Fuckkk!!! I need some of this tonight! Where are you baby girl? Come curl up with me! Let me feel your soft hands knitting through my hair, caressing and stroking! Let me feel your warm, delicious, little body against mine, my arms wrapped around you, holding you close! Let me feel your warmth, the rise and fall of your chest, your heartbeat slow and steady! The soothing sound of your voice as you whisper, hum, sing absently to me! Sometimes daddy needs comfort too, the reassurance of your touch and the calm only you can bring to me!
Be unique! Be yourself! Don’t let others judge you! They don’t know your life, your journey or what you’ve faced! You are beautiful for who you are! Own it and embrace it!
Have you ever made anyone cum to stop their cramps?
Yes, I have! Both with fingers and playing and with sex! I know that doesn’t work for everyone but I am more than happy to do anything I can to help alleviate some of the pain and I’ll jump at any opportunity I get to make my baby girl cum!
Hi!
First of all I would like to apologize if at some point this question bothers you, but I would like to ask for advice.
My partner (M) and I (F) have been together for a year and a half, he is completely vanilla with strong traditional convictions and I have had a past linked to bdsm and the Dom/Sub relationship.
The truth is that when we first started dating I told him about it and he told me that he didn't care, but that he couldn't see himself hurting someone he loved. I didn't bring it up again because I had that part of me asleep, but now I feel like I need that again and I don't know how to introduce it and make him see that it's not pain, but something that goes beyond that.
Could you please give me some advice?
Thanks in advance.
There is nothing for you to apologize for. I’m happy to do what I can to help and you’re not the only one to have run into this issue before. I’ve even had partners that were very vanilla and I had to adjust to what they were comfortable with. I don’t know that any two (or more) partners ever exactly match their kinks and levels. So you have to find what works for the both of you. It’s a growing process for you both and the key is being able to talk about it. The trouble is that talking is often the hard part for most people. Do you feel you can talk about it with him openly and that he will receive what your saying? That’s going to be key and it will be tough if he can’t meet you that far.
Exploring kinks can be a challenge for the vanilla flavored people and especially if they are the victim of traditional brainwashing. Yes I say brainwashing because that’s what I feel it is. People can be so conditioned by their family, culture, religion, society. It’s hard to shake that. Their brains are so conditioned to think of all kinks as bad and they really can’t process how satisfying those desires can be so freeing and liberating and fulfilling. The key for you to open up his world is going to be doing it by small increments. Think of it as expanding his horizon and comfort zone. You just may have to be a bit patient with him and always check in with each other afterwards.
Most partners really want to please each other. Hopefully yours is the same way. So if you sit him down and explain that this is something you are desiring and that you want to share with him and that it will really turn you on I’d be willing to bet that he will at least listen. Don’t start him out with whips or nipple clamps or anything that will make him feel like he’s hurting you. Start him out with some basic power play maybe. For example tell him that it really turns you on when he tells you to suck him and how, or to manhandle you into what position he wants you to be in. Tell him you love it when he pins you to the bed. Or maybe suggest tying you to the bed. Something soft and easy for him to buy in to. I think once he sees and feels how you react to it that he will be on board to try some more. Then you can gradually introduce more into the equation. Do you guys ever sext? Try sexting with him about a fantasy like that. Seeing if you can get his anticipation up. Guide him towards the things you want because remember that he has no clue about that stuff. His ignorance and lack of openness comes from his conditioning. It’s up to you to break that and guide him. Remember that a d/s relationship also requires the sub to guide the dom in her comfort levels. You’re just unfortunately starting from zero experience.
He’s probably not going to turn into the master dom to your sub but hopefully the two of you can reach a happy middle that gives you some of that d/s experience you crave while opening up his world but still making him feel comfortable. I hope you have some success with it. I’d love to hear how it goes and if the two of you are making progress together. I’ll be sending you both some good d/s vibes!
😍😂😂😂🤣🤣 Truth!!
Every good girl who wants to try being a slut should have at least one sexual relationship with a man substantially older than her. This list is funny but it’s 100% accurate, and it could be much longer. Older men know how to communicate. They know how to listen and create a sexual experience that is what the little slut wants and needs. They understand mental foreplay.
This is how I need you, baby girl! Wrapped around me, our bodies tangled and pressed together in sweetest embrace! Body and soul connected. Your soft skin against mine. Hot breath on each other’s lips and skin. Hands caressing, clutching and claiming. Desire growing until cuddles and caresses turn to gentle thrusting and grinding. Hardness penetrating delicate soft wet folds. The connection complete. Bodies quivering and throbbing, contracting and convulsing. Desires and needs whispered in each other’s ears between hungry kisses. Emotions, connection, love bared in our eyes as we stare into each other’s souls. Time at a standstill and endless. The world lost and inconsequential. All that matters is here in my arms and wrapped around me. This is how I need you, baby girl!
morning. evening. always
Always be kind! It costs you nothing and could mean the world to someone else. You don’t know the struggles of others, what they are dealing with or suffering through. Know that how they treat you is a reflection of how they feel about themselves and not about you. So show them love. Show them kindness. Show them a better path. Always be kind!
I don’t mean to sound slutty but your blog makes me so wet I love your writing your stories are so hot your blog makes me melt and I get tingly and wet and oh god I love your blog 💗
Awww, thank you, sweet girl! I’m so glad you enjoy them and thanks for saying hi! 😘
I love this so much! It is so true! So many doms and subs really need to understand this and how important it is.
Let’s go baby girl. Let’s take off to the woods. Find someplace nice and private, all to ourselves. We’ll get naked and stay naked all weekend long. Just us in nature, loving each other and making love! Skinny dipping, laying under the stars, having adventures, playing and fucking whenever and wherever we want to. Are you ready baby girl?
Hell ya
It was a beautiful sunrise on the beach this morning! Started the day off with a half marathon with friends. Then drinks and lots of laughs. A great way to spend the day! Now I’m ready for a nap!
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