I Accept That Until Mistress Toni Takes My Balls I Will Be Caged For Her. @tonilipsticklesbian

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Anything Mistress...

As long as I keep you from having an orgasm, you’ll agree to do anything I want?

The answer to that question when asked of a man on the edge of orgasm is invariably, Yes. Don’t believe me? Try it sometime! Of course, once he has had an orgasm his entire attitude will, most likely, change. That is, unless it is something he doesn’t mind doing in the first place. For example, many men are willing to drink their own cum, so asking him to do that might not change with an orgasm. But what about sucking another man’s cock? Not many will do that without the proper incentive. In fact, I have found that most women who actually want their partner to do something often ask this question in the wrong way or at the wrong time…

What do I mean by that? Here’s an example of asking the wrong question (or asking in the wrong way); Will you suck another man’s cock if I let you cum? Do you see how that puts his reward before he has completed his part of the bargain? Instead, try putting the question to him as a statement this way; I will let you cum if you first suck another man’s cock. Or, You can have an orgasm as soon as you have sucked another man’s cock. See the difference? If you really want your victim to perform something he would not ordinarily do (perhaps something humiliating) promise him a reward only after he has completed the task, not before. I know that many woman have difficulty learning to talk erotically to their partners during sex. Because of this, they tend to be timid when it comes to psychological torment. You may never want your partner to suck another man’s cock (just for example) but making him think that you will, can be very sexually arousing to him. Obviously, if you are only attacking his psyche with your play, you would want to ask the question differently. Instead of making him perform the task before his reward, you simply want him to agree to complete that task. That is, you want him to say that he will suck another man’s cock (or drink his own cum, or dress like a woman, or whatever the task is) before receiving his reward, especially if you don’t plan on making him actually follow through…

Ladies, please understand the difference. Every man who enjoys being sexually teased (and they all do) has fantasies of things he would love to be forced to do. He also has a list of things that he likes to fantasize about being forced to do but would never really do under any circumstances. Your job, as his tormentor, is to learn what these things are and which are which. Then, and only then, can you really keep your partner on his toes and torment his mind, as well as his body, properly. In answer to all the questions I’ve received on the subject… Yes you can make your guy agree to just about anything as long as you keep him from having that orgasm…

Thanks to Mistress Ivey

She kept the cage on for longer and longer periods. When allowed in Her, i was only lasting seconds and something had to change. The second to last time this happened, i went down on Her and ate Her to orgasm. It was only after She had realized i had licked up my cum to do it.

#FLR #prejac #cuckLife

Chastity Ideas - Tease and Denial

Have him shave all his pubic hair.  It is more comfortable wearing a cage when you are shaved anyway.  Every time his goes to the bathroom it will be another reminder of your control.

Assign him to make you a sex toy, or bondage device, like a leg spreader, or install eye bolts to tie him off to.

Assign him a list of chores you want complete, with the knowledge that if they are not done he will be punished.

Make him clean the house dressed as a woman.

Have him hand wash your panties and lingerie.

Have him run an errand for you wearing a butt plug.

Tell him you need new panties and you want him to buy them for you.  When He gives them to you, tell him you think they will look better on him, and make him wear them.

Before he leaves for work, make him lick your pussy and tell him that he has the privilege of smelling you every time he inhales now.

You can set rules for him, like having to ask to use the bathroom, or having to address you as mistress or princess for the day.

#FLR #sissyRules

If you have not already done so, you need to accept that you are you.

I'm referring to being in denial of being trans. In denial of the feminine part of you. This feminine part might turn out to be your everything, as it has for me. Which led me to fully transition and so much more.

You might also find that you can be happy & fulfilled without a full transition. Or just doing some of it. Because we're all different as individuals.

But the first step to truly finding happiness is acceptance of the self. And I'm here to say you have nothing to be ashamed of or uncomfortable about, in having your own feminine needs. When you are trans male-to-female, it is normal for you to feel this way. Normal for me, too. The way we were born.

Is it me or can you not stop watching?

being locked in chastity makes number 2 difficult