Beneathyoualways - A Work In Progress...(i'm A)

Most will never understand this. Be it FLR or MLR, to get to this level in a relationship. The confidence and want. The desire. IT is relationship bending.

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Like a pet on his Domme’s feet. That’s you, slave! *

Ms Becky, Is there any chance of getting an explanation from yours or even your mans POV? About what femdom 24/7 is truly like, the nitty gritty bits that aren't as fun as my male fantasy would have me believe? A sort of fantasy vs reality kind of thing? Muchas Graciás. CincoDeMartin

Your question is based upon the assumption that there ARE nitty gritty bits that are not fun. Not sure if it’s a relief or a disappointment to you, but there are none. There’s nothing not to like about femdom. At least: not from my point of view.

How is that possible? Simple: if it’s no fun, I don’t do it; if something bores me, I do away with it. It’s really no rocket science.

I should add that while I practice femdom 24/7, that does not equate to me barking orders continuously of him kneeling at my feet etc. at all times. We have our ‘vanilla times’ - it’s just that the power dynamics will always be present, be it sometimes a little more in the background.

What about his point of view? I don’t know and I’m not going to ask him to post his views. I have been getting questions from readers about his views, his feelings, his possible misgivings and I have not answered them. Yet. For one thing because I don’t know and I am reluctant to discuss them with him. Because that might give him the idea that the terms of our relationship are negotiable, while they’re not. These terms are not fixed, but any changes are up to me alone.

However, having written this I believe I should look up those unanswered questions in my Inbox and see what I can say about them. (Probably won’t be easy and not just because I do not know all the answers - it might involve some soul-searching as well…!)

Physical pain can’t hold a candle to this I would rather be punched by the strongest man alive than feel like that, ever again

How To Control a Sub

The following is a list of things that you should be doing. Not everything will apply in every case, and there may be things not on the list that work for you.

1. You must absolutely take total control of his orgasms!

You must get him to wear a chastity device of some kind.

You should put it on him yourself and only you should hold the key.

Let him out at your discretion only and only for teasing or release.

2. Control your own feelings of guilt.

He should never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm without your permission.

If you feel he deserves an orgasm… Ruin it!

Remember, you can ruin several orgasms a day, but he can only have one full one.

Full orgasms should be for very special occasions (no more than 3 or 4 per year).

3. You must get into his head!

Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.

Tease him with your words whenever possible.

Find out what humiliates him.

Use his humiliation whenever possible.

4. You must keep him sexually aroused as much as possible.

Talk sexy to him.

Tell him you are going to make him do something humiliating.

Fondle him, or let him fondle you.

Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.

Make him give you orgasms frequently.

5. Make him do something humiliating.

Make him wear a butt-plug for a time.

Make him be naked when you are not.

Make him masturbate for you.

Always, ALWAYS make him eat his own cum no matter where it is deposited.

6. Punish him whenever he displeases you.

Don’t let him get away with anything!

Spank, paddle, or whip him.

Humiliate him in some way.

Put Bengay or Icy-Hot on his cock, balls, or anus.

Make him do anything he hates.

7. No matter what you are doing, or where you are, find ways to tease him.

Fondle him through his pants in public (or in private).

Whisper sexy or humiliating things in his ear.

Make him shop for lingerie with you.

“Someone swears his true love Until the end of time Another runs away Separate or united Healthy or insane

To be yourself is all that you can do”

(lyrics: be yourself, performed by Audioslave)

with me locked, it is not like i can do much of anything anyway.

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