brought back at a later date just to keep things fresh.

We take these rules very seriously, otherwise the relationship would seem fake and hollow to us. We both want my control to be real and absolute. Some rules control him physically, while others control him mentally.

These rules dictate my behaviour also, as it is my duty to ensure a proper level of strictness in my handling of him and to maintain the level of inequality our relationship requires. This all sounds so cold and clinical, but I assure you, lots of love and affection are given at all times, and I never punish while angry.

Some are 'zero tolerance' rules. These require the harshest punishments and are the most strictly enforced, and I expect them to never be broken, even once. In the beginning, he 'accidentally' broke a few. I think he was testing to see if I would consistantly follow through and be as strict as I promised. I was, and his backside paid the price.

He learned to respect how highly effective my cane is in correcting his behaviour and knows that I have no problem using it. In fact I enjoy it immensely, as I have written elsewhere.

While at the time it was a rather nasty lesson for him, he loves reliving the experience over and over in his mind since it gives him a deeper feeling of submission knowing it can happen again at any time. He is such a good boy, and avoids breaking the zero tolerance rules now. The weekly maintenance spankings with the paddle handles the little things.

He loves feeling submissive to me, and through trial and error, I have determined that subjecting him to moderate humiliation on a regular basis (in a very loving way) has a positive effect in making him feel more obedient and submissive. Some of our rules are specifically for this purpose, like making him drink from baby bottles, licking my shoes instead of kissing me, or eating from a dog dish on the floor.

They are only enforced at home though, as I would never humiliate him in front of others. Nobody else knows that our marriage is wife-led, and we intend to keep it that way, an intimate secret that we share between us.

How to turn a boy into a perfect obedient, devoted puppy...

Start by giving him exactly what he wants. Give him the best sex in the world. Be perfect for him. Get him addicted to you. Be extra submissive. Don't worry, this part should only take a week or two.

Once fucking you is all he can think of, start taking control of the sexual situations. Have him rut into your side. Slip him aaallllll of your tongue when you make out with him. Switch from blowjobs to handjobs. Talk him through it all. But be gentle. You don't want him to want to fight back! At least, not yet. 🤭

Once he's used to submitting to you, it's time to be more forceful. Not too forceful - you don't want him to say no... but as he starts pulling away, you need to start making him take it anyway. When he starts whimpering, coo at him, but don't stop. This is the phase where you start slipping in "good boy." Make sure, if you push him further, to always reward him... for now. 😉

He's doing what you want, even when he doesn't want to... but how are you going to keep him addicted if you push it beyond what he wants? The answer is simple: Lock him in a chastity cage. Buy a chastity cage, don't even tell him, and then after one night where you rewarded him, surprise him... bring it out and tell him to be a good boy and put it on. If he doesn't want to, then just be insistent. Tell him you might just not give him sex if he doesn't!

He should be pretty much wrapped around your finger by this point.

He's addicted to you, and now you're the one controlling his fix.

Get him started in chastity slowly, letting him free a couple times a week. But by week 3, you need to start being stricter. Set fixed timers for the next time he gets unlocked, so you aren't tempted by his begging. Slowly increase the number of days between each unlock. Eventually, you will only unlock him when you need his dick. And, with your newfound power, you'll discover you don't really need it that often! 🤭

Make him fuck you caged, wearing a strap-on. It'll feel so good when all he can think about is pleasing you, instead of pleasing himself. Start humiliating him. Take pictures of him all locked up and cute. Make him watch you play with yourself. Start training him for anal. You don't even have to reward him anymore! All the while, his addiction to you only grows stronger...

Don't worry, he's gonna love it too. 😉

Once you begin, it is almost impossible to stop completely. You may take a break here and there but once you are under the spell. There is no turning back.

Nope! x