Source: Somethimesidesirefemdom

Each time we try something new, my thoughts are alive with curiosity and control, savoring the way each experience reshapes you, deepens your devotion, and sharpens our connection.

When I lock you in a smaller cage, I think about how it molds you, tight and unrelenting, a constant reminder of your surrender. I imagine the way it keeps you aware of your place, the way it sharpens your focus on me, making every thought circle back to your Queen. That small piece of metal is a symbol of my power, always present, always binding.

When I hand you the strap-on and watch you fit it onto yourself, my heart races—not with nervousness, but with exhilaration. There’s something intoxicating about seeing you take on this role for me, knowing that even in this act, I am still the one in control. As you move against me, the heat of your body blending with mine, I guide you with my hands, my sighs, my whispers. You’re not leading; you’re following my rhythm, my needs, my desires. The pleasure you bring me isn’t yours—it’s mine, gifted to me with every thrust, every ounce of focus you pour into making me feel utterly divine.

When I train you to please me better with your mouth, my thoughts linger on the sensual details—the way your lips press against me, the way your tongue learns the rhythm that makes me sigh. Each adjustment is another step toward perfection, another piece of you molded to serve me. It’s not just about technique; it’s about understanding me, reading me, worshiping me with every kiss, every breath, until pleasing me becomes your instinct.

And when I’m spent, when my body relaxes and my pleasure has been completely fulfilled, I glance at you. You might wonder if it’s your turn now, but the answer is clear: we are done when I am. Your role then shifts seamlessly into service. You clean up the space, prepare my bath, and ensure everything is ready for me to relax in perfect peace.

Every new experience is another thread binding us tighter together, a sensual exploration that brings you closer to the ultimate reflection of my desires. It’s not just about the physical acts—it’s about the way each one reminds you that your purpose is to amplify my pleasure, my satisfaction, and my power. And that thought, my sweet one, is as thrilling for me as it is for you.

Just be certain to tease it once in a while!!

This is such a great trick to get your gag reflex out of the way!! Especially if you have not been practicing.

Happy New Year

Well damn...

Communication is key to any relationship.

For women considering locking their man in chastity, how would you describe the change you see in him? Is he more calm, desperate? Eager to please? How long is the best time to keep him locked to keep him in the right frame of mind to serve you?

Its a huge change, once you've got the trial and error period sorted out and found a device that he can wear for you long term which is a bit of a challenge but well worth the effort. Its a game changer for her. No exaggeration here the change is real.

Once hes got through the first few days of wear and the mile stone here is getting him to wear it to bed and be able to sleep reasonably well in it you've cracked it and its time to reap the rewards of your time and effort getting him fitted. (Check out denying thumpers blog for excellent advice on fitting, size, types ect)

He will become very attentive and focused on you, you will find his attitude and manners vastly improved and all his energy and time will become almost zoned in on you, its quite remarkable and hard to belive at first but you just wait 😉.

Whats happening here is his sexual energy is being pent up as he can't realise it through masterbation anymore and as it builds without realise it drives him to centre on you his only source of sexual realise. This drives him to please you anyway he can. Be prepared for gifts, pampering, housework you didn't realise he could even accomplish on his own lol and a noticeable increase in interest in you personally and your femininity.

Theres a sweet spot around two weeks where he is like putty in your hands as he is now practically worshiping you as his goddess. The reason being is his sexual energy is peeking and this energy drives him on to new levels of service to your pleasure.

Now the best part about all this, if it couldn't get any better, is his sexual service to you, he is going to want sex very badly by this point as he can't have intercorse he is going to be begging to provide oral service for you and trust me you haven't been licked this good by anyone. Its fantastic! just lying back having a more than willing man go to town with his toung, he is desperate to please and you just lye there or stand and enjoy knowing you don't have to reciprocate. There's nothing like it and your sure to orgasm long and hard. I sure do 😆.

Take the plunge and get him locked, once you do you'll never go back. I honestly don't understand how this little devices isnt on the front covers of every womans magazine in the land. You can thank me in two weeks 😁.

When locked in chastity the plug is often all I get

woman, man, master, Mistress...any or all

Pretty sure my Wife has lost the key

#FLR

Some day ☺️