When Everything Everywhere All At Once Said “The Only Thing I Do Know Is That We Have To Be Kind. Please,

is there a term for "miserable misanthropic loser with a comfortable life that grossly exaggerates society's role in their self-fulfilling prophecy of being a miserable misanthropic loser" because I notice this archetype of person always hijacks labels like "NEET" and "incel" (the latter of which was originally coined by a bisexual woman in good faith)

which of course never accurately describes them or their lifestyle because their problem is just that they're so angry and self absorbed they can't even realize that 90% of it is just them. and then they always try to gatekeep these labels from people who aren't as angry and miserable as them despite having similar (or the exact same, or even worse) problems because then that means it's actually possible for them to realistically improve themselves and it's not all society's fault that they're the way they are

I think it sucks that these people always take over such communities and labels because they can be useful and they could be good communities to encourage people to get better but these fellas always want to turn it into a misery circlejerk where they pretend that willingly not going outside and being unable to relate to healthier people is the worst thing ever, they're such based loners, and no one else knows true suffering

I have sympathy towards people who have been screwed over in life and are struggling mentally but it's really obvious that a lot of these people are actually the architects of their own misery. They're just in denial of it, but instead of trying to work on it, they lash out at everyone else

No I will not be giving you the chip, Mr. House.

This took 27 minutes

btw the new meta is making yourself as standofish and unappealing as possible and then feeling bad when everyone is scared or put off by you. this always works because if you do it for long enough some how people inextricably start being deeply attracted to you. it just works dude seriously

Confession: when I was younger I would often roleplay as male characters so that I could (attempt to) romance the female characters. AMA

Open another front. In the land war, just open another front. Surely you will not regret opening another front.

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Yay, I've been tagged.

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Last TV show: Blue Eye Samurai (it's really good)

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Sweet, spicy, or savory: Savory? Kind of a bland, eats-bagels-plain person myself

Current obsession: Being anxious about procrastinating but not actually doing the thing I'm procrastinating on

Last thing I googled: "Do intelligent people drink more" (I wanted to see the data so I could complain in my head about how biased it was) (not every study is created equally)

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chain post was long so i'm restarting it, thank you for the tag @dr-deathdefying !!!

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Currently watching: Doctor Who (rewatching/random classic who eps)

Sweet, Spicy or Savory: savoury

Relationship status: in a relationship <3

Current Obsession: Doctor Who forever and always

Last thing I googled: still life with oysters and lemon

tagging @whycellothurr @youcouldbewonderful @lurking-latinist @heimeldat @sokkalore @sightofsea and anyone else who wants to share <3

Whatever they have going on is funny.

i am goings to touches you .

I'm sorry for your loss.