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Important Read our Disclaimer first! Each relationship is individual. Some wives are married to a man, who likes to dress as woman. Now she has to come to terms with that situation. Other women would like to have such a husband or boyfriend, but he is not into that kind of fetish. Not always it is so easy, that a dominant woman can feminise a willing male with cross-dressing tendencies. Anyway, this is a guide for the woman, who wants to take control over a male in order to feminise him. This includes the wife, who discovers she is married to an according fetishist. Even though she might not be dominant, it is best for her to switch this to her own advantage. Such males, no matter if they are forced to fem or do this out of their own accord, are called “Sissy”. Even though the manhood of a sissy is suppressed, even denied, she remains biologically male. According other web sites, there are various types of Sissies, e.g. lingerie sissies, socialite sissies, sex sissies, sissy maids, dolls, bimbos, models, sluts, pony-girls, cuckolds, whores, lesbians, girlfriends, slaves, even sissy babies. While these are interesting aspects, they are not really relevant for the sissy training. There is hardly any individual, who is a pure representative. Most sissies are a combination of several of these groups. The reason is that these categories are not consistent. Some are about sexual orientation, others about the type of preferred attire, and others again about activities. My own sissy would be found in seven of these groups. Even by just considering her main characteristics, she could not clearly be categorised. You get my point? For sissyfication there is a basic training, which applies to all. Later, when it comes to details, there is variation, either due to the likes of the sissy or the preferences of the domme.

Our guide about feminisation and sissyfication covers these topics: Basic Training Outdoor Training Indoor Training Training Contour

Guide to Feminising Your Sissy

Introduction There are a three things I consider a must, when you sissify your partner. This applies to all sissies, no matter, if they have no other purpose than to do the housework, or if she will be your lesbian lover. Already with this basic training you will have a worthy sissy. It consists of these three aspects:

Chastity Corset Lingerie All of these training issues have one big advantage. They can be hidden. No outsider will notice anything under your sissy’s regular everyday clothing. Therefore, these things will be worn more or less permanently. Even when going to work, there is no need to do without, and the training can be conducted without interruption.

Chastity Training When you begin the training of your male to be sissified, make sure you take control over her sex life as quickly as possible. A chastity device

The CB6000 perhaps is the most popular chastity device. must be ordered. Since steel chastity belts are made to measure, they have long delivery times. Therefore, it is best to start with a standard chastity device. They are always on stock. Every individual is different, and so there is no general recommendation, what your sissy shall wear. Anyway, I’d try the CB6000 first. It is the most popular device at a reasonable price. Once your sissy is locked, you can gain experience and try other options. The reason, why your sissy must be kept in chastity is obvious. It must be prevented by all means that she handles herself. Males in general have no discipline, and sissies in particular are even worse. Being feminised turns them on! Especially the fine panties covering and tenderly caressing their sissy clit would permanently stimulate the genitals. But also the other undergarments and the treatment add up to it. Whenever she would be out of your supervision, she would look for a toilet or some other unobserved place, and relieve herself; several times every day. No, no, and no! Not only is that disgusting, it also misbecomes a sissy. She wants to be a woman, and therefore must act like a woman. That means no erection and definitely no tight grabbing and rubbing that result in ejaculation. The only way to force her to behave, is to lock her away in chastity. Apart from that, it is much fun to have her sissy clitty trying to get an erection, which the tube pointing down inhibits effectively. Even though it could grow much more, it is restricted to the rather small cage, and just fills it up, what gives her additional excitement.

Needless to say that the sissy will be locked in chastity 7 x 24. The device will be removed only for cleaning once a week, maybe only once per fortnight. You will find out for yourself, what is best for your trainee. Just make sure, she has no chance to touch herself, when it is washed. Of course, when the keyholder grants an orgasm to the sissy, the chastity device will be taken off for a few minutes, and afterwards put on again immediately.

This steel chastity belt has especially been designed for sissies. It has a front shield like the female chastity belts, which covers the tube and at the same time gives the perfect feminine silhouette in the genital area. In addition, it is a hip model. This means, the belt does not lock around the waist, so it can be worn together with a corset. It is important that the corset can be laced and removed, since the chastity belt will remain on day and night, even when taking a shower. There is even more to it. As already written on the introduction page “Controlled Chastity” to this web site, male chastity has some remarkable side effects. These are very much in favour of the trainer, especially that the chastity trainee becomes more attentive to her keyholder. This is the reason, why also non-dominant women should grab the chance and lock up their partner, when they come to know those cross-dressing tendencies. To read more about this subject, click the according link “Home” at the bottom of this page!

Make sure this effect of attentiveness can be maintained for the rest of her sissy life! This though, needs some attention and action from your part. Experience shows, that the state of horniness builds up for about three weeks, until it reaches its maximum, and then slowly wears off. It is definitely not true that temporary orgasm denial will lead to a much more intense orgasm, after it exceeds the mentioned peak. This might be true for the first few weeks, but not later. If a male is kept chaste for maybe one full year without any counteraction, he will lose the ability to be stimulated at all, which includes no more erection possible. This is also something we do not want. Our sissy should be full of desire all of the time and worship her master

It is up to the agreement the keyholder and the sissy have, how to solve this problem. Most popular is that the master grants his trainee an orgasm by masturbation, when he believes it is adequate. Others like to have sexual intercourse with their sissy from time to time. My own sissy will get a prostate milking, since I neither want her to wank nor to penetrate anybody. This is done when securely locked, because I don’t want her to have an erection either. Unlike a real orgasm, where you afterwards start again from zero in building up her desire and submissiveness, the prostate massage makes it dip just a bit. That way, you will permanently keep her in a quite high state of arousal. I let her have this type of relief all three to four weeks.

Anyway, it is crucial for the health of your sissy to regularly empty her prostate, where the semen builds up. As mentioned, this can be done through orgasm or prostate milking. The sperms, which remain in the sack without ejaculation, can be ignored. The testicle occasionally will excrete them separately without any further body fluid.

Corset Training Nothing shapes the body better than a corset. A sissy must have a feminine figure, and the best way to achieve this, is tight lacing. Forget about exercise in a gym, and forget about a diet! That might fight the worst overweight, but it will not do more. And be honest, you really don’t want your sissy visiting a fitness studio, eying all the girls in their tight outfits, and at the same time building up muscles, don’t you? In addition, the corset will control the eating habits of your trainee. She will automatically eat less due to the forced waist reduction.

This sissy is securely locked in a steel chastity belt and tightly laced in a Victorian corset. What a lovely figure! For best results, corseting is a more or less permanent thing. It should only be removed for the daily shower in the morning, and perhaps a brief break of a few minutes (not more than 20), when preparing for bed. Of course, the corset is worn all night.

Since we are talking about a sissy, and not just an ordinary man, who wants to improve his figure, it is best to order a corset designed for women. Men’s corsets are no good, because they just flatten the tummy, but do not really pull in the waist at the sides. We want our little sissy to have a feminine curve.

For further information about serious corset training, do also consult the according pages from our sister site “Beauty Discipline”. Even though the training there is written for women, it definitely also applies to sissies, or any men, who want to improve their figure. Visit the Guide for an Efficient Corset Training.

Lingerie Training Unlike the corset and the chastity belt, which must be ordered, the underwear of your sissy can be replaced at once. The first thing to do is to collect all of her male underpants and singlets, and put them somewhere out of reach. She needs female panties and girdles, also some chemises. It will be great fun to go shopping together. Do help her! Or for the start, you can get these items on your own and surprise her. Just imagine her face, when she discovers all of her male undies are gone and there is only lovely lingerie for her to wear. Perhaps she can use some of your undergarments until she has her own. Anyway, from now on, she will only be allowed to wear nice women’s underwear. This can even include an A-cup size bra.

Girdles are also nice, especially when they have garters. Just be aware that tight panty girdles are not very convenient, when your trainee wears a chastity device like the CB6000. The ring around her testicle will press against her bones and cause pain. The choice of panties depends much upon the type of chastity device. A steel belt offers more flexibility here.

Sexy lingerie also suits a sissy well. My little plaything always wears either an open bottom girdle with straps, a wide suspender belt, or uses garters attached to her corset. Her hold-up stockings have seams. This can perfectly be hidden under her clothes, when she goes to work. For me, not the panty is the centre of sissyfication, it is the garters. And sometimes, when I dress my doll like a slut, she wears no panties at all. In that case, her sissy clit has to be locked away in a transvestite type steel chastity belt. Other chastity devices would just show in an unwomanly manner.

Having her wear garters also increases the awareness of her state. The plastic knobs in the clasps holding the nylons can be detected under the trousers, when a rather thin cloth tightens over them. She will always see to it, that no one will discover these suspicious bumps and other outlines, which can be identified as what they are. Since she nearly constantly concentrates on avoiding detection of her little secret, this of course also makes her keep her mistress in mind. What a wonderful thought!

Bottom Line You might ask, are these things really necessary? Does my sissy really need a chastity belt and a corset? Isn’t it enough to train my husband to be obedient? You can always discuss the measures. Every trainer and every trainee have own preferences. Just keep in mind, we are talking about sissyfication and not about slave training. And a sissy is not necessarily submissive, even though most of them are. Of course, you can feminise a male without locking her sissy clit in a chastity tube. But don’t forget, this is a chastity web site in the first place. And when it comes to the corset, shall your trainee look like an attractive woman, or just like a man being forced to wear women’s clothes, without any concept? That is the difference to a sissy! I am sure, you got the idea.

Outdoor Training Introduction When talking about “outdoor” training, I don’t mean courses of action done out in the free nature. It just refer to the training from that moment your sissy leaves the own four walls.

Most sissies have a job, where their femininity is not tolerated. Therefore the training measures must be kept secret. We don’t want our trainee to jeopardise her job. Nevertheless there is some further feminisation that can be done additionally to the basic training. A few of these points can be performed without any problems. Others depend much upon the type of required clothing at work. These are just ideas. You must judge for yourself, what is feasible in the specific situation and what not.

When you send your sissy shopping though, more can be dared. The same applies when you go to the movies or dining together. Depending on how much your friends and neighbours should know, it must be weighed carefully, how far you want to go, when attending a party or spending a visit.

Outdoor Training at Work One thing that always can be done, are Painted Toenails. Have your sissy paint them in a slightly darker shade of red, but nevertheless shiny.

Get your sissy some Pants with a Feminine Cut. This includes that the zipper has to be opened with the left hand. Much fun is to replace the pants of a suit with such pants. If the cloth is the same, nobody will notice; well definitely no men. Perhaps some attentive woman in the office might realise this little difference, but will not think much about it. If your trainee can work in a more informal way, get her women’s jeans, with the zipper to be opened from the other side and an extra high trouser waistband, so they do not sit low on the waist.

Have her wear a Blouse instead of a shirt. Similar to the zipper from the pants, the buttons of the blouse should be on the “female” side. A blouse is perfect together with a suit. But also when dressed in a more informal way, it is a nice option.

According the basic training your sissy ought to wear garters and stockings. Now do not cover them with men’s but with Girlish Socks! They don’t necessarily have to be pink, even though that suits a sissy well, but nevertheless they must be purely female. The elevation of the pants, especially when sitting, but also when walking, will bear the risk of being discovered, since the gap between shoes and pants increases. She will be very aware, where she will sit, and when walking will take rather small and careful steps.

Since A-Cup size silicone Breast Forms are small, no-one will notice, when your sissy attaches them. Despite their little size, your sissy will feel womanly, when she leaves the house. I recommend she not only uses such enhancers, but also wears an according bra as well. Of course, this is not necessary, when the artificial breasts are self-adhesive, but adds to her training. These forms are not to be detected under a suit or other clothing, as long as she wears more than just a thin top. A-cup breast forms are so cute! Have your sissy wear a Bracelet. Since only few men wear such, it doesn’t have to be very much feminine for the training effect.

Instead of a bracelet, you can also get her a Woman’s Wrist Watch, but not too extreme; just a moderate type that perhaps could go as unisex. Or let her wear both; the bracelet on one side and the watch on the other.

You can also have your sissy wear Women’s Shoes. If they have no heel higher than the heel of men’s shoes, they can pass as unisex as well. Just see to it that they are inconspicuous in both, design and colour.

These are just ideas. If some of them are not appropriate for your sissy at work, you can use them when you go out with her for entertainment or shopping.

Outdoor Training for Entertainment and Shopping To start with, when you go out dining, to the cinema, a theatre, a shopping tour, a fair, wherever, your sissy can be feminised substantially more, than when she goes to work. So what you find in the previous chapter also applies for this one, just that everything is a little more feminine, more extreme.

The pants and the blouse will purely have a feminine cut, and a Woman’s Blazer will be added.

Now a Necklace or necklet will complete the jewellery of bracelet and watch.

The shoes she will be wearing now have a Moderate Heel, perhaps something like 2 cm to 4 cm (1" to 1½").

The Silicone Breast Forms now are one or two sizes larger, than when she goes to work. In summer, probably a B-cup size will do. In winter, when she wears a thick pullover and a coat, she might even go for a C-cup size. You will see for yourself, what is best for your sissy. Anyway, it is good to have artificial boobs in all sizes handy for her training.

Don’t forget to apply some moderate Make-Up as well!

I advise that everything is done in a manner, that it is not obvious. Only somebody looking carefully should realise. Most passers-by will not be aware. Only people directly confronted, such as a waitress or a sales woman might notice.

Indoor Training Introduction Now we are entering the nitty-gritty of feminisation. While the outdoor training rather is about exposing your sissy in public, the indoor training is where you really achieve progress concerning her abilities. It is done in your own home. This is where you can form her, so she is the way you really want her. You don’t have to care about her employer, your neighbours, any friends or acquaintances with whom you are socialising. No, it is where you can make your fantasies become reality!

High Heels An absolute must for your sissy is to get used to wearing high heels for an extended time. The best way to get her used to heels is have her wear them as much as possible. The first thing for her to do, when she returns home from work, is to slip in some high heel mules, perhaps with wedge cork heels. No barefoot walking and no flat shoes are allowed inside the house. When it comes to dressing, she will wear the pair of high heels, her trainer has prepared for her. The heels must have at least 8 cm (3"), depending on her foot length; her normal shoes can also be as high as 13 cm (5"). This of course is the net height, meaning the difference between actual heel length and an eventual platform.

Even in bed this training is continued. Since her feet can rest at night, the heel can be much higher that what she is able to walk in. I suggest two options. Either some light sandals with a 15 cm (6") heel or even better are ballet heel boots without heel. In such heel-less boots she will not be able to walk, but why should she leave bed anyway. To make sure your sissy does not remove her “bed” shoes, see to it they are lockable. Perhaps you have to construct or combine something yourself. If she must go to the bathroom anyway, well that is tough luck. Then she has to crawl. Training has priority! Such heel-less ballet boots are ideal the train the sissy’s feet at night, when sleeping. Many sissies want to wear the highest heels possible. While it is more than welcome, she is so enthusiastic about this issue, you have to see to it, she does not exaggerate. This for two reasons. Once the heel reaches a certain height, the angle at the end of the shoe is so steep, nearly her entire weight will be on the balls of the foot, and only few will be supported by the heel. The other is for an aesthetic appeal. It simply does not look nice, when her foot is forming an over-obtuse (or reflex) angle.

When training the feet to get used to wearing high heels, there is one more thing you must consider. Already after a few days of non-stop foot training the Achilles tendons will start to shorten. When your sissy leaves the house in men’s shoes daily, that is no problem. If you have the chance to train her for several days, perhaps due to holidays, be careful and avoid this side effect!

Walking Wearing high heels is one thing; walking in high heels is another. And have her walk gracefully in heelers again, is something different. Nevertheless, this is the goal and has to be practiced again and again. It may take years until your sissy has the ability to walk like a model on the catwalk at a fashion show.

One shoe, from tip to heel, must be placed in front of the other on an imaginary line. Advanced trainees can even slightly cross their feet over. The steps should not be substantially shorter, than a woman walking without high heels. In the air, the feet should rather form a semi-circle, and are not moved parallel to the ground, as usually done. She shall not exaggerate this movement though; we are training a sissy, and not a pony-girl. In addition, when stepping down, she should place the front sole only, while the heel initially does not find contact to the floor. When she is about to lift her foot again, the back of her shoe should be turned quite noticeably inwards, around the toes, what is extra sexy and very eye catching. At the same time, she must swing her buttocks in a most erotic way. This hip-wiggling is favoured by the twist of her shoes and can additionally be supported by an anal plug.

As you can see, it takes a lot for your sissy to walk properly. It is impossible to handle all of these different techniques from the start. I suggest you train them separately. Later enhance the programme by combining two or three of them. Do also train different variations! She must be very skilled, before she will be able to fulfil all these requirements at the same time.

Breasts

This is a nice G-cup size silicone breast. Note the big erect nipple! Inside the own four walls you have the chance to let your sissy wear false breasts. The size is up to you. Some masters though prefer to keep their trainees FLAT in the chest. This is to remind them, what they really are. I personally like to see my sissy with larger than average boobs. This also reminds her, what she really is! Clothing The clothes a sissy wears are very individual. While a sissy maid most likely will put on a French maid’s uniform, a sissy slut will be in her black, shiny, patent leather, micro skirt and a very tight t-shirt. So there is not very much more I can say. At home, you can go to the maximum you desire, so get her dressed as extremely as you like!

Make-up The same goes with the make-up. Shall she look like a vamp? Or just discreetly paint her face? It depends on the type of sissy, and your preference and goal. Don’t forget the fingernails. For an entire weekend, it is worthwhile either to attach false nails or to paint her nails according her role.

Types of Sissies As already written on the introduction page, there are many categories of sissies. Especially indoors is where to take according differences into account. Some training is pure practice, while other is expected action, defined by her function. She has a duty and must do a job.

Is she a sissy maid, it is her task to do all the housework such as cleaning, washing, cooking, serving at table, and all the other household duties. Of course, properly dressed in her uniform. A sissy cuckold will be forced to watch her wife or girlfriend having sex with another man. This type of sissy needs a lot of humiliation. A sissy lesbian is the lover of her mistress and keyholder. There will be a lot of tenderness in this relationship, caressing and kissing. Nearly daily there will be sexual action, where the sissy licks her superior to wonderful orgasms, while being kept chaste herself all of the time. These are just examples, since there are dozens of sissy types. Anyway, for the sissy training as such it makes no difference. At this point it is up to the trainer (and the agreement with the sissy) in which direction the specific training shall go. How to Talk While the looks of your sissy is one thing, the behaviour is another. It must be brought in accordance with her new role. This starts with the way she talks. It simply does not suit a sissy well, when she expresses herself like a university professor. She shall not use complicated words, and form easy, straight forward, or even better incomplete or perhaps ungrammatical, sentences only. She shall rather talk about cosmetics, make-up and fashion, and avoid scientific topics or profound comments about the world economy. Anyway, she must give the impression that she is rather naïve. I like it that way. It gives me the pleasant feeling, she needs to be patronised, what I gladly do. This must be practiced at home, but also when you leave the house together, this easy rule must be followed.

Female Attitude In general, her movements and her appearance must be adjusted to a female way. Her attitude has to fit together with the optics. She must not only look like a woman, but also act like one. In the previous chapter, I pointed out the way of talking. While that is more conditioning her brain, especially her movements need hard work on the physical side to achieve the effect wanted. I already talked about the art of walking, what probably is the most difficult goal of all. But it must also be trained, how to hold a purse, where to place her hands when sitting, and especially, how to keep herself busy, when being idle. Being a woman yourself, you are the best teacher, since you know exactly to what in particular attention should be paid.

Your sissy may have a certain pride. After all, she is something very special. Just see to it, she does not become haughty! She must be taught some modesty. I believe it is inadequate for her to look straight into the eyes of others. She may seek eye contact though, but only for a glimpse. Then she must lower her eyes again. Of course, depending on the type of sissy, other “qualities” might be wanted. If you are training a sex sissy, perhaps you like her to have an obtrusive, even impertinent, voluptuous glance.

The Ultimate Beauty On our sister site “Beauty Discipline” you find information, how to transform a woman to become a walking embodiment of feminine grace and beauty. Even though those pages were written for women, much of it also concerns sissies. It is worthwhile getting further ideas there, especially when you decide for a serious training.

Training Contour Guide to Feminising Your Sissy © Controlled Chastity, 2013

Introduction In the previous pages you got some ideas, what can be done to feminise your sissy. Now it is time to talk about the how. In particular this includes soft skills, arranging the relationship, and some practical advice. These are aspects that should not be forgotten and perhaps are more relevant than the pure training goals.

Love Your Sissy Yes, this is the first and most important point. If you love your sissy, actually not much can go wrong. Then you can take most of the following points more or less for granted. Even a very submissive sissy deserves your respect. If you despise your sissy, and just want to hurt and insult her, for what motives ever, then you are visiting the wrong web pages. In that case a femdom site would be better suited. Of course, a loving relation can also include humiliation. In that case though, it is done for the fulfilment of both parties. Read more about this topic in an own chapter below.

Responsibility The more a keyholder, a domme, whoever takes control, the more somebody submits in a relationship, the greater is the responsibility the dominant part assumes. It is the logical continuation of the first point. This means, the trainer must take care of the sub, is responsible for her well-being and her needs. If she gives all decisions over her sex life to you, handle this faith with discernment! The same goes for all other decisions you must take for her.

Contract When you and your male decide he will be feminised and become a sissy, it is helpful to draft a contract, which will be signed by the two parties. This will avoid misunderstandings and make sure the interests of both parts will be followed. I read several such contracts in the internet, but none of them really convinced me. They are more or less slave contracts, which not really focus on training a sissy.

For me, these aspects are crucial and must be defined in the contract:

The signers: trainer (master) and trainee (sissy) Place and date signed The signatures Duration of the contract (I suggest one year to start with. Also allow a probation period of three month, where either party can pull out immediately!) Action required, when the expiry date is reached (Negotiation –> renewal, modification or discontinuation?) Goal (Here you can specify the type of sissy, e.g. sissy maid, sissy bimbo.) Training (Here you explain the main measures, so the sissy achieves the desired looks and behaviour.) Duties (Here you explain in brief the main duties, the expected job of your sissy.) Responsibilities (of the master) Sexual Orientation (of the sissy: lesbian, bi, “gay”; must be respected in training!) Sex life of the sissy (Important! Willingness to a life in chastity, wearing a chastity device, transferring all respective decisions to the master.) Sex life of the master (Must the sissy satisfy her master? Is she the sexual plaything of her master? Any role the sissy takes in the sex life of her master May the master have an additional partner for sexual intercourse? May he cuckold his sissy?) Various (Here you can specify additional points that are important, e.g. the sissy must worship the body and person of her master. Of course, you and your sissy can add further aspects in own paragraphs, or in this one “Various”.) The more precise you draft the contract, the less misunderstands you will have later. We want to have a relationship in harmony, where both parties have fun and can live out their inner nature. And do keep in mind, at this point your sissy is a partner with her own wishes and desires! The more you let her fulfil her dreams, the more you will have a pleasant relationship, which also is in your interest. Of course, everything is negotiable. It is better though not to demand too much from your sissy that she does not like. Be patient, and one year later, when it comes to renewing the contract, you can talk about it again. Believe me; at that point it is more likely your sissy will give in! She will be used to her new role, and doesn’t want to miss it any more. The more you give her a good time with the necessary respect and discernment, the more she will trust you, your new ideas and the way to handle them.

Make Most of Your Relation Having a perfect sissy is fun; feminising a male to become a sissy is even more fun. Therefore, it is not wrong to say that the training is the goal. Even though you defined a result, how you want your sissy to be, the way to reach there is very fulfilling. That is why it should be done in a manner, it will last for as long as possible. Of course, once you reach the initial goal, you can define new treatments to keep this state on-going.

Once your sissy has reached a certain level, you may want to expose her to other people. Start with your best male friend later more of your male friends can be added. Do start moderate and intensify the feminisation slowly. Observe the reaction of other people, and perhaps even go one step back to slowly increase again. Your sissy will feel embarrassed. This is wanted and gives the trainer a lot of pleasure. Unfortunately the sissy quite quickly gets used to the humiliating effect, and it wears off quite rapidly. If you progress fast, the fun part, which is the training as such and her interaction to it, will not last very long. This is why you should feminise her very slowly. That way you and your sissy can enjoy the process for many years. Health Since you are responsible for your sissy, you must see to it that she remains healthy. If she is a smoker, the first thing to do is that she stops at once. Also drinking alcohol must be reduced to a minimum. Like her orgasms, this now is in your hands. On the other hand, she must have enough movement to keep her in shape. It also belongs to your duty that this will happen.

When it comes to training, not everything is without risk. Safety comes first. Don’t demand the impossible; remain with the feasible! In the basic training, I already talked about heath aspects of tight lacing and orgasm denial. Other training methods might also lead to results, which are irreversible. In the first place I think of shortened Achilles tendons, when the high heel training is done on a 7 x 24 basis. No matter what training you apply to your sissy, check the consequences first!

Rewards To motivate your sissy, you should give her some rewards. When I drafted the training programme, I defined milestones on the way of feminisation. When she reaches a milestone, it is always a good time to reward her in some way. Of course, you can also give her a reward, when she does something very well, or is exceedingly attentive. The range of possible rewards is very wide. It can start with something rather symbolic, like allowing her to drink a glass of beer. Or she may choose the movie that you will watch together. Perhaps you will let her decide which restaurant you will visit next time, and allow her to drink a glass of wine. You might also grant her an orgasm. You know your sissy best, and you will always find a way to show your appreciation. In addition, don’t forget to praise her! The effect is not to be underestimated. A small occasional praise will fill your sissy with joy, perhaps even pride, and additionally motivates her.

Punishment Whenever training is involved in a BDSM or a fetish relation, the question about punishment is raised. I have a clear approach here, though this might not meet everybody’s approval. In most cases punishment is inappropriate. If punishment actually is, what the sub desires, where is the punishment? The reverse is that the domme wants to punish and invents reasons to do so. Both extremes have nothing to do with punishment in its actual sense. This implies that there will never be a punishment without real reason.

When training your sissy to femininity, occasionally punishment is necessary. I can imagine two reasons, where this is the case. Either she does not bring up the necessary discipline, so the training does not show the progress expected. Or she neglects her duties, does not do her job properly. I just ask you to be fair here; don’t demand something that is impossible in the first place! Anyway, I expect that the trainee will improve and not do the same mistake again. Therefore, the punishment has to be effective.

Explain to your sissy, what went wrong! Tell her, you really don’t want to punish her, but you just cannot tolerate her misbehaviour! Unfortunately her punishment is necessary and therefore cannot be avoided. If you enjoy, you can even pile on with telling her that she brought you in a difficult situation by forcing you to do something (her punishment), you really don’t like to do.

There are two types of punishment, I find rather effective. One is just to intensify the training, where she did not bring up the necessary discipline. Enforce the discipline by locking your sissy to whatever was the cause, e.g. lock her into high heeled shoes, or lock a belt around her waist, so she cannot loosen the laces of her corset any more. Of course, since this is part of the training anyway, have her locked in for an extended time. After some time - it may take hours - it will become more and more uncomfortable. Well, that is her punishment. Leave her locked; perhaps for an entire weekend!

The other type of punishment will also teach her to better herself. Very effective is to deny her an orgasm, she usually gets. Since my sissy anyway never gets an orgasm - just prostate milkings - I had to look for other options. I found her hobbies. If she likes to watch certain television programs, perhaps sports, she is simply not allowed to do so. Or no television or even better no internet access at all for maybe two or three weeks. Whatever your sissy likes to do as a hobby, just don’t let her! Something else could be food. Let her eat no more meat for a week or two, only vegetables. You know best, what really hurts her there.

One more thing, when you punish your sissy. Don’t exaggerate with the duration! When you don’t let her watch her favourite television programme, let’s say for six months, you risk of running out of sensible punishments. What will you do then, if she needs punishment again after three weeks? Then you will end up in having three, four, five punishments running at the same time. That will not motivate your sissy to be a good girl; it will just frustrate her without any training effect. Punish your sissy wisely! That way you can demonstrate that you are really sublime, like a benevolent goddess from another world, and the more your sissy will trust, love and admire you.

Humiliation Somehow feminising a male and humiliation go hand in hand. Though this is not true in all cases, it applies to most relations, where a sissy is involved. Already the situation as such - the manhood of your trainee is being ignored and denied, and he is transformed to become a woman, though remaining biological male - is humiliating. That your sissy might undergo this process voluntarily makes no difference. Just keep in mind that reality rarely is like she imagines the situation in her fantasies! Actually, it is most likely she imagines the humiliating effect already in her fantasies and is turned on by just simply thinking about it. It would be irresponsible not to give your sissy the portion of humiliation she in fact craves for.

Don’t mix up humiliation with punishment, and don’t use humiliation to punish your sissy! Humiliation is part of the training. Done correctly, you will have fun in humiliating your trainee, and your sissy in the end needs and enjoys it. That doesn’t mean that she does not feel uncomfortable, when being humiliated. No, not at all! But she gains her thrill out of the situation.

What do I mean, when I say “humiliate your sissy correctly”? The wrong approach would be to just expose her in public in a manner, where she simply is unmasked, or when you force her to actions, which are disgusting to her. The correct humiliation is about limits. How far can your sissy imagine going? Okay, now approach those limits. She will feel humiliated, because reality is always different than her fantasies. Observe her! How does she react to humiliation? Depending on her reaction, you might want to go one step back, and again slowly approach and then exceed that point. This is done by increasing the intensity. Or bring in a new aspect! Just see to it, that it is done slowly! What I have already described in the previous chapter “Make Most of Your Relation”, in particular is very true for the humiliating treatments. That desired responding behaviour of shame and embarrassment wears off quite quickly. While she felt ashamed two or three weeks ago about something, the same thing may not have an effect any more today. In order to keep the enjoyment alive as long as possible, do not overload humiliation!

Of course, humiliation does not end, once you reach the fantasies of your sissy. No, when you slowly soften the limits, is where the real fun part begins. Since your sissy in reality is addicted to humiliation, she might protest, but in the end she wants it. Give it to her! Push the limits further, step by step. You will both love it!

You might ask: “That sounds fine to me, but how shall I humiliate my sissy?” The answer to that is quite simple. In the first place it has to do with exposing her. When you take her out in public, for shopping or entertainment, she is dressed, perhaps made-up, in a way, that might be discovered or not. Add some obstacles, which make it difficult but nevertheless possible for her, to hide the feminisation! She will concentrate that detection by others will not happen. The next time you can change her appearance slightly by making it a little more probable somebody will notice. Observe her and enjoy her discomfort! Next step is to arrange a situation, where discovery cannot be avoided! For example, when you go shopping with her to buy her some new undergarments, talk openly in front of the saleswoman! The next increase then will be, to do the same, when you buy sexy underwear for her, an erotic suspender belt and other items women usually wear to turn their lovers on. Or girdles; I love girdles on my sissy, especially when they have an open bottom and garters. The ultimate item to buy in a store will be an open bottom corselet. Also here applies what I said before, increase slowly! Start with some basic panty, and over time go shopping for more and more humiliating undies! She will feel very embarrassed and barely dare to look at the face of the salesgirl. What a thrill for your sissy to be humiliated in such a way. She will love it! The same also goes for buying shoes. The highest level of humiliation though is not to get her stilettoes in a sex shop or an erotic boutique. Already the fact that they have large sizes there, demonstrates that it is nothing special for a cross-dresser to get sexy footwear at such a place. No; take your sissy to a normal shoe store or the according shop in a department store! Nobody expects any men to openly try and buy women’s shoes there. You can start with a rather neutral model, and slowly increase the humiliating effect by going for a more feminine design, colour and of course heel height.

Before I was talking about “additional obstacles”, which increase the chance of being detected. Let me give you an example, so you understand what I mean. Have your sissy wear very soft and fine nylons! The surface must be very smooth; you know, the ones with a wet-look effect. As already stated in the “Outdoor Training”, add girlish socks to cover the ankle and lower part of her leg! Make sure these socks are not very tight, so they tend to slip down! This bears the double risk of being discovered; once by the socks themselves and then by the glossy nylons, which suddenly are visible as well. It is great fun to see, how your sissy will walk very carefully to prevent the socks from sliding down. Of course, she will not entirely succeed. Therefore, she will constantly look for a chance to pull the socks up again. So to avoid detection, she must do something, which attracts attention, she tries to avoid in the first place. What a dilemma for her! This is the humiliation I enjoy most; when it is done in a very subtle manner, and the sissy doesn’t have the slightest idea, it could be a wanted effect that I have staged from the start.

Another place you can confront some non-involved people is a restaurant. When the waitress does not notice by herself, drop a comment when she is present to draw her attention to your sissy. Use your fantasy! Nearly everywhere you can enforce her discovery by some passers-by; when you go to the movies, at a parking lot, in the underground, anywhere.

A very special humiliating effect can be reached, when you involve somebody, who is known. If you have a male friend, to whom you have no secrets, he is the person. Share your passion with your best friend! Invite him over to help you to feminise your partner! Let it come as surprise to your sissy! The expression on her face, when you show her up, is priceless. Of course, this should only be done, if you have faith in your male friend not telling any other non-involved people.

Enjoy With my thoughts about humiliation, I end this guide about sissyfication. Now there is just one last thing, I like to say, when you feminise your sissy: “Good luck and enjoy!”

Sissies need to meet some simple, yet humiliating, requirements if they want to become sissy maids. Buttplugs are to be worn at all times. This serves the dual purpose of stretching sissies out for easier penetration and as a constant reminder of your status. Chastity Belts are to be worn at All times when you are not in dresses or skirts. This includes work, shopping, etc..When dressed you may use the toilet, but you must sit to pee. This will help break you of your silly male pride. Underwear worn by Sissies in training is of course frilly and female – You must wear panties throughout the day. Sissies in need of extra discipline will be strapped into a tight fitting corset. Sluts must wear stockings or pantyhose as well as extra tight panties or corsets. You will begin to replace your male clothing, bit by bit, with appropriate attire. This is why we require a full wardrobe list.

Practice with a dildo nightly, Sissies need to be ready to service their Master at all times, so you should be prepared to wear your butt plug while you are cleaning, polishing, scrubbing, ironing and otherwise serving your master Corner-masturbation is used to discipline all maids and sluts, both new and experienced. Occasionally, Sissy-sluts are in need of extra discipline, they are sent to Mr Leslie for a session of corporal punishment. They are usually cured after one or two sessions. There is nothing more enjoyable for a Master than dressing up a sissy and watching the submission and humiliation processs that prepares the male for Sissy Maid service. First of all I throw away all of the clothes you wore when you were a free male. Then, you are shaved by other slaves and bathed, scented, and coiffed: your hair colored and cut, your make up done, your breasts pumped up by a special corset and your nipples dyed, your penis tucked back and tucked in so that it does not interfere with your smooth, feminine profile. Once you are looking your feminine best, smelling of my favorite perfume, and dressed in a pretty white frock, I tell you to show me your cock: “Show!” is one of the commands you must learn and means that you are to masturbate until your penis is extended to full length. I like to see it the first time sticking up and out from underneath your dress. Exact measurements are made of its width at all points, digital photos are taken, and a clay mold is made. All these are sent to a special friend of mine from whom I order restraining straps, steel boned bras and, most importantly, male chastity devices with customized locks…. I have been using these devices to tame and monitor my sissies for years; some of my maids are fitted with permanent chastity belts, others are permitted to serve me with their teeny cocks neatly tied back a pretty bow. Next you have a chance to show your Mistress what a big ‘woman’ you are. Go to the corner and kneel down, facing the corner. Take your little sissycock in your hand and SHOW your mistress how womanly you can be! Good. Now bend over and lift your ass slightly. That’s it. Spread your cheeks out as wide as possible and let me measure your anus for your dildo and butt plug. That’s it. I want you to take this eight-inch dildo up your ass with out a word. That’s it. Right up. I want to see the whole thing disappear into that big cunt-hole. No need to be shy – we both know that you fantasize about being fucked up the ass. And there are plenty of dildos that your ass will learn to accommodate in the course of your maidly duties…. I am sure you will gradually learn to cherish these duties; you will thank me for them daily while you are spanked, pumped, and plugged. Before you are sent back to your wife or womanfriend or aunt, you will have a new maid, a new set of values, and an urgent desire to serve as a sissy maid, to clean, iron, wash, launder, sweep, scrub, cook..

Usually, sissy maids in training are dressed in very womanly clothes like frilly panties, lacy teddies, silky slips, tight-tight corsets, stuffed bras, and of course, high heels. Little ankle socks with Mary Jane shoes are also popular. Pink ballet tights and tutus are permitted for sissy-maids, crotchless panties, short leather skirts, and thigh high garters for sluts. I usually dress the sissy myself after her morning spanking, prepare her enema, insert her butt plug, and/or dildo, and schedule her next penis milking. or her morning milking. My strict and uncompromising standards turn out the best and most desirable of maids, endlessly humiliated and ridiculed in public and therefore, extremely submissive and ready-to-serve. They make excellent whores, maids, and pets.

Prostate Massage and Prostate Milking What sissy doesn’t smile at the thought of having something hard firmly stroke her prostate? Whether being repeatedly pounded by a stiff, tube of man flesh or caressed by the warm, loving fingers of a partner, manipulating the “Sissy G Spot” is a surefire way to reduce your girlie boy into a quivering mass of simpering lust. My little sissy hole practically pulsates as I write this…

Sure, I really enjoy getting my ass jack hammered and copious amounts of my lover’s body fluids injected into my colon but deep anal penetration often doesn’t give the same G Spot experience the way direct manipulation does. Prostate Massage and Prostate Milking are really special and bring into my erotic play to a whole different level.

I expect that, when people read “Prostate Massage and Prostate Milking,” many people will be a bit confused. Most people think of Prostate Massage and Prostate Milking as being the same – and from a clinical standpoint, they are – but there are differences between the two when you use them for erotic play. With regards to erotic play, both techniques drain the prostate of its juices but one provides sexual pleasure while the other is concerned with orgasm control.

As you probably already know, the prostate is one of several glands in the male body involved with intercourse. The testicles produce sperm that mixes with fluids made by the prostate to produce cum – yummy, yummy cum. Since the prostate is so close to the rectum, it can be stimulated manually via the anus. Manually manipulating the prostate can cause it to release its fluid and when done correctly, can really affect your orgasm.

Massaging the prostate can be done to help bring about an intense, mind-blowing orgasm. This is why the prostate is often called the “Male G Spot.” One partner slips a finger or a toy up into the other partner’s anus to massage the prostate while also giving a hand job or a blow job. The combination of external and internal stimulation often results in stronger orgasms with more fluid ejaculated – a win-win for both partners! This approach to playing with the prostate usually is called “prostate massage.”

Like so many kinks, what turns me on isn’t always strictly physical. The emotional and/or psychological aspect of the kink is super important - and playing with my prostate is no different. “Prostate milking” is the term commonly used to refer to the erotic, non-orgasmic variant of prostate massage, especially between people who incorporate elements of orgasm control and/or chastity into their partnerships.

When done correctly, prostate milking can be used to drain the fluids from the prostate without triggering an orgasm. The act of draining one’s prostate while not orgasming can be an emotional experience. On the flip side, prostate milking can be used to trigger an orgasm without an erection. Orgasming from penetration only while you are flaccid can be life-altering. In either case, it is a tremendous mind fuck.

If you are a sissy like I am, there is a very special meaning to orgasming without having to get an erection. It can really do a job in your head about not being a real man. Some of my best orgasmic experiences have been when milked while being totally soft.

Then there is the whole D/s orgasm control aspect. This is not really orgasm denial as much as training the submissive to be able to orgasm in more than one way and under the control of the dominant but I’ll have to write about this in a follow up post.

Like any skill, prostate milking is easy to try but takes a bit of practice to get good at. Since it involves sticking things inside one’s body there are some risks involved so a certain amount of caution should be taken such as protective gloves, condoms, lube, etc. There are loads of pages on the Internet that give step by step instructions on prostate massage, these are mostly medically-oriented (see digital rectal exams). Only a few discuss the milking aspect to it in any great detail and hardly any do so with a sissy in mind. Unfortunately, there is quite a bit to be told, so I’ll try to do so in follow up posts.

In the meantime, below is a t-gurl self-milker in chastity. Now this gurl knows how to milk! Yum!

The best way to do a prostate orgasm is for her to insert her a latex gloved finger in your anus and to find your prostate gland and to massage it. Done correctly, this will cause you to release built up semen out of your penis. It is like an orgasm, only it is not intense. The semen kind of just flows out in a long stream, instead of shooting out like during an orgasm. If she really wants to deny you pleasure, she can numb your penis and balls with an ice pack before she performs a prostate milking. There are web sites that list how to do a prostate milking if she needs additional information. I allow my husband occasional orgasms but they are done in humiliating ways and for my entertainment. Perhaps your wife could do that instead of the prostate milkings. Inform her of her options and allow her to decide how she would prefer that you obtain your rare release. I hope this helps you. Your wife is correct in that a denied husband is an obedient husband. A sexually satisfied husband is a lazy husband. Sex is for the woman’s pleasure. Recent studies conducted in Australia speculate that men who regularly masturbated, while in their 20s, may have better chances of avoiding prostate cancer in later life. There’s never been a better reason for masturbation!!

With the above in mind perhaps men locked in chastity devices should receive regular milking to help maintain good prostate health. Milking may help to “flush out” the build up of toxins which accumulate within the prostate gland of a chaste male by enabling him to ejaculate without experiencing orgasm.

Prostate Milking can be used for two purposes:

To intensify orgasm and increase the amount of ejaculate. In such instances you or your keyholder would release you from your chastity device and whilst simulating the prostate gland, tease, excite, and arouse your cock.

To milk a man dry, whilst denying him orgasm.

Milking in terms of chastity is concerned with orgasm denial, ejaculation without orgasm. The technique used is the same prostate massage method, the only difference is that the penis is not to be aroused or excited by touch, and usually remains locked within the chastity belt or cage. This is something many keyholders like to introduce, and now with the news of the Australian study your keyholder can insist it’s for the benefit of your health. You have no reason to refuse!

Prostate milking sometimes involves your keyholder placing ice around the cock and balls to reduce your enjoyment. Inventive mistresses and masters have even designed home made ice trays to freeze the water in a shape of a thick ice cock ring, which the chaste man must wear during the weekly milking session.

The milking session usually lasts between 10 - 40 minutes, and is a pleasurable gentle massage of the prostate, after about 10 minutes you will begin to release fluid which has a sensation similar to slow urinating, after continued massage the fluid flows out freely. This then becomes the property of your keyholder, and perhaps collected as it drops from you in a jar, cup or saucer. Some keyholders will insist that you then consume your own ejaculate, as a demonstration of your slave status, that you are humble, and fully appreciative of your keyholder.

Of course another method to ensure good prostate health, which your keyholder may prefer to adopt, is to simply release you from your chastity device and instruct you to masturbate until you ejaculate. This is preferred by many keyholders who love to watch their chaste male masturbate for them.

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I’ve been a believer in the “milking” procedure for male slaves. Some on this group may find it of interest. Male pleasure, from orgasm, occurs when there is strong pulsation as he expels the semen. The muscle contractions are what allow him gratification. If you want to deny pleasure, you must find a way to lessen the force of the contractions, yet extract a discharge of semen. You may remember your high school or college discussion of Pavlov and his dogs. He conditioned them so that they salivated upon hearing a bell ring. All animals, including humans, are subject to being conditioned in the same manner. Well, you do not want your slave salivating; you want him to come to orgasm by dribbling his cum, rather than having a pleasurable climax. This will decrease the intensity of pelvic flexing; yet permit emission of the semen.

If you want to train your slave to produce this result, I suggest that you begin by always calling it his “Milking.” You should also combine ritual with Pavlovian type conditioning. Here is how to do it: RITUAL: It’s important, for conditioning to occur, that there be uniform and recognizable signals given to the subject. Once these are established in his mind, he will respond each time to the same stimuli in an identical manner. But, you can only obtain this conditioning/response reflex if the correct type of training is employed. To reach a successful result I suggest that certain items and words be used constantly during the conditioning ritual. Thereafter the same items, acts, and words will result in the same response. The items are 1) A rubber dishwashing glove, 2) A strap, rope, etc. to be used as a c&b device, 3) Rope, wrist restraints, etc. to secure the subject during training, 4) A nice container in which to store the items above, 5) A chair, hook, or some other place where the procedure always takes place, 6) Words used only when speaking of this procedure. The words should be “Milking Time” for the day of the procedure, “Milking Place” for the chair, hook, or place where it is to take place, “Milking Equipment” for the contents of the container mentioned in 4) above. CONDITIONING: Once a week, over a period of three months, the sole sexual relief for the male should be through his being “Milked.” The procedure used is aimed at allowing him only the weakest muscle contractions as he reaches orgasm. Unless the slave is properly conditioned, he is likely to seek ways to increase his pleasure during the procedure. He will begin to clench certain muscles at the proper moment, thereby having stronger contractions and a more pleasurable orgasm. To acquire the ritual items, have the slave purchase all of the “Milking Equipment” and a well-finished box for storage. The box can be a nice locking tea caddy found at furniture stores in most malls.

He should then be ordered to keep the box and its contents in a place of honor. Perhaps his Mistress would like him to maintain a votive candle burning in front of it at all times. Or, she might like him to purchase an expensive silk cloth as a cover for the box. A chair (or ceiling hook - if you like your slave suspended on tip-toes) or other place should be established as the “Milking Place.” It should be used exclusively for this procedure. You want the subject to acquire strong association with the place and the equipment. The Mistress should wear one rubber glove on her “Milking Hand, during the process. By sight and the smell of the rubber, he will mentally unite the glove with the act of having an unsatisfying orgasm. After he is fully conditioned, when he is restrained in the “Milking Place” the mere act of the Mistress placing the glove on her hand may cause him to dribble out his slime. During conditioning there should be an established “Milking Time.” This should be the same day of the week, and hour of the day. The slave’s reflexes thereby are trained by his anticipation as the time draws near. He knows what is to transpire, and learns to produce that which his Mistress expects and desires. MILKING: At the appointed “Milking Time” the slave is instructed to prepare the “Milking Place” and to present Mistress with the box containing the “Milking Equipment.” It is important that she use these terms, strengthening his association with them, and the procedure. He is then to assume a proper kneeling position and offer the box to his Mistress. She should delay accepting it until, under questioning as to his desires, the slave states, “Please Mistress, may I be Milked?” The Mistress should then announce that it would give her great pleasure to have his slime only trickle out of his organ. “Will you assist in accomplishing that, slave?” she asks. He agrees. She then tells him that if he has a strong orgasm, she will be most displeased. He agrees to make her happy. She then takes the box from his outstretched hands. Unlocking it she removes the wrist restraints and other bindings. She hands them to the slave and orders that he go and await her at the “Milking Place.” He is to kneel there and meditate on how he will assist in seeing that the “Milking” is the type desired to bring pleasure to his Mistress, not to him. After a proper delay, the Mistress enters the “Milking Place” and secures the slave. She then applies the restrictive device (ropes or strap) to his organ.

It is important that the restriction be rather secure around the root of the organ. You want to prevent semen from flowing up his urethra as much as possible. She does not rush any of this, rather takes her time and sees that she does it the same way each time. When he is fully restrained the glove is removed from the box. Mistress does this with great respect, as if the item is to be revered. Mistress can wear some special lingerie each time she performs the “Milking.” Reverently laying the glove atop his erection, she leaves to put on her special clothing. This puts the restrained slave alone with all of the physical items for his “Milking”. He is left there for several minutes, his anticipation building the entire time. Mistress returns, dons the glove, and begins the slow methodical “Milking”. No lubrication is used, and the glove is not allowed to slide over the organ. At the first twitch, pulsation, or other indication of approaching orgasm, she quickly removes her hand. She does not resume the almost mechanical “Milking” for a full minute. Sixty seconds is a long time when excitement is high. It is, however, necessary to wait out the full time prior to resumption. This same routine is carried out again and again, ceasing each time that there is the slightest muscle twitch observed or suspected. During the sixty seconds that the “Milking” is not taking place, the Mistress should tell the slave how well he is doing, how much pleasure she will get from his having a dribble orgasm, how displeased she will be if he has strong contractions, how he must relax and not do anything to spoil her pleasure, etc. This, in conditioning terms, is the reinforcement stage. The grand finale is a little squirt from the cock slit, followed by his slime slowly oozing out. While this is occurring Mistress should again give positive reinforcement. Tell him that what is happening is what Mistress wanted, that it gives her great pleasure, that he is a good slave to please her, that once he is fully trained (I’d avoid telling him that he is being conditioned) he will be rewarded with a full orgasm on occasion. Tell him that before he can return to having full orgasms he must be completely trained in being “Milked.” Tell him that when he reaches the stage that his being “Milked” produces consistently “deliciously unsatisfying” orgasms, Mistress will consider a reward.

REINFORCEMENT: Positive reinforcement should be used when appropriate. It may seem strange to use praise in a FemDom situation, but is a necessary component for conditioning to occur. On the other hand, poor performance requires negative reinforcement. If the subject produces a less than satisfactory result to the “Milking” there must be punishment. Within the context of a Mistress/slave relationship there are usually few things that can be inflicted as true punishment. This is, of course, because of the pain/pleasure dichotomy for which the subject is looking. Each situation is different, but negative reinforcement requires that the subject associate it with it being a penalty, not a desirable event for him. Because of this, only the most general suggestions can be made. Cotton swabs and capsaicin (pepper) cream, to swab the urethra, or particularly painful nipple clips, etc. Just make sure that permanent damage is not done. Whatever the Mistress decides to use for negative reinforcement, she should make the slave buy it, have it available at the “Milking Place,” and keep it in his constant view. She wants the slave to see the penalty that waits (for unsatisfactory performance) while she is encouraging him, toward a successful result, with positive reinforcement.

IN CONCLUSION: Most Mistress’ do not want to be utterly cruel and remove the slave’s ability to reach full climax. What you likely want, is total control over the type of orgasm the slave can experience. You want to create strong association with the “Milking” time, place and equipment. You want the slave so conditioned that when he is told that he is to be “Milked,” and when he sees all of the ritual items, he produces the desired result. Once the slave is fully conditioned, the Mistress can revert to monthly or some other schedule, for orgasm by the male. The only caution is to use the “Milking” terms exclusively for when you want him to have that type orgasm. When you want to allow him a full-blown orgasm, just go for that. Mistress should discard the one glove of the pair, keeping only the one for her “Milking Hand.” At any time that this glove becomes soiled with slime from the slave, it must be thrown out, with the slave purchasing a replacement. If Mistress wants to feed the slave whatever he expels, she should use her non-gloved hand. All of this is so the slave comes to regard everything associated with “Milking” to be special. The above is respectfully submitted for the pleasure of any Mistress; and for the frustration of male slaves. If these techniques are used, the slaves are doomed to “deliciously unsatisfying” orgasms whenever that will give pleasure to their Mistress.

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