Shortly after I decided to convert our relationship into a wife led marriage, we attended a friends birthday party. My husband Luv ended up really drunk by the end of the night. He is usually a quiet and reserved type of person with an introverted personality but the booze, as is common, brought him out of his shell and he was quite talkative.
As I was driving home, he stated that I shouldn’t let him drink so much. He said he was sorry, hoped he didn’t embarrass me too much and understood if I felt the need to punish him.
My first thought was that he should be able to control himself but then I realized he has always been able to control how much he drinks and that this is one of the very few times he has gotten so drunk. I asked him if he needed me to control him in this way and he just slurred that I should control everything.
I quickly realized that this was a slight attempt to top from the bottom, and had more to do with our new female led relationship than his lack of control drinking. He was letting one of his submissive fantasies slip while being so drunk, something he would never let happen while sober. The alcohol had loosened up his tongue and I decided I could learn a lot about his fantasies when he was so intoxicated.
I told him that I would consider taking control of his alcohol intake and asked him if I did, would he accept any rules I made. He promised to be obedient. Now I knew for sure this was a submissive fantasy.
The next day he was hung over pretty badly. Even though he handled himself very well for being so drunk at the party, and I wasn’t mad at him in the slightest, I decided to pretend I was and give him a scolding about it anyway.
I asked Luv if he remembered what happened last night. He admitted that some of the latter part of the evening was a blur for him and he didn’t remember coming home at all which also meant he didn’t remember our conversation either.
I firmly explained to him that last nights behavior showed that I needed to take control of his alcohol intake, as his drinking was becoming out of control. He meekly stated he would accept my new rules about drinking.
I told him that from now on, he would never drink alcohol without my permission or he would be punished. This didn’t surprise him but the next part of the rule sure did, which stated that I would also be able to force him to consume it. He wasn’t expecting that and asked what it meant. All I told him was that he would find out in the future and he said it sounded interesting. He knows how devious my mind can be.
I held out for about a month and then one weekend when nothing was happening, I executed my plan. It was the first time he drank any alcohol since the party(we don’t drink often). Because we brought our own booze to the party, I knew exactly how much he drank that night and the amount of time it took him to consume it. I could use this information to recreate the conditions to get him to the same level of intoxication now.
I planned an evening in, watching movies and cuddling on the couch. By this time in our female led relationship, I was restraining him quite often so he thought nothing of it when I locked his fist-mitts on him and clipped them together behind his back making him relatively helpless.
I mixed up enough drinks to match the amount he drank at the party and put the booze in baby bottles. I usually use them to feed him liquids when restrained or caged for the ease of use, being spill proof, and also the humiliation aspect of making him drink from them (so cute watching him suck).
After putting the movie on TV, I slowly, over time, force fed him the booze in the baby bottles while cuddling him to my body very intimately, kissing him, making him suckle my breasts, and going down on me. We had a fun sexy time while I got him drunk. I only sipped one glass of wine myself for safety and as I would need my cognitive functions to interrogate him.
Once Luv was drunk enough to loosen his tongue, I kept cuddling and kissing him while asking him questions about his hidden kinks and desires, telling him that he could tell me anything and I wouldn’t judge him badly for his fantasies. Once he revealed something, I told him how sexy the idea was (no matter what I actually thought about it) to reassure him and kissed him deeply to encourage him to tell me more.
Because I made sure he was locked in chastity for a full week prior, he was quite horny when we started and the sexy cuddling teased him even more. The combination of sexual frustration combined with the alcohol worked great and I learned quite a lot that night. Again, he was too drunk to remember anything, other than we has a fun sexy night.
He has no idea that I was data mining him for ideas when he was drunk. He thinks that I’m amazing, coming up with everything on my own and can’t believe how well our kinks align.
People online have asked me where I get my ideas from for the various ways that I control him and surprisingly enough, a lot of them are directly from him.
In this way, he has taught me how to control him without even knowing about it, or being able to top from the bottom in any significant way. It also helps me tune my control style to match a lot of his fantasies to ensure he gets plenty of pleasure from our wife led marriage, as I want him happy while under my control.
Remember, I originally took control of the relationship to please him, and as a way of giving back to him for all the years that I neglected him sexually while stuck in mother mode. Then later, to my surprise, I fell in love with the lifestyle myself.
i wonder how far @dominantprincesshere will take me?
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Dominatrix Annabelle
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Oh my. What a predicament!!
Is there any safe way to get out of hypnotic chastity? I listened to a chastity file a year ago and don't remember the hypnotists name. Now I can only get hard when I'm dozing off or just waking up. The second I am fully awake... BOOM! I become bonerless for the rest of the day.
Mmmm, yes. That’s a familiar situation.
Once you’re snared by hypnotic chastity, it can be insurmountably difficult to free yourself. That difficulty really depends on your hypnotist. Do you know who she is? (In your case no.) Do you still have contact with her? (Also no.) Do you know what she wants or what her intentions for you are? (Sigh. Nope.) Getting in your hypnotist’s good graces is the best way to earn release.
If, as in your situation, you no longer have access to your hypnotist, it may be quite challenging to break free. Did she implant triggers in your head that make you go soft or that make you unable to touch? Are these triggers things that happen in everyday life so that you are constantly triggered to be chaste? Things such as seeing a pretty woman, hearing a bell ring, trying to touch yourself or even just waking from sleep. Did she set it up so that every time you are hypnotically compelled to be chaste the suggestions are reinforced? Are they getting stronger and stronger? Did she implant the suggestions that you are not able to seek help from or even listen to other hypnotists? Did she wrap all of this up in an amnesia suggestion so that your conscious mind can’t quite remember what she said when you were deep in trance?
If so then, my friend, you might be stuck. The more you try to escape, the deeper her hooks will sink into you. Honestly, the best chance you have is to just embrace chastity as your new reality.
Enjoy!
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