Where I belong
even easier whilst locked
Slow and steady
This up there. read it. So little effort for so much reward.
This is useful advice. Keeping him horny... and then denying him. The ignoring him part is absolutely the worst thing you can do, and yet it feels appropriate as a punishment sometimes, yet it never works. It just immediately builds resentment.
Which means that I, as the keyholder, have work to do. It doesn't have to be a lot, but each day I give him a little feminine energy, a little tease, a little tit, a little ass, so to speak.
That is really what this seems to be about. Feminine energy. He wants it, needs it, and if you keep him from cumming, he has a delightful ache and frustration that is energy, good good energy, and he uses it like a younger man, trying to please you, to get you in bed. He's courting you, and that's a fantastic place to be. He likes that, and actually doesn't want to cum, because all the fun goes away. For both of you.
Ladies, don't let him cum. But do keep him teased.
part of life now for a few days a month.
How to Control Your Man
The following is a list of things that you should be doing. Not everything will apply in every case, and there may be things not on the list that work for you.
1. You must absolutely take total control of his orgasms!
You must get him to wear a chastity device of some kind.
You should put it on him yourself and only you should hold the key.
Let him out at your discretion only and only for teasing or release.
2. Control your own feelings of guilt.
He should never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm without your permission.
If you feel he deserves an orgasm… Ruin it!
Remember, you can ruin several orgasms a day, but he can only have one full one.
Full orgasms should be for very special occasions (no more than 3 or 4 per year).
3. You must get into his head!
Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.
Tease him with your words whenever possible.
Find out what humiliates him.
Use his humiliation whenever possible.
4. You must keep him sexually aroused as much as possible.
Talk sexy to him.
Tell him you are going to make him do something humiliating.
Fondle him, or let him fondle you.
Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.
Make him give you orgasms frequently.
5. Make him do something humiliating.
Make him wear a butt-plug for a time.
Make him be naked when you are not.
Make him masturbate for you.
Always, ALWAYS make him eat his own cum no matter where it is deposited.
6. Punish him whenever he displeases you.
Don’t let him get away with anything!
Spank, paddle, or whip him.
Humiliate him in some way.
Put Bengay or Icy-Hot on his cock, balls, or anus.
Make him do anything he hates.
7. No matter what you are doing, or where you are, find ways to tease him.
Fondle him through his pants in public (or in private).
Whisper sexy or humiliating things in his ear.
Make him shop for lingerie with you.
Source: mistressivey.blogspot.com
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