Very true!
Many posters on the internet seem to have absolutely no idea about the theory of male chastity and masturbation control, and how wonderfully it can enhance erotic pleasure for both husband and wife.
So many of the comments seem to be based on pain and punishment, or on the idea that masturbation is bad (it isn’t). All of that misses the point…
First of all, if a man is kept in chastity for long periods without any hope of release, chastity will only train him to mentally block out his feelings of desire. And in any event, his body will release semen as needed by way of wet dreams. Where is the fun in that for me as a woman?
I have found that the best way for a woman to use chastity control over her man is to keep him guessing when he will be out next. That way, he will always expect that he could be unlocked at any time, or that he may be kept locked for many days…
But he must never know!
I am always very careful not to let him detect any sort of pattern in my strategy. I might let him out a second time the same day, or I might unlock him only after several days.
When I am in the mood for sex, I can let him out knowing that he will be in the grip of uncontrolled desire for me, just like it was before we were married. When I am not in the mood for sex, I will let him out when I decide he needs to relieve himself, so that he cannot learn to build resistance to my feminine power…
I just never let on when that will be. While he is locked, I use subtle teasing techniques to build his desire to a fever pitch, already knowing when I will let him out, but leaving him helplessly clueless about it. This is also about keeping my man as attentive and devoted to me as he was when he first proposed on his knees to me.
As I observe his reactions, that only helps to build my own desires as well, but I am in control. Then, when I am ready for some real passion, I unlock him and the sex is as good as the wedding night for both of us. Every time.
My husband fully understands how the best sex results from being denied for a short period while I create his desire, just like a great meal is best enjoyed on an empty stomach, rather than after snacking on cookies and sweets all afternoon and ruining the appetite.
The only problem is that this can only be accomplished by my control of his chastity, because he cannot resist the urge to masturbate at the first sign of arousal instead of waiting while it builds. After experiencing sex My way, he has learned to willingly submit, knowing that the big payoff will come later…
Incidentally, I might add that I have absolutely no problem with what chastity does to his attitude toward me.
He has become very obedient and devoted to me. There is no more important key to a successful and lasting marriage. As for punishment, on the rare occasions that my husband needs to be punished, I never use chastity for that purpose. Instead, I simply wait until it is time to unlock him, and insist that he submit to a spanking before I unlock, which he readily does. That way, even his punishment brings us closer, rather than further apart. That is much better than not speaking to him or freezing him for a couple of days…
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ah, the nipplegasm. It had been so long since my last cum and yet here it is. not even anything touching the cock and the slow release of pent up frustration crashed out while doing laundry.
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This is for all the people who own nipple clamps. If you don't have any, clothespins work great! (If you don't have clothespins move your ass to the store and buy some)
I want you to wear them today while you do a task you've been putting off for the last few days. I'm sure there is something you don't want to do but have to. Yes, that one. Put on your clamps and get to work.
Do remove the clamps after 15 minutes for a 5 minute break, then put them back on. Repeat that until your task is done.
Good boy.
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At least someone can get their dick sucked in the relationship lol
Those that know, know. A Superior that knows the buttons to push. How they can willingly get you to do what They want.
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